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How do Asian women show they don't like you?

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How do Asian women show they don't like you?

Post by drronnie » October 8th, 2014, 11:11 am

I noticed that Asian have subtle ways of showing that they have no interest but usually its with a smile. Western women would be outright rude. Any thoughts?

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Post by Winston » October 8th, 2014, 11:26 am

My Gosh. Don't you have any dating experience?

If she doesn't like you, she will:

1. Look annoyed and look like she's not enjoying herself. She will keep looking away. However, if she is a good actor and a generally positive person, she will act like she is enjoying herself anyway. But she will be enjoying the environment you two are in, not enjoying you.

2. She will refuse to hold your hand and her hand will feel cold and lifeless when you shake it.

3. She will cut the date short and have to go home early. Then she will make excuses not to see you again by always being too busy.

4. When she sits near you, she will be leaning AWAY from you.

We've all experienced this. Just go out with them and you will learn to spot these signs.

If you really want to know if she likes you, try holding her hand. That will tell you a lot. You don't even have to ask her. Also try to sit near her and see if she leans toward you or away from you.
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Post by drronnie » October 8th, 2014, 11:46 am

Understood, but I mean in general not essentially in a dating environment. Like for example you work in an Asian country and the women in the company are not talking to you. Does it mean they dont like you or are just shy.

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Post by Winston » October 8th, 2014, 11:49 am

drronnie wrote:Understood, but I mean in general not essentially in a dating environment. Like for example you work in an Asian country and the women in the company are not talking to you. Does it mean they dont like you or are just shy.


Oh. Well then during lunch or coffee breaks, try starting a conversation with her about something innocent or casual. Then watch her body language. Or ask a mutual friend about her.
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Post by droid » October 9th, 2014, 3:09 am

When they're not doing what they do when they like you.

Not being sarcastic, it's just that in many places women LET YOU KNOW they like you, they don't play the bullshit 'aloof' game.
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Post by E Irizarry R&B Singer » October 9th, 2014, 4:07 am

When Asian women break up with me, they don't say "we are through". They just go right ahead and ignore me by evading/avoiding my phone calls/emails/etc.

ARe they that timid and save-face-ish? That's one hell of a pokerface they can pull!
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Post by Jester » October 9th, 2014, 4:27 am

E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:When Asian women break up with me, they don't say "we are through". They just go right ahead and ignore me by evading/avoiding my phone calls/emails/etc.

ARe they that timid and save-face-ish? That's one hell of a pokerface they can pull!


This is my experience also, with one Polynesian, two Mainland Chinese.

No drama, just decided I wasn't going to be the one to buy them a house, then what follows is all very discreet, communications throttled back to "old friends being polite".

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Post by Ghost » October 9th, 2014, 6:31 am

E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:When Asian women break up with me, they don't say "we are through". They just go right ahead and ignore me by evading/avoiding my phone calls/emails/etc.

ARe they that timid and save-face-ish? That's one hell of a pokerface they can pull!


Yeah, this. Which is about how women everywhere do. No woman in history has ever felt the need to be direct and say, "we're finished." So if a guy has to ask for confirmation, he knows already. That's one part of female nature that apparently comes out in every culture.

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Post by MrBlueLight » October 9th, 2014, 9:35 am

Ghost wrote:
E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:When Asian women break up with me, they don't say "we are through". They just go right ahead and ignore me by evading/avoiding my phone calls/emails/etc.

ARe they that timid and save-face-ish? That's one hell of a pokerface they can pull!


Yeah, this. Which is about how women everywhere do. No woman in history has ever felt the need to be direct and say, "we're finished." So if a guy has to ask for confirmation, he knows already. That's one part of female nature that apparently comes out in every culture.


Well, in my experience, American women have an urge to badmouth you to everyone they know when they break up with you, including your friends. So you will find out very quickly.

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Post by E Irizarry R&B Singer » October 9th, 2014, 3:02 pm

Ghost wrote:
E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:When Asian women break up with me, they don't say "we are through". They just go right ahead and ignore me by evading/avoiding my phone calls/emails/etc.

ARe they that timid and save-face-ish? That's one hell of a pokerface they can pull!


Yeah, this. Which is about how women everywhere do. No woman in history has ever felt the need to be direct and say, "we're finished." So if a guy has to ask for confirmation, he knows already. That's one part of female nature that apparently comes out in every culture.


That's not altogether true. AW used to say "we're through/finished/[whathaveyou]" back in the Gen-X days. Gen-Y women basically internalize how women just "slide off" discreetly nowadays.
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Post by MarcosZeitola » October 9th, 2014, 4:11 pm

I wouldn't know... I never encountered an Asian woman that didn't like me. Wait, no... no, that isn't entirely correct. I met ONE lady who disliked me, but she was a lesbian feminist, thoroughly Westernized and from a Manila University.

I bet there would be others who dislike me too, though I have yet to encounter them. Mostly snobbish middle- and upper class girls but f**k them.

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Re: How do Asian women show they don't like you?

Post by drronnie » November 2nd, 2014, 1:11 pm

I am not handsome and have no money which probably is a turn off for Asian women. They just ignore me

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Re: How do Asian women show they don't like you?

Post by Yohan » November 2nd, 2014, 3:19 pm

The point is with this question - 'Asian women' - but this is too general. Asian women from which country?

Thailand, Japan, Philippines, Cambodia etc., women are quite different from country to country, but Asian women in such a situation are acting often politely and will try to get away from you with strange excuses and not with abusive terms like Western women.
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Re: How do Asian women show they don't like you?

Post by Bane » November 2nd, 2014, 3:21 pm

How do Asian women show they don't like you?

The good thing is that they don't give you the drama, histrionics and accusations of harassment that Western women will give. They are usually more polite in their brush-offs, and tend to not insult you.

*Edit* I find this to be mostly true for Chinese and Japanese women. I'm not experienced with Filipinas, Thais and Vietnamese. I've heard Koreans can be pretty nasty in their rejections, although I've never had it done to me.
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Re: How do Asian women show they don't like you?

Post by E Irizarry R&B Singer » November 2nd, 2014, 5:56 pm

Bane wrote:How do Asian women show they don't like you?

The good thing is that they don't give you the drama, histrionics and accusations of harassment that Western women will give. They are usually more polite in their brush-offs, and tend to not insult you.

*Edit* I find this to be mostly true for Chinese and Japanese women. I'm not experienced with Filipinas, Thais and Vietnamese. I've heard Koreans can be pretty nasty in their rejections, although I've never had it done to me.


I dated a Canadian chick of S. Korean ancestry. Fine body...curvy....all p.ussy hair...nothing shaved.....She had a body to die for. She let me dick her down bareback..nutted inside of her...she didn't run to the bathroom flipping out trying to get it out of here.

I was so happy and then two days later, she sent me this email that shot my ego into iotas of confetti: she said that she had better sex and that she regret giving me p.ussy.

I was like, "OMG WTF @#$@#%" It threw me off of my game for 2 weeks, and usually I don't trip on rejections for that long. It was becaus she was so perfect for me physically, but she threw another bag of tricks at me via an email. I had a Thai prostitute diss me similarliy.
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