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Discuss culture, living, traveling, relocating, dating or anything related to the Asian countries - China, The Philippines, Thailand, etc.
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I have had a hard time in Europe with loud mouthed and aggressive women. Thai women are sort of the opposite much nicer and are much more open. However what I do not like about Thai women is that they are all about looking for a provider even the ones who are well educated. I am half Thai myself and speak the language perfectly but I do prefer my independence and Thai women dont like that
I never had much luck with them on dating sites. But then, I am not interested in the culture. And the language sounds horrible to my ears. There are plenty of nice looking girls in Bangkok. And I love Thai food. But yeah, I've got to agree with Zboy here. Stick to bargirls. It's not a very compatible culture for most.
Here's the ultimate take away lesson I learned from living in Thailand and after experiencing a lot of other asian countries..
Thailand's popularity is extremely overrated.
It's the backpacker training wheels country. The place where kids go to experience their first real "foreign" country while still maintaining an illusion of safety and security. It's bohemian enough to attract a broad demographic and it's popular in travel mags and has been glamorized in the media.
There's nothing unique or special about Thai girls. A thai girl is just your standard SEA woman. Nothing more nothing less. On average Thai girls are a little more attractive than filipinas but after spending time in both countries I have to say the gap isn't as big as I used to think. Thai girls get a popularity boost simply from the ease and variety of P4P which means any tom, dick, or harry can pay 2k baht or whatever to plug some chick that would be a hassle to get otherwise.
You will do well in Thailand if you are a conventionally young and handsome man in the top 10% of looks. If you are in this category though the question to be asked is why would you waste time chasing thai girls anyways? If you're a real good looking guy you should be trying to hit up high end Japanese or Korean models or something.
If you are average or slightly above average in looks then you better learn thai culture and language and have a good social circle to get any kind of quality. I am in this category.
If you're an ugly tosser and strike out constantly you can always pay the standard 2-3k admission fee and bang the equivalent of what the Captain America or Rain lookalike at the club is f***ing.
The best thing about Thailand? The food. You will find better beaches, women, culture, etc.. all elsewhere.
i wish guys like you had said this back when will n dowd and winston were saying the opposite. would have saved us grace.
For my observations I agree. I think Thai women are even more mercenary than other Asian countries. Thoughts?
It's hard to say if they are more mercenary in any definite terms. Even now, too many old idiots go there and get taken advantage of by bargirls. Bargirls of any country do not represent the normal women there, but it always influences perceptions by foreigners. Thais have a very East-Asian mentality of money-oriented, status-seeking way of life, like, say, China. One of the happiest guys I've ever known is married to a Thai woman. But she is a normal one, not a girl of the night. Personally, they aren't my cup of tea. Been with one girl there. It's not a culture and language I'm interested in, nor do I want to live or work in the country. As with all things regarding HA, YMMV.
Now there's an honest comment. Thailand has good hospitals too.
My main concerns about Thai women include...
1. 55% of Thai women cheat on their husbands
2. Thai women cut off their husbands penis if they cheat
3. Many Thai women pay their college tuition working as Pro's
However, if you go to small villages and towns your likely to find better women I'm guessing.
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I lived in Bangkok for half of last year. The best thing was the lifestyle - warm weather, good food, good shopping and plenty to see and do.
I dated quite a lot of women but there wasn't the quality of woman for me to date there compared to China.
The problem with Thailand now is that it's getting harder to get a visa to live there. And it has competition. If you like younger girls, you can go live in the Philies. If you're a foodie, go to Vietnam. And if you're marriage minded China has the best women. If you're a weirdo, well you can hang out in Cambodia .
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The small villages and towns are already in some way contaminated,thanks to internet,to bargirls who build nice houses with the money from farangs,to all the sisters who goes to Pattaya,BKK,Phuket and all around.
They know even in the countryside how farangs are good catch to take them off the poverty and use them as ATM.
The main difference from the Western land is that you can express quite easily your sexuality and play around for a still cheap price without too much hassle.
That's not possible in the West...even having a varied sexual experience is very hard.
For a more commited relationship i would be very cautious.