Join John Adams, world renowned Intl Matchmaker, Monday nights 8:30 EST for Live Webcasts!
And check out Five Reasons why you should attend a FREE AFA Seminar! See locations and dates here.



View Active Topics       View Your Posts       Latest 100 Topics       FAQ Topics       Mobile Friendly Theme


Date in Asia bullshit

Discuss culture, living, traveling, relocating, dating or anything related to the Asian countries - China, The Philippines, Thailand, etc.

Moderators: fschmidt, jamesbond

Ghost
Elite Upper Class Poster
Posts: 5749
Joined: April 17th, 2011, 2:23 am

Date in Asia bullshit

Post by Ghost » March 18th, 2015, 8:03 pm

.
Last edited by Ghost on October 28th, 2016, 12:46 pm, edited 1 time in total.

User avatar
xiongmao
Veteran Poster
Posts: 2658
Joined: March 9th, 2011, 6:09 pm
Location: London

Re: Date in Asia bullshit

Post by xiongmao » March 18th, 2015, 8:33 pm

Paid sites aren't much better. My Chinese Love Links profile disappeared, maybe since I sometimes use a VPN service. It sucks as if I want to join again I'd have to spend ages setting up my profile. It doubly sucks because I paid them a lot of money over the years.
In February 2013 I quit my boring job and now I'm Happier Abroad...
Do YOU want to date beautiful foreign women? Find out which country's women are best for you, and which dating site to look for them on!
Plus, if you like Asian girls, then check out my free Asian dating site.

Ghost
Elite Upper Class Poster
Posts: 5749
Joined: April 17th, 2011, 2:23 am

Post by Ghost » March 20th, 2015, 3:07 am

.
Last edited by Ghost on October 28th, 2016, 12:48 pm, edited 1 time in total.

User avatar
starchild5
Veteran Poster
Posts: 2172
Joined: December 20th, 2013, 11:32 am

Re: Date in Asia bullshit

Post by starchild5 » March 20th, 2015, 4:29 am

Ghost wrote:This dating site gets worse and worse all the time. I started using it back in 2013, and it was all right. But it has gone downhill a lot. Two things I've noticed:

1. They don't allow you to use other languages in your profile. You can use maybe one or two foreign words that won't get picked up. This is bullshit. A lot of girls on there don't speak English well. Why shouldn't users be able to use other languages? I suspect this is because the site now tries to catch guys talking about sex and they don't feel like including all the different words for sex in all the languages.

2. I had to resubmit my profile for approval. What the hell? I've been on there since 2013, and just had my profile hidden. Now I have to resubmit it for approval? What's the point? It's just a pointless hoop to jump through.

I am really considering a paid site in the future if free sites keep doing bullshit like this.
Sorry..But we don't have a choice...That's the epitome of western civilization...finding a women through online dating...is the choice for you...take it or flap it .....or worse....go to a club and get rejected, loose your good nature and become a di*ck to attract women....

I don't understand Ghost, why are YOU GETTING FRUSTRATED....??? I thought we already knew this is how its gonna end...

West is really all about making money...all these paid and free sites through ads have NOT your interest in mind but theirs...The reason they exist is for them NOT FOR YOU...

People just do not know, how a strong society can save men and women...all you have is a tinder and other shitty sites to find a women whom you want to spend rest of the life with.....Common its a Joke...Please give humanity more credit...

My cousin just got married to a great girl whom they found while attending a social function...People can vouch for you here...

How many people you know in America ...who can vouch for a girl or guy..Most likely Zero...There is no social structure for good guys & girls to thrive in America..If you are good guy or girl...99% of the time..its guaranteed...you will loose..

Don't be frustrated man....Know the game and how its rigged....Look at me...I had great time in Philippines even though I'm Indian...I have everything stacked against me...but I know the game is rigged...even though everything else was bad for me in Germany...I had a great time with women there..I even dated an American women there...

You are frustrated because they make us believe that, they have our best interest in MIND..NO they don't...FYI...The owner of DIA and other dating sites is American and cupid sites owned by an Australian company...

You best bet is..contacting Rock....He should be the go to guy for anyone from America who wants to make it in Asia ....He can guide you ..on how its done...He has build enough experience, trust and credit in Asia that he can vouch for things here....

good luck ....

User avatar
Mr Natural
Freshman Poster
Posts: 207
Joined: October 29th, 2013, 12:20 am
Location: USA

Re: Date in Asia bullshit

Post by Mr Natural » March 20th, 2015, 7:35 pm

starchild5 wrote:You best bet is..contacting Rock....He should be the go to guy for anyone from America who wants to make it in Asia
Quite nice of you to volunteer his services .... I thought he had a job and a life, at least more to do than holding several dozen guys hands.

But joking aside, I am surprised there is not a flourishing trade for consultants in this area. There is a guy named Alex Pinto doing this in the east European arena, his website and services offered seem very impressive and if that was my target area I think I would definitely use him. But seems no one does this sort of thing in Asia, the Philippines in particular. Background investigations, online and offline fidelity checks, personal consulting, lots of possibilities. Maybe not enough people would pay enough, I don't know.

But Rock, you looking for a new trade?
Everybody has a plan til they get punched in the mouth
Mike Tyson

Ghost
Elite Upper Class Poster
Posts: 5749
Joined: April 17th, 2011, 2:23 am

Post by Ghost » March 21st, 2015, 2:08 am

.
Last edited by Ghost on October 28th, 2016, 12:49 pm, edited 1 time in total.

User avatar
Yohan
Veteran Poster
Posts: 2691
Joined: April 3rd, 2014, 6:05 am
Location: Tokyo, JAPAN

Re: Date in Asia bullshit

Post by Yohan » March 21st, 2015, 4:51 am

Ghost wrote:This dating site gets worse and worse all the time. I started using it back in 2013, and it was all right. But it has gone downhill a lot.
.....
I am really considering a paid site in the future if free sites keep doing bullshit like this.
As said already by others, dating sites, paid or for free, it's about the same. The problem is probably about the internet and its regulations, which are now totally different from 10 or 15 years ago.

Around 2005 or 2010, it was easy to meet honest people online, and nobody was particularly concerned about security and people were almost always for real. I met many people, men and women, online for discussion about almost any topic, and met some of them later on personally.

Nowadays there are too many trolls, scammers and otherwise criminals and idiots on the internet - often internet providers are kept responsible and are forced to restrict forums, email contacts and chat.

Internet dating might become a part of the past or at least needs a totally different setup for the future, but how, I don't know.

I still believe to get on an airplane is the best solution. If you want a foreign wife you should enjoy to travel and be willing and able to relocate in future.
Last edited by Yohan on March 21st, 2015, 4:58 am, edited 1 time in total.

User avatar
starchild5
Veteran Poster
Posts: 2172
Joined: December 20th, 2013, 11:32 am

Re: Date in Asia bullshit

Post by starchild5 » March 21st, 2015, 4:53 am

Mr Natural wrote:
starchild5 wrote:You best bet is..contacting Rock....He should be the go to guy for anyone from America who wants to make it in Asia
Quite nice of you to volunteer his services .... I thought he had a job and a life, at least more to do than holding several dozen guys hands.

But joking aside, I am surprised there is not a flourishing trade for consultants in this area. There is a guy named Alex Pinto doing this in the east European arena, his website and services offered seem very impressive and if that was my target area I think I would definitely use him. But seems no one does this sort of thing in Asia, the Philippines in particular. Background investigations, online and offline fidelity checks, personal consulting, lots of possibilities. Maybe not enough people would pay enough, I don't know.

But Rock, you looking for a new trade?
I was replying to your post on AFA when I lost my internet and the message could not go through for a long time...was planning to post it today, however, since you replied here with new info...I would have to rephrase it...

Dating has become a business in the west...It should really be a social service, Non-Profit thing...There is no structure for people to meet in the west anymore other than a business setting for gain. There is nothing sacred anymore....Meeting of a man and a women should be pure without any profit in mind....

The reason, I suggested Rock is because he is from America and lived in Asia for a long time PLUS he is not offering a match matching service to make money as far as I know :) ...This is exactly why I suggested him. Stay away from people who wants to make money out of Dating....

Dating Sites are the by-product of everything that is wrong with the west..We need to have a bigger picture here...

The whole paradigm of dating site exist because of uncertainty, chaos which results in un-trustworthiness ...

The reason you feel cheated on AFA is because you think someone cares for you....Really, there is no one looking out for us....Feel the con around you....Why are we blaming the site....We blame it..because we think someone cares for us....Its all ABOUT MONEY...

All Dating Site exist for personal gain not for the benefit of society....

When you go to a Dating Site...YOU MUST KNOW..ITS NOT A CHARITY....One of the most purest forms of human interaction has been hijacked by parasites....Its the most wonderful thing for a human to find a match...I don't think there is anything better than finding a women in your life..Nothing can come close to Pure Love.

Don't ever let the fake crony WESTERN Capitalism take control of your life....The game is rigged...The parasites are sucking your energy when you try to find what you deserve...

DO NOT EVER take the service of so called Dating Consultants, PUA seminars - the dregs of society - What you need are family, friends, forum members who are not looking for any financial gain to help you out. This is how it should be in a sane, functional society aka a society in sync with nature...Stay away from people...who have made a career out of Dating....You will feel cheated again...

I'm afraid..You are making the same mistake as you did with AFA going after consultants etc...

ok...Even if you use dating sites because we have to now a days, know that for what reason it is built...do not put your entire trust on it else if anything goes wrong..you will feel cheated...

-----------------

and then there is perennial cliche's that will try to suck you again by saying...look I have found my match in Dating sites...The problem is You not dating sites ....

If it worked for one, it should work for everyone...If I have a good bike...no matter who is on it...it will take you for a ride...Dating sites fundamentally exists because of imperfection in our society...It already has a fail safe function inbuilt so that it has few matches and many failures...

DO NOT BELIEVE IN UNCERTAINTY, Its artificial ...That is the primary reason for Dating Sites to exist in the first place....

------------------

Also, It is a multi-billion dollar business in America to find fault in you and make you a better person. DO NOT FALL FOR THE Tony Robbins CON......They are using this trick on Dating Site a lot...The fault is with you not with the site or women scam...

The whole social structure is rigged...There is absolutely nothing wrong with you...Do not change yourself...You are perfect.....You will find your match...Just be careful of the parasites...good luck..

User avatar
starchild5
Veteran Poster
Posts: 2172
Joined: December 20th, 2013, 11:32 am

Re: Date in Asia bullshit

Post by starchild5 » March 21st, 2015, 5:11 am

Yohan wrote:
Ghost wrote:This dating site gets worse and worse all the time. I started using it back in 2013, and it was all right. But it has gone downhill a lot.
.....
I am really considering a paid site in the future if free sites keep doing bullshit like this.
As said already by others, dating sites, paid or for free, it's about the same. The problem is probably about the internet and its regulations, which are now totally different from 10 or 15 years ago.

Around 2005 or 2010, it was easy to meet honest people online, and nobody was particularly concerned about security and people were almost always for real. I met many people, men and women, online for discussion about almost any topic, and met some of them later on personally.

Nowadays there are too many trolls, scammers and otherwise criminals and idiots on the internet - often internet providers are kept responsible and are forced to restrict forums, email contacts and chat.

Internet dating might become a part of the past or at least needs a totally different setup for the future, but how, I don't know.

I still believe to get on an airplane is the best solution. If you want a foreign wife you should enjoy to travel and be willing and able to relocate in future.

Totally Agree....Internet Itself came from the depths of hell ...Officially, they even claimed it came from DARPA...Military Industrial Complex...responsible for killing millions around the world....

They surely must have tested its end points on where it will eventually lead us....They wouldn't release it to humanity, if it would have helped us evolve to a greater human beings like with Radio and TV

We should not blame humanity for falling into Internet scam because, we were never exposed to what this evil is really capable of...

I'm pretty sure with the kind of Psycopaths they are and the money and technology they posses...They knew exactly the time when scammers and trolls will take over....They always start with a honeymoon period like they did for TV and then turned it into a brainwashing tool....I'm afraid Internet is going to be far worse...That's why it looks sooo freaking FREEEEE from outside...

--------------------------

Sorry but good days are never coming back....What our grandparents, parents had we will never have....It will be a gigantic tasks for many of us to find a women we like....

Tinder is one more step in making us further away from finding True Love....It will only get worse....

User avatar
Winston
Site Admin
Posts: 25304
Joined: August 18th, 2007, 2:16 pm
Contact:

Re: Date in Asia bullshit

Post by Winston » March 24th, 2015, 9:33 am

While sending out messages to girls in China on DateinAsia, my profile suddenly got deleted for no reason. Has that happened to any of you before? Oh great. Why do I get picked on so much by Murphy's Law? Dang. When will such bad luck ever stop? It might be because I was copying and pasting letters, but everyone does that to save time and because it's more efficient since you can't write different letters to everyone. Plus I've done that for years, so why would that get me removed now? Sheesh.

When I log in, this is the message I get:
Your profile/account has been closed
Why is my profile closed?
It's probably because you have done one or more of the following:

Behaved rudely
Used profanities, offensive, dirty or sex(ual) language/topic.
Asked for money
Offered or sent money (If no one ever offers/sends money, no one will ever ask for money...)
Offered prostitution / escort services or sought prostitutes / escorts
Neglected to report / flag certain offenses to us (in our site reporting certain offences is mandatory)
Created more than one profile
Uploaded a photo that was not of yourself, or your photo was inappropriate
Child in photo (even your own child/children or yourself as a child is not allowed)
Identity Theft/Impersonation or in any other way created a fake profile with false information
Spammed by sending the same message to many different members
Advertising and/or linking to other sites
Made false complaints about other members
Discriminated other members for their sexual orientation
In any other way violated our terms of use
Who decided that my profile should be closed?
Usually this is done by our other members. Whenever someone makes a complaint, this complaint is stored in our system. When the number of complaints towards a profile reaches a certain level, that profile is closed.

Are there any other reasons for which my profile could have been closed?
We have spam and profanity filters in place. These filters may have decided to close your profile.

For how long will my profile remain closed?
Usually permanently. Howevever, on rare occations our filters or reporting system is in error. If this applies to your case, your profile will be reopened shortly.

Why didn't you warn me before closing my profile?
We did. When you signed up to this site you agreed to comply with our terms of use, or otherwise your account would be closed. There are also warnings on the chat/message pages and on the profile edit pages regarding this.

Can people still see my photo and other profile information?
No. We have removed your photo and it is no longer possible to view your profile.
As you can see, it doesn't tell you much. I tried to send DateinAsia this letter below, but I can't send it because their contact form page has a "human vs. robot test" that isn't actually there but the system keeps trying to find anyway, thus making it technically impossible for anyone to send a letter through that page. What stupid doe doe heads these owners must be, to put up a contact page that no one can use. Have a look for yourself:

https://www.dateinasia.com/Contact.aspx

As you can see, it shows this text at the bottom:

Human vs. Robot test: *

However, there is no field for such a test, so although the system requires it, there is no way to complete that field. What nimcompoops. How did the world get so stupid and incompetent? Where is common sense?

This is the letter I was trying to send them:
Dear DIA,
While messaging members in China, my profile was suddenly deleted without reason. I did NOT violate any of the rules on your TOS page. I think the system might have falsely flagged my account by mistake. I have been a member for many years and have NEVER violated any of your TOS rules nor did I do so today. You can check this if you like. I am 100 percent sure of it.

Sure I may copy and paste the same messages to multiple members sometimes, however, they are not spam messages advertising anything. They are merely legitimate self introduction letters. No one has the time to write individual letters to many members of course. We all know that. So some copying/pasting of letters is necessary. DIA does this too when it sends form letters. It's part of life. I'm sure you understand. After I get responses, then I write personalized letters. So all my letters are legit.

Can you please reopen my account since I did nothing wrong?

Thanks,
Winston
Check out my video series Female Encounters of the Foreign Kind and Full Russia Trip Videos!

Also see my HA Grand Ebook and Join Our Dating Sites to support us!

"It takes far less effort to find and move to the society that has what you want than it does to try to reconstruct an existing society to match your standards." - Harry Browne, How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World

User avatar
Shinigami
Freshman Poster
Posts: 1
Joined: March 24th, 2015, 11:09 am

Re: Date in Asia bullshit

Post by Shinigami » March 24th, 2015, 11:32 am

Winston wrote: As you can see, it doesn't tell you much. I tried to send DateinAsia this letter below, but I can't send it because their contact form page has a "human vs. robot test" that isn't actually there but the system keeps trying to find anyway, thus making it technically impossible for anyone to send a letter through that page. What stupid doe doe heads these owners must be, to put up a contact page that no one can use. Have a look for yourself:

https://www.dateinasia.com/Contact.aspx

As you can see, it shows this text at the bottom:

Human vs. Robot test: *

However, there is no field for such a test, so although the system requires it, there is no way to complete that field. What nimcompoops. How did the world get so stupid and incompetent? Where is common sense?
It's a captcha image:

Image

The image URL is:
https://www.google.com/recaptcha/api/im ... 6UwMaA76a- (...)

Did you use the VPN that you mentioned here: viewtopic.php?p=221596#p221596 ?

Either way, this means that the most people in China can't contact them >.<

Oh, and I wonder if there could be a problem with using VPN service to access Date in Asia, like the one with Chinese Love Links mentioned by Xiongmao.

User avatar
starchild5
Veteran Poster
Posts: 2172
Joined: December 20th, 2013, 11:32 am

Re: Date in Asia bullshit

Post by starchild5 » March 24th, 2015, 12:14 pm

Winston wrote:While sending out messages to girls in China on DateinAsia, my profile suddenly got deleted for no reason. Has that happened to any of you before? Oh great. Why do I get picked on so much by Murphy's Law? Dang. When will such bad luck ever stop? It might be because I was copying and pasting letters, but everyone does that to save time and because it's more efficient since you can't write different letters to everyone. Plus I've done that for years, so why would that get me removed now? Sheesh.

When I log in, this is the message I get:
Your profile/account has been closed
Why is my profile closed?
It's probably because you have done one or more of the following:

Behaved rudely
Used profanities, offensive, dirty or sex(ual) language/topic.
Asked for money
Offered or sent money (If no one ever offers/sends money, no one will ever ask for money...)
Offered prostitution / escort services or sought prostitutes / escorts
Neglected to report / flag certain offenses to us (in our site reporting certain offences is mandatory)
Created more than one profile
Uploaded a photo that was not of yourself, or your photo was inappropriate
Child in photo (even your own child/children or yourself as a child is not allowed)
Identity Theft/Impersonation or in any other way created a fake profile with false information
Spammed by sending the same message to many different members
Advertising and/or linking to other sites
Made false complaints about other members
Discriminated other members for their sexual orientation
In any other way violated our terms of use
Who decided that my profile should be closed?
Usually this is done by our other members. Whenever someone makes a complaint, this complaint is stored in our system. When the number of complaints towards a profile reaches a certain level, that profile is closed.

Are there any other reasons for which my profile could have been closed?
We have spam and profanity filters in place. These filters may have decided to close your profile.

For how long will my profile remain closed?
Usually permanently. Howevever, on rare occations our filters or reporting system is in error. If this applies to your case, your profile will be reopened shortly.

Why didn't you warn me before closing my profile?
We did. When you signed up to this site you agreed to comply with our terms of use, or otherwise your account would be closed. There are also warnings on the chat/message pages and on the profile edit pages regarding this.

Can people still see my photo and other profile information?
No. We have removed your photo and it is no longer possible to view your profile.
As you can see, it doesn't tell you much. I tried to send DateinAsia this letter below, but I can't send it because their contact form page has a "human vs. robot test" that isn't actually there but the system keeps trying to find anyway, thus making it technically impossible for anyone to send a letter through that page. What stupid doe doe heads these owners must be, to put up a contact page that no one can use. Have a look for yourself:

https://www.dateinasia.com/Contact.aspx

As you can see, it shows this text at the bottom:

Human vs. Robot test: *

However, there is no field for such a test, so although the system requires it, there is no way to complete that field. What nimcompoops. How did the world get so stupid and incompetent? Where is common sense?

This is the letter I was trying to send them:
Dear DIA,
While messaging members in China, my profile was suddenly deleted without reason. I did NOT violate any of the rules on your TOS page. I think the system might have falsely flagged my account by mistake. I have been a member for many years and have NEVER violated any of your TOS rules nor did I do so today. You can check this if you like. I am 100 percent sure of it.

Sure I may copy and paste the same messages to multiple members sometimes, however, they are not spam messages advertising anything. They are merely legitimate self introduction letters. No one has the time to write individual letters to many members of course. We all know that. So some copying/pasting of letters is necessary. DIA does this too when it sends form letters. It's part of life. I'm sure you understand. After I get responses, then I write personalized letters. So all my letters are legit.

Can you please reopen my account since I did nothing wrong?

Thanks,
Winston
If you get banned..It stays Banned in DIA...they are very harsh...The guy who operates the site is from Australia and he lives in Philippines. He has the western mind set of profiling people...Its impossible for Indians to register on that site, I only registered when I was in Manila and never made it look like I was from India...

If you would have written as Male in China etc updated the profile based on your travel...Your profile has high chance of deletion...Keep your profile as American as possible...Put your city in America...when you contact girls you can write them that you are currently in China etc....

The site runs on ads and he wont get high paying ads if most users are coming from china or Asia...He likes women from Asia and Men from west scenario.

If you are lucky...your profile can magically come back after some time based on your IP address or never...

Best is to create a new profile with your American background...

Ghost
Elite Upper Class Poster
Posts: 5749
Joined: April 17th, 2011, 2:23 am

Post by Ghost » March 25th, 2015, 5:55 am

.
Last edited by Ghost on October 28th, 2016, 12:50 pm, edited 1 time in total.

User avatar
droid
Elite Upper Class Poster
Posts: 3092
Joined: September 20th, 2013, 7:38 am

Re: Date in Asia bullshit

Post by droid » March 25th, 2015, 6:04 am

Ghost wrote: I happened to notice that attractive girls in Manila rarely message back. I have no doubt that a bunch of idiot simps have flooded such sites with insane offers of money, marriage, and other goodies, making a lot of the females spoiled. Probably not such a big problem in Manila itself since most of these kano morons don't ever go. But damn, something is happening to make at least this dating site into a shithole...
I'm new to these kind of sites but like i posted on my other thread, yeah some of the hotter ones don't respond at all. Some of the mediocre ones give lazy one liners.
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?

Ghost
Elite Upper Class Poster
Posts: 5749
Joined: April 17th, 2011, 2:23 am

Post by Ghost » March 26th, 2015, 2:42 am

.
Last edited by Ghost on October 28th, 2016, 12:51 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Post Reply
  • Similar Topics
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Return to “Asia, China, Philippines, Thailand”