newlifeinphilippines wrote:Ghost wrote:newlifeinphilippines wrote:Ghost wrote:newlifeinphilippines wrote:Personally china would be the last place i would look for a wife for a few reasons. Chinese women are arrogant cause of the male to female ratio and their stress on hypergamy and what you can provide for them and their extreme hate for outsiders which is also fostered by the government. I hate the chinese government too i dont know why anyone would go there. Vietnamese and indonesian and especially filipina women are probably the least arrogant. Just guessing of course but thats what it appears if you research the demographics and from what people say.
Well, there's your problem: not enough experience. I lived there for a year. How long have you been there? China is a tough nut to crack, but it is one of the few monogamous cultures left in the world. The male/female ratio problem doesn't apply to cities; that is a rural problem. That myth just won't die that it is a nationwide problem. The government is authoritarian, the only real good thing it does is prevent the influences of the West from taking over the politics and culture. But of course it is hardly my ideal. And the country is largely unmongerable. Which is a great thing.
Unlike, say, Philippines, understanding China cannot be done in one fell swoop. It is so big and there are so many people that things can vastly change even from one city to the next. I was frustrated in China for several months...it took a while to figure it out.
Why do all the guys then say all the urban chinese women have their head up in the air with arrogance and are very picky and materialistic? They know there is a huge male surplus. So what if chinese women are monogamous. If they are picky and demanding and hate foreigners what good is that? Ive seen countless stories where the chinese woman had to choose her family over the foreigner. Money is more valued over sex with chinese women. Thats why chinese women in america are the biggest gold diggers too.
Because a lot of foreigners go abroad as backpacker "English teachers," intending to go just to slut up the local women and the women see this a mile away and respond in kind? Even with China being as big a country as it is, most of the stories online come out of a relatively few major cities there. Some guys go there, get frustrated, and never figure out why. Mongers will absolutely fail there. The few exceptions would be whites being able to find sluts in bigger cities like Beijing or Shanghai, and Africans being able to get very low quality Guangzhou sluts. Geography matters - like I said, in one province, the girls may not be interested in foreigners at all. In others, they may be seriously looking for them. Others may be neutral. I'm not going to tell the details of what I've learned so easily; I learned it the hard way and I don't want to inadvertently help mongers with info.
China is good for sincere, decent men. That is ultimately what will help a man be successful there. Mongers can f**k off.
I dont know man one g uy on this forum said his girlfriend chose her family over love cause he wasn't high status enough. Chinese women care more about their family and race than probably anyone else on the planet. I think winston shouldn't bother with china. Its not a freedom loving place and the women aren't conducive to what he wants. He talks about taiwan but culturally the women will be the same as china.
So you're basing an entire view on an anecdote? I could go find a success story with Chinese women and it wouldn't prove anything either.