Most Filipinas Give Bad Relationship Advice to Foreign Guys
Posted: May 24th, 2016, 7:04 pm
One area Filipinas suck is in the relationship advice they give to foreigner guys. It's always the same stuff, coming from their little view of the "world", which almost always consists entirely of the Philippines, since most of them can hardly afford the passport they need to leave. Almost every single one I meet tells me the same thing over and over again, it's like I'm talking to the same girl. The third question they usually ask me is where is my wife, so I tell them I've been dating girls for almost 30 years, but have never been married, have no kids and I'm in my 40's and live alone.
Then it starts."sir, you're in your 40's already you should settle down and find a wife and have kids asap. You aren't getting any younger (is anyone?) and you don't want to be alone in your old age and have no one to take care of you. I can find you a nice girl you can marry very soon and then you won't be alone anymore. God loves you and so will your wife"
Where do I start.
They know nothing about me being an introvert, and don't even probably know what an introvert is. They don't know I prefer living alone, but like cute girls company sometimes. They don't know I listen to Tom Leykis, and don't see much value in women beyond pleasure. They don't know of the issues facing men in most other countries regarding divorce, kids custody, MGTOW red/blue pill, gynocentrism and money and anti male bias in civil and criminal cases. But they almost always give the same advice about getting married asap to some poor Filipina, having as many as many kids as possible, loving god and doing all the same things they do, without thinking about them logically.
So yes, Filipinas have many positive qualities, but the advice they usually give about relationships to foreign guys like me is very narrow minded and not applicable to many. They think that every guy in the world wants exactly what is common place in the Philippines, a mostly catholic country of over 100 million, where their is no divorce and the average IQ is only 86.
"Bachelors know more about women than married men; if they didn't they'd be married too." - H. L. Mencken
Then it starts."sir, you're in your 40's already you should settle down and find a wife and have kids asap. You aren't getting any younger (is anyone?) and you don't want to be alone in your old age and have no one to take care of you. I can find you a nice girl you can marry very soon and then you won't be alone anymore. God loves you and so will your wife"
Where do I start.
They know nothing about me being an introvert, and don't even probably know what an introvert is. They don't know I prefer living alone, but like cute girls company sometimes. They don't know I listen to Tom Leykis, and don't see much value in women beyond pleasure. They don't know of the issues facing men in most other countries regarding divorce, kids custody, MGTOW red/blue pill, gynocentrism and money and anti male bias in civil and criminal cases. But they almost always give the same advice about getting married asap to some poor Filipina, having as many as many kids as possible, loving god and doing all the same things they do, without thinking about them logically.
So yes, Filipinas have many positive qualities, but the advice they usually give about relationships to foreign guys like me is very narrow minded and not applicable to many. They think that every guy in the world wants exactly what is common place in the Philippines, a mostly catholic country of over 100 million, where their is no divorce and the average IQ is only 86.
"Bachelors know more about women than married men; if they didn't they'd be married too." - H. L. Mencken
