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What does a prostitute expect from her customer?
He should pay child support or what?
This article is mixing purposely up 2 very different issues. Child prostitution is one issue, it is a crime.
To sleep with a woman who is a censenting adult and a prostitute is another issue.
Interesting to read that only the behavior of the Korean male customer is condemned and not the behavior of the Filipina prostitute. She was not forced to have sex with men. She accepted her customer and she got paid for that and likely the male customer from abroad does not even know that she got pregnant and he is a father now.
I am frequently in Cebu, and there are many Korean men living there and many are married (or living together if marriage is not possible due to missing divorce procedures) with a Filipina and take care of her and sometimes take care of HER children, who were abandoned by a Filipino husband. - Again another issue, but nobody says a word about it.
I myself take care since over 10 years of a Filipina fosterdaughter who was severely mistreated and finally abandoned by BOTH of her parents, father AND mother. - Both parents are known, they are Filipinos from Mindanao, Christians, and never had any contact with foreigners.
The Philippine government does not care about anything, it does not even offer basic food and basic medical care to such abandoned children, despite they are clearly Philippine nationals. It is estimated, there are now about 2 million street children in the Philippines, and I doubt that all of them have a Korean or Japanese father.
Again another issue, and nobody says a word about how much money foreigners give to poor children in the Philippines.
Why to blame the foreign man for all and everything?
I applaud the foreign nationals whether Korean or American that stay and try to raise these abandoned children. That's honorable man business. They don't have to care about kids they didn't fathered. It takes a man of great integrity to care for those he need not give a damn about. A woman always has the risk of getting pregnant during sex - that's the gamble. Men either stay or leave - that's their choice they have to live with. Foreigners are supporting tons of Filipino families. Overseas remittances are keeping the PI economy afloat. No local industries can thrive because 60% of the population don't work and everyone just shops away the money they get from abroad.
Fairness? Nope. Only greed and corruption. PI is still vagina paradise for men. No doubt.
Life is beautiful.
All it is worth is pump n' dump. Stupid for a man to raise other mens' children. This is why scumbags get free reproduction in the West - too many manginas willing to "man up" and take care of some other man's offspring. Philippines is a shithole and is good only for p***y. I just don't see anything else to it. It could be a paradise, but the Flips are f***ing idiots.
Typical Chinese indifference. Chinese are ruthless and cold-hearted when it comes to family planning. Male babies are prized while the female babies are thrown like garbage in the streets. Chinese treat dogs better. after they eat them. But the Communist Chinese have no God, no faith, and lack any spirituality whatsoever. The Chinese are obsessed with status, money, and power. They're capitalists pretending to be Commie Reds, perfect ninja disguise. Chinese treat Filipino maids like garbage yet they need these laborers like Anglo-Saxons on Mexicans. Now these Hong Kong residents are protesting to prevent Filipinos from gaining permanent residency. Typical Chinese bastard these days.
Life is beautiful.
You are right.
Unfortunately many Asians are like that. They care only about their own family clan and about nobody else - sad, but true.
In Japan the situation is similar, no Japanese family wants a personal relationship with a foreign child, they care only about their relatives.
However Japanese are not stingy - unlike Chinese including the Chinese government. Japanese are often remarkably generous and give big donations for projects, like to finance a medical group working for free overseas or to give to poor people plenty of items they do not need anymore - such help is often welcome in case of disasters - earthquakes, floods or typhoon.
You might talk about USA whatever you want regarding politics, but indeed US-people are very generous towards poor children overseas, many Americans are obsessed with adoption, to bring them into USA and to educate them.
I am from Europe and also enjoy my little social project in Philippines. I do not give anything to charities, I mistrust them all, plenty of misuse.
I financed a small house to help my fosterdaughter, her sister (almost blind), her cousin (totally impoverished, orphan) and her caretaker to prevent to become homeless and I send frequently shipping boxes with materials, pay the fees for the university for my fosterdaughter (she is now on her best way from feral rural beggar child to academic), and when visiting Cebu I buy many small items like food and medicine for poor people in the suburbs in Mandaue (only for people I know and who are willing to work). I always have nice vacation in Cebu.
Might be it is stupid for a man to help other mens' children. Or helping orphans etc... But it is not the fault of these children, that their parents mistreated them, abandoned them or that they are orphans and nobody around willing to care for them.
Maybe I am an idiot giving away a lot of money since more than 10 years. - But why not? What's wrong with that?
It is well known in Philippines that those children who are abandoned by their parents and forgotten by the Philippine government are truly grateful and become later on adults, who are very affectionate to the foreigner who cared about them. In my case with these children I help since over 10 years and who are - all of them - adults since last year this really seems to be true. So far all of them are studying or/and working in serious companies, nobody is a gangster, nobody is into prostitution.
lol, what'd I do this time? I didn't comment on the damn thread, man.
The trouble is that you are increasing the reproductive potential of scum, thereby making them more attractive to females, and ultimately causing society to fall to scumminess.
It's hilarious that Ghost isn't even Chinese but defends it like a ultra-nationalist Communist Chinaman. My girl grew up in Italy and identifies more with being European. I'm not defending PI because of her. I do it because it's the right thing to do to stand up against a self-centered bully like China. China wants to claim the whole South China sea for itself and not share it with its neighbors. That's pure greed. If USA wasn't there to counter-balance Chinese aggression, China would have already invaded Taiwan. USA is the protectorate of Far East Asian democracies from Communist China's hunger for resources.
Chinese are atheist capitalists with an arrogant attitude thinking they are the best "pure" race when the Mongols and Japanese were pumping and dumping them like Ghost's mother like a boss Rick Ross.
*Ninja kick to your face Ghost* Balls-to-Chin
Life is beautiful.
As a Korean American, I'm sorry to see Korean men doing this to Filipino women. The least they could do is marry them and then take them back home to Korea...
To Franco: Ghost is a White American, LOL! He's not Chinese.
Why is there so much fighting in this thread? LOL. Cmon guys...cut it out.
I have no ill-feelings towards Filipino's; in fact, I like most of them, and consider them good people, for the most part. Why do Asians always have to be fighting with each other, and calling each other names? I wish Asians were more united, as a race, sigh. ...
People like 'Ghost' are grossly misinformed.
Yes, mainland China is 3 x richer per person than Philippines, however the distribution of wealth between rich and poor is appalling, any short drive outside of the larger cities in China will prove this.
Foreign investors need only to close all their factories, moving to somewhere else and millions of Chinese workers will be jobless in the streets of these industrial Chinese cities.
Everybody ever visiting Beijing and similar places will confirm, that industrial Chinese cities are heavily polluted. Do not expect a very high standard of living if you have to work in China as a local in a factory.
About external politics, the Chinese communists are not much willing to help their neighbors in case of flood, typhoons and earthquakes nor are they willing to help to develop poor countries like Vietnam and Philippines.
China is really a bully, it occupies their small islands, takes away the fishing grounds from those defendless poor countries and by off-shore drilling China is taking away their resources under the ocean.
Recently China was also entering little Bhutan and is claiming a huge part of land from India (called Arunachal Pradesh, located in northeastern India) which it calls Southern Tibet. Tibet itself was taken by military force, the future of HongKong and Taiwan is unclear.
Yes, correct, additionally there are also US-armed forces in Japan and South Korea carrying nuclear weapons. - However Japan and South Korea have to pay for US-protection, their presence is not for free.
The point is if the Korean male customer is even aware of it. - How does a Korean man who pays for occasional sexual services in Philippines know later on that this bargirl is pregnant? And is she really pregnant from him? How does she know even his name?
I consider this article as very biased, very unfair towards foreign men as the large majority of abandoned children have a Filipino and not a foreign father.
I also mentioned in my reply above in the same thread, that foreigners give a lot of support to Filipino children, either by donations or by taking care of women and children who were left and forgotten by their Filipino husband and father.
The Philippine government does not care about them at all - it is impossible, as there is poverty everywhere.
Many foreign men accept a Filipina woman as she is, even together with her children, despite divorce does not exist in the Philippine law and all what they can do is co-habitation.
The problem is about co-habitation. In South Korea co-habitation is not accepted - there must be a marriage contract if you want to take a foreign wife with her children to South Korea.
So what to do?
Many South Koreans, and some Japanese and other foreigners support their Filipina girlfriend financially while working in South Korea or in Japan or elsewhere overseas. Other foreign men are entering Philippines for retirement and don't care if married or not.
I read here something about 10.000 children who have likely a Korean father, but do you know that there are over 2 million street children living in the Philippines, many of them abandoned - and who can be the father of them? What do you think? A foreigner? Or a Filipino?
Other foreigners - me too - support poor Philippine children over years. I spend 1000s of USD every year for social assistance in the Philippines. - My Filipina fosterdaughter was abandoned and forgotten by both parents. Both are Philippine citizens and never had any relationship with a foreigner.
Ghost is white? Then why the hell is he complaining that foreigners are going to ruin his precious China when he isn't Chinese himself. Sounds like a Chinophile to me. The British improved Hong Kong and the mainland Chinese government promised to give HK residents free elections, which they lied of course because they're Commie bastards. That's why you see thousands protesting in the streets of HK.
China is a hungry dragon and will engulf Asia in its greed for power and control over the region. Do you want the world ruled by Communist China?
Life is beautiful.
Maybe he was referring to General Marcos
Certain people are so jaded they confuse compassion and generosity with weakness against the brick wall of evil feminism.
Oh never mind...