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Filipinas always ask foreigners the same questions

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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Wed Aug 27, 2014 9:01 pm

hammanta wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:If the general population of females thinks that then what should a reason you give for your stay then if this is not your first time visiting?



I actually enjoy the culture and people outside of women. I actually have a good excuse for being there, I have a family I stay with. I also just tell the girls I like their country and impress them with my knowledge. I can also tell when the girl is a potential lay or she is more reserved based off her body language. I base my straight forwardness off of that and I'm not pushy if she seems uncomfortable. If the girl wants to screw then she will give off some vibes, at least that has been the case for me. I've actually left a girl hanging who wanted to come back with me (after a few beers :P) because I promised her I wasn't a bad guy and wouldn't try anything. Yea ole' moral me right? lol

My point is that most girls are not ignorant to the fact that guys come there to get laid, many being less desirable types. They also understand though that there are good guys that come there as well. Another personal stat, I've never met a filipina who doesn't know at least a family member or friend that married a foreigner. This creates somewhat of a positive light.

Most girls will have the natural assumption that you are there for sex. It is up to the foreigner to prove her wrong. That's not to say they won't give you a chance or even sleep with you, but you need to get them to trust you. Prove that you are a good guy. Now I'm not an advocate of lying or manipulation so if that's all a foreigner wants, they should stick to P4P.


its been said most filipinas want p4p anyways. IN other words they will say they want true love and marriage but most are happy with a p4p relationship in the end so they use the decption too. Alot of guys on the philippines addict mongering site said most girls if you offer money on the dating site will bite. I remember some guy mentioned one specific girl on the dating site who i happened to have had cammed before they said that they asked if fun or serious and she said either but hwen i was talking to her it seemed like she was looking for relationship however she kind of had an attitude and was quite hot and she actually was hard to talk to and get ahold of so i blew off the whole thing of ever meeting eventually she remove me off of skype and datingsite mysteriously one day.

Another case is i had a graduated nurse girl who was willing to go on vacations and accept my money right away. many other examples.
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Postby Mr S » Thu Aug 28, 2014 2:18 pm

Filipinas ask about military retirement cause they know the guy gets money 'pension' from the government, thus, they think he is already rich and taken care of and thus if she were to marry him would also be taken care of and also possibly inherit said pension upon his untimely demise...
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Postby droid » Thu Aug 28, 2014 2:28 pm

Jester wrote:I don't mind a golddigger if she puts out and acts classy. I use her, she uses me. I get that.

+10^3 Exactly.
In a way we always "use" each other, be it looks-looks, money-looks, love-love and other permutations
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
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Postby Hero » Thu Aug 28, 2014 5:39 pm

droid wrote:
Jester wrote:I don't mind a golddigger if she puts out and acts classy. I use her, she uses me. I get that.

+10^3 Exactly.
In a way we always "use" each other, be it looks-looks, money-looks, love-love and other permutations


Quite right. Marriage is a business arrangement. Hopefully there's some love there, but the truth is that each party has to bring something tangible to the table to exchange. The man gets sex and companionship from a young sexy woman, and the woman gets a roof over her head and 3 meals per day.
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Re: Filipinas always ask foreigners the same questions

Postby MrBlueLight » Thu Aug 28, 2014 11:45 pm

Will N. Dowd wrote:I swear Filipinas on dating sites ask foreigners all the same questions. It's like they are all reading from the same questionnaire, or you are chatting with the same girl over and over again.

Here's my top 10 list of questions I almost always gets asked.

1. Are you sure you're here? Ridiculous but I've been asked this many time
2. What are you doing here? See answer to question #6
3. Do you have relatives here? The "Ants" in my apartment.
4. Who's with you? I usually say strangers, since I came alone, or my luggage.
5. Do you have a wife? No thanks, Marriage is the leading cause of divorce.
6. Do you have kids? No, but like to practice making them.
7. How many girls have you met? Lost track long ago.
8. Do you have a business here? No, I'm retired.
9. Are you retired US army? Why do they keep asking me that?
10.What's your work before? I was a supermodel gynecologist.

Anyone else have any favorites?


Here's an idea. If they are all asking the same questions, then how about we band together and give the same answers. If they see all the men are given the same answers, they won't ask those questions anymore.
In regard to p4p girl. Any time the girl brings up money is the time I stop responding to her, period. The only girl that I would spend money on would be my gf. And if she doesn't bring up money, then I assume ignorance. There is no a priori contract or agreement, so why should I spend money on her just because we jumped in bed together?
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Postby Halwick » Sat Aug 30, 2014 3:17 am

In addition to the questions that Dowd mentions, the Filipinos I've dealt with always ask questions (in rather direct manner) that relates to my job status, how much money I make, where am I from, do I own a house, what kind of car I drive, etc. And of course, there's the questions about my marital status and what do I think of the Filipina women.

I know exactly where these questions are leading up to.
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Postby Halwick » Sat Aug 30, 2014 3:21 am

Mr S wrote:Filipinas ask about military retirement cause they know the guy gets money 'pension' from the government, thus, they think he is already rich and taken care of and thus if she were to marry him would also be taken care of and also possibly inherit said pension upon his untimely demise...


In other words, "matandang mayamang madaling mamatay"
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Sat Aug 30, 2014 3:30 am

Halwick wrote:
Mr S wrote:Filipinas ask about military retirement cause they know the guy gets money 'pension' from the government, thus, they think he is already rich and taken care of and thus if she were to marry him would also be taken care of and also possibly inherit said pension upon his untimely demise...


In other words, "matandang mayamang madaling mamatay"


how old are you? Im early 30's but look young and strangely they never even ask. They dont even care i live at home.

That also could be why i never get much attention from the women online cause I think many of the hot women or young ones are scammers so they seem my age as too flaky for their agenda. I bet the older guys can clean up if they were to actually set foot in soil. Anyone know if theold guys can actually get more laid when they land off the plane from teh dating sites?
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