May I ask both your ages? In my hundreds of online interactions, I have yet to meet any Filipina under 25 that I would want to spend any amount of time with. Even some of the more mature ones play their share of stupid head games.Balmung wrote:I found a woman that's really top-shelf via online... did I just get lucky? Made contact in early April, lots of facebook chat, and then went to visit her in August. Chemistry in person was even better than online. She cried when we were saying goodbye. I've already bought my plane ticket to visit her during the time off I have for Christmas. We chat every day, and every day we feel a little bit closer. I'll probably relocate more or less permanently to the Philippines sometime in 2016. She's educated (BS degree), smart, kind, caring, easy going... and also super good looking. She's a great prize.firahs75 wrote:Wow...online really is bullshit...turns out to be a huge waste of time each and every time.....what did they say about repeating the same mistakes over and over and expecting different results?
To those that found the diamond amidst the coal, more power to ya....but now I am beginning to see why almost everyone says to forget online and just meet girls on the ground.
So how did I find her? On filipinocupid I used their search filters to search for EXACTLY what I wanted. Sure, some of the good traits I listed above can't be searched for directly, but some can be indirectly, or via careful reading of their profile. Search out what you want, and you're more likely to get it. How have you been going about your online searching? The ground game can work to be sure, but online I think can be good, especially for guys that want to meet women before they go over there*, or women they wouldn't normally come into contact with.
*Note: only works if you do eventually go over to visit her.
I am visiting Cebu at the end of the month so I have just been doing a search for women ages 24-32 in Cebu...I just don't see too many Filipinas over 34 or so that I find attractive. Of course many girls in the 18-24 bracket are super cute, but they are just too immature. Another thing that trips me out is how in alot of profiles the main pic looks nice but she just gets progressively uglier and fatter with each pic...its like the she wants you to know how good she used to look
I'll try to be more specific in my search parameters...I'm guessing the education will filter out alot of the undesirables. Hopefully its not like the states where the more educated they are the more feminazi they are....actually women of all stripes are pretty much horrible here.