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Thai women have become more selective :(

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Thai women have become more selective :(

Post by drronnie » November 10th, 2014, 3:12 am

Years ago one only had to be a fun and nice hearted foreigner to attract women, but nowadays with more young men from Europe who are also on the search it is increasing becoming harder for below average to below average looking people to find a girl. And lets not forget many of the men are manginas and due to their women appeasing stance they are ruining alot.

In my case I am over thirty and I am half Thai so have good command of the language, however it does not really seem to help me as I do not have the looks and the money either so I do not bother to chase women anymore.




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Re: Thai women become more selective :(

Post by Taco » November 10th, 2014, 5:54 am

Any country that has a fertility(birth) rate below 3 births/woman you'll have a difficult time finding a girlfriend. Thailand is at 1.91births/woman. It goes to show you women that don't like making lots of babies have no use for a boyfriend. Thailand used to be a good country for meeting women it isn't anymore.

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Re: Thai women become more selective :(

Post by drronnie » November 10th, 2014, 6:40 am

Taco wrote:Any country that has a fertility(birth) rate below 3 births/woman you'll have a difficult time finding a girlfriend. Thailand is at 1.91births/woman. It goes to show you women that don't like making lots of babies have no use for a boyfriend. Thailand used to be a good country for meeting women it isn't anymore.

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So you mean they will only be interested in the pretty boy to have fun and sex with and when they are over the atractive age they will just be looking for an unsuspecting foreigner expat or a shy average native man to provide? If so I will tend to agree.

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Re: Thai women become more selective :(

Post by Ghost » November 10th, 2014, 6:43 am

Since you are half Thai and know the language, why not try rural Thailand? (Assuming you haven't already.) I can't see Bangkok being useful for anything other than p4p honestly.

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Re: Thai women become more selective :(

Post by drronnie » November 10th, 2014, 6:48 am

Ghost wrote:Since you are half Thai and know the language, why not try rural Thailand? (Assuming you haven't already.) I can't see Bangkok being useful for anything other than p4p honestly.


Yes I have tried that but if you do you will also be marrying their sponge family. It is always a problem that when you are an average looking male then they will only look at you financial qualities. nothing else.

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Re: Thai women become more selective :(

Post by newlifeinphilippines » November 10th, 2014, 7:23 am

yeah same in philippines. If your ugly they wont even give you a 2nd look unless they want to dip into your wallet.

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Re: Thai women become more selective :(

Post by chanta76 » November 10th, 2014, 5:59 pm

Over mongering did it in thailand and now maybe in the philippines. Plus guys know about sex tourism in those places and there is an over saturation of expats which makes it harder for some guys to find someone.

Newlifephilippine, you that ugly?

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Re: Thai women become more selective :(

Post by zboy1 » November 12th, 2014, 9:49 pm

chanta76 wrote:Over mongering did it in thailand and now maybe in the philippines. Plus guys know about sex tourism in those places and there is an over saturation of expats which makes it harder for some guys to find someone.

Newlifephilippine, you that ugly?


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Re: Thai women have become more selective :(

Post by Taco » November 13th, 2014, 1:44 am

When Philippines birth rate gets to 2 kids/woman that's I predict you'll have a difficult time finding a Filipina girlfriend. That could happen in 10 years. Almost every country that has low birth rate is shit for meeting women.

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Re: Thai women have become more selective :(

Post by newlifeinphilippines » November 13th, 2014, 1:50 am

alot of that is just cause of the birth control pill.

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Re: Thai women have become more selective :(

Post by Taco » November 13th, 2014, 7:58 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:alot of that is just cause of the birth control pill.


It doesn't matter why woman are choosing not to get married and have children. The longer women postpone marriage(usually for college) the more guys they end up sleeping with, the more dysfunctional and unhappy they become. The fact is when women postpone marriage and having kids they become promiscuous, which means 80% of the women end up banging only 20% of the men. Not surprisingly, women from middle class and wealthy families are college educated and have a divorce rate 5 times higher than women from poor families. College educated women from poor families are sometimes ok for dating.
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Re: Thai women have become more selective :(

Post by newlifeinphilippines » November 13th, 2014, 8:17 pm

Taco wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:alot of that is just cause of the birth control pill.


It doesn't matter why woman are choosing not to get married and have children. The longer women postpone marriage(usually for college) the more guys they end up sleeping with, the more dysfunctional and unhappy they become. The fact is when women postpone marriage and having kids they become promiscuous, which means 80% of the women end up banging only 20% of the men. Not surprisingly, women from middle class and wealthy families are college educated and have a divorce rate 5 times higher than women from poor families. College educated women from poor families are sometimes ok for dating.


Agree unlike most posters here i want a slave not a independant career or working women with a bad attitude. But the problem is a lot of these poor girls are just looking at you as a easy meal ticket and could care less about you or once you bring her to the promise land. so its a delicate balance. So its better to not marry then you wont have to find out. :)

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Re: Thai women have become more selective :(

Post by tamdrin12 » November 14th, 2014, 1:07 pm

Due more selective than what. More selective than they won't select you if your a one eyed, one legged leper. Seriously I am in Thailand there are more old white dudes around here with half decent younger Thai women than anywhere I have ever seen. Any foreigner can get a woman in Thailand. Seriously its a good thing if the women here become more selective.
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Re: Thai women have become more selective :(

Post by tamdrin12 » November 14th, 2014, 1:07 pm

Due more selective than what. More selective than they won't select you if your a one eyed, one legged leper. Seriously I am in Thailand there are more old white dudes around here with half decent younger Thai women than anywhere I have ever seen. Any foreigner can get a woman in Thailand. Seriously its a good thing if the women here become more selective.
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Re: Thai women have become more selective :(

Post by newlifeinphilippines » November 14th, 2014, 9:58 pm

tamdrin12 wrote:Due more selective than what. More selective than they won't select you if your a one eyed, one legged leper. Seriously I am in Thailand there are more old white dudes around here with half decent younger Thai women than anywhere I have ever seen. Any foreigner can get a woman in Thailand. Seriously its a good thing if the women here become more selective.



those are freelance prostitutes or bargirls. So those women you see dont count cause there will always be hoes and hoes will be hoes LOL The regular girls with jobs or have any self respect i bet are more selective than a few years ago when thailand wasn't as popular.

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