Join John Adams, world renowned Intl Matchmaker, Monday nights 8:30 EST for Live Webcasts with FREE Prizes!
And check out Five Reasons why you should attend a FREE Live AFA Seminar! See locations and details.


Scam free! Christian Filipina - Meet Asian women with Christian values! Members screened.
Exclusive book offer! 75% off! How to Meet, Date and Marry Your Filipina Wife



View Active Topics       Latest 100 Topics       View Your Posts       FAQ Topics       Switch to Mobile


Chinese sexual revolution

Discuss culture, living, traveling, relocating, dating or anything related to the Asian countries - China, The Philippines, Thailand, etc.

Moderators: jamesbond, fschmidt

Chinese sexual revolution

Postby sentinel89 » Sun Nov 01, 2015 1:46 am

The sexual revolution in the west is what caused the dystopia that we have today. It's the reason we need to go to foreign countries to find decent women. Is China on the same trajectory? Read this article from 2012:

http://www.businessinsider.com/the-incredible-story-of-chinas-sexual-revolution-2012-8

The article does mention that there's still a strong element of conservatism in China..

So for you guys who have a lot of experience in China and have a decent understanding of its culture, what do you think? Will China be the same as the west in terms of the dystopia between male and female romantic relationships, perhaps in the near future?
sentinel89
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 290
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2015 5:56 pm







Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby Ghost » Mon Nov 02, 2015 5:37 am

-----
Last edited by Ghost on Sat Oct 22, 2016 10:52 am, edited 1 time in total.
Ghost
Elite Upper Class Poster
 
Posts: 5749
Joined: Sun Apr 17, 2011 1:23 am

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby MarcosZeitola » Mon Nov 02, 2015 6:51 am

Ghost wrote:If China ever went democratic, then it probably would become much more like Korea or Japan. However, even with resisting democracy, they face a lot of problems. It still could become a MGTOW nation like Japan, given the pressures placed on the young there. I teach at a university in China right now, and I'm hearing this fairly frequently from my students: they want freer lives, less stress, less pressure. Plenty don't want kids or only want one. They are far more focused on money and possessions than family, and they realize that family is a huge pressure. I doubt misandrist laws will take root there - China has actually done the opposite, making divorces benefit the man. That alone isn't enough to solve its problems, though. Much remains to be seen.


This sounds like things are actually not improving at all, rather they get worse.
User avatar
MarcosZeitola
Experienced Poster
 
Posts: 1977
Joined: Sat May 31, 2014 7:13 pm
Location: Phillipines

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby Cornfed » Mon Nov 02, 2015 7:04 am

MarcosZeitola wrote:This sounds like things are actually not improving at all, rather they get worse.

:?: Yeah obviously.
User avatar
Cornfed
Elite Upper Class Poster
 
Posts: 4938
Joined: Fri Aug 17, 2012 4:22 am

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby sentinel89 » Mon Nov 02, 2015 4:29 pm

The way I see it is that east Asia is the last world's last pro-male stronghold, besides the Middle East of course which is off limits to us in terms of pursuing women. Latin America is even more promiscuous and degenerate than the West, it just so happens that there's a ton of hot women there. Most people, including myself, don't find African women to be attractive.. So what's left?
sentinel89
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 290
Joined: Thu Apr 23, 2015 5:56 pm

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby Ghost » Wed Nov 04, 2015 9:10 am

MarcosZeitola wrote:
Ghost wrote:If China ever went democratic, then it probably would become much more like Korea or Japan. However, even with resisting democracy, they face a lot of problems. It still could become a MGTOW nation like Japan, given the pressures placed on the young there. I teach at a university in China right now, and I'm hearing this fairly frequently from my students: they want freer lives, less stress, less pressure. Plenty don't want kids or only want one. They are far more focused on money and possessions than family, and they realize that family is a huge pressure. I doubt misandrist laws will take root there - China has actually done the opposite, making divorces benefit the man. That alone isn't enough to solve its problems, though. Much remains to be seen.


This sounds like things are actually not improving at all, rather they get worse.


Obviously. The whole world is going to shit. But the sad/crazy thing is that China is trying harder than most. Japan will eventually disappear completely. China will remain, but take a huge dive economically, socially, and culturally.
Ghost
Elite Upper Class Poster
 
Posts: 5749
Joined: Sun Apr 17, 2011 1:23 am

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby MarcosZeitola » Wed Nov 04, 2015 9:28 am

Ghost wrote:Obviously. The whole world is going to shit. But the sad/crazy thing is that China is trying harder than most. Japan will eventually disappear completely. China will remain, but take a huge dive economically, socially, and culturally.


Is there any place that we can realistically expect to remain somewhat stable?
User avatar
MarcosZeitola
Experienced Poster
 
Posts: 1977
Joined: Sat May 31, 2014 7:13 pm
Location: Phillipines

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby Ghost » Thu Nov 05, 2015 12:30 pm

MarcosZeitola wrote:
Ghost wrote:Obviously. The whole world is going to shit. But the sad/crazy thing is that China is trying harder than most. Japan will eventually disappear completely. China will remain, but take a huge dive economically, socially, and culturally.


Is there any place that we can realistically expect to remain somewhat stable?


Depends on what you mean by stable. In the future that earth is heading towards, stable might mean, "hasn't completely died out" or "hasn't gone full-on totalitarian."
Ghost
Elite Upper Class Poster
 
Posts: 5749
Joined: Sun Apr 17, 2011 1:23 am

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby MarcosZeitola » Thu Nov 05, 2015 2:30 pm

Ghost wrote:Depends on what you mean by stable. In the future that earth is heading towards, stable might mean, "hasn't completely died out" or "hasn't gone full-on totalitarian."


Lets go by the definition of "hasn't completely died out", which countries would this include in your opinion?
User avatar
MarcosZeitola
Experienced Poster
 
Posts: 1977
Joined: Sat May 31, 2014 7:13 pm
Location: Phillipines

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby Yohan » Fri Nov 06, 2015 2:14 pm

sentinel89 wrote:The sexual revolution in the west is what caused the dystopia that we have today. It's the reason we need to go to foreign countries to find decent women. Is China on the same trajectory?


I don't think, the Chinese government is creating a society, which makes women and girls superior to men and boys like it is in Western countries.

The new Chinese property law is protecting clearly men and their parents against malicious women in case of marriage/divorce.

Parents have still rights regarding disciplining their children. About justice in China it is known that women committing serious crimes including dealing with drugs get the same bullet through their brain as men. I do not see many Chinese women as politicians either. Just a few examples.
User avatar
Yohan
Veteran Poster
 
Posts: 2273
Joined: Thu Apr 03, 2014 5:05 am
Location: Tokyo, JAPAN

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby Ghost » Tue Nov 10, 2015 6:02 am

MarcosZeitola wrote:
Ghost wrote:Depends on what you mean by stable. In the future that earth is heading towards, stable might mean, "hasn't completely died out" or "hasn't gone full-on totalitarian."


Lets go by the definition of "hasn't completely died out", which countries would this include in your opinion?


Most of Africa, Asia, and Latin America. If the birthrate trends hold, virtually everyone else is going away.
Ghost
Elite Upper Class Poster
 
Posts: 5749
Joined: Sun Apr 17, 2011 1:23 am

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby Winston » Mon May 16, 2016 7:26 pm

Here is a western documentary about China's sexual revolution. It has a western bias and exaggeration to it. Plus they only show "sexual liberation" in Beijing, not the rest of China. Frankly, I was in China for 7 months and never saw any of this, though I didn't go to Beijing. So perhaps the rest of China isn't like this. The women I met in China were mostly conservative, prim and proper, and with traditional values. They also sought marriage and were not "liberated". And they were down to earth and very feminine of course. But none of them ever talked like the ones in this weird documentary. This is probably a case of Western cherry picking that does not represent average or typical Chinese women at all. Also, I never saw any kissing or making out - aka "public displays of affection" - between couples in China out in public. So where did they get that?!

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMzpQYOvJY8[/youtube]

Description:

Revolution and its sizzling Economic Revolution. But you haven't heard about its other great social upheaval - the Chinese Sexual Revolution - and like everything in that country it's happening at warp speed. It's China's version of the 60s revolution - on steroids.

China's Sexual Revolution is the world's first glimpse - often using secret cameras - into this forbidden new China. It's a surprising portrait of the Chinese today: the new free love generation that's left their parents in shock; the booming sex industry that's creating an HIV crisis; the new generation of career women and feminists that suddenly wants it all - while millions of men feel left out.

This long untold story goes back to the days of Chairman Mao, who made sexuality a great taboo. He ordered everyone to wear unisexual Mao suits, and forbid women from wearing sexy clothing, getting stylish haircuts, or even wearing make-up. Men and women were expected to be comrades - not lovers - though Mao himself enjoyed an emperor's sex life, seeking virgins to retain his "youthö".

China's sexual libido was bottled up for 50 years, but now its bursting loose, with dramatic effects on marriage, personal freedom and the government itself.
Check out the latest posts in our blog The Happier Abroaders.

Don't forget my HA Grand Ebook and Dating Sites!

"It takes far less effort to find and move to the society that has what you want than it does to try to reconstruct an existing society to match your standards." - Harry Browne, How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World
User avatar
Winston
Site Admin
 
Posts: 23940
Joined: Sat Aug 18, 2007 1:16 pm

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby Eric » Mon May 16, 2016 7:41 pm

Please don't even mention sexual revolution in China, please God. No.
-"Virescit vulnere virtus"
User avatar
Eric
Junior Poster
 
Posts: 737
Joined: Sun Mar 20, 2016 3:07 am

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby Ghost » Tue May 17, 2016 4:37 pm

Eric wrote:Please don't even mention sexual revolution in China, please God. No.


Documentaries like the one Winston posted are bullshit. There's no "sexual revolution" going on there. Those Western docs love to lie in order to push agendas. There are plenty of problems going on in China, don't get me wrong, but there's no sex revolution happening.
Ghost
Elite Upper Class Poster
 
Posts: 5749
Joined: Sun Apr 17, 2011 1:23 am

Re: Chinese sexual revolution

Postby mentor » Thu Oct 06, 2016 10:15 am

Ghost wrote:If China ever went democratic, then it probably would become much more like Korea or Japan. However, even with resisting democracy, they face a lot of problems. It still could become a MGTOW nation like Japan, given the pressures placed on the young there. I teach at a university in China right now, and I'm hearing this fairly frequently from my students: they want freer lives, less stress, less pressure. Plenty don't want kids or only want one. They are far more focused on money and possessions than family, and they realize that family is a huge pressure. I doubt misandrist laws will take root there - China has actually done the opposite, making divorces benefit the man. That alone isn't enough to solve its problems, though. Much remains to be seen.


This is very interesting information, nice to read this.
mentor
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 447
Joined: Mon Jul 27, 2015 5:52 pm

Next

Return to Asia, China, Philippines, Thailand

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 2 guests