Eric wrote:Grow some testicles - this is coming from the guy who hadn't gotten laid in over 4 years?
Haha. haha
Eric,
You sound 14 years old, which is probably why you are failing in China with your juvenile mindset.
A bit about me.
I was in a relationship with a Chinese woman for four years, I was going to marry her, but I went back to the UK to do a masters degree - by the time I worked a year in Saudi Arabia and did the masters degree in the UK (a total of two years away) - she moved on. I was too long away,
This took a lot out of me, but I understood that I was at fault and there were areas of my life that I could do with improving (WOW - SELF REFLECTION - RARE AROUND THESE PARTS).
The first two years out of the relationship - I didn't want sex or a relationship - I didn't want it - though there were offers, I was recovering from the emotional hurt, the rest of the time has been getting back in shape, running, weights, boxing, learning Chinese - you know - self improvement.
Learning Chinese and being in shape are the two most important things for me to do to get a quality woman in this country - now, I am getting some absolute interest off some QUALITY women - women who wouldn't date a foreigner otherwise but they like me - but I have some way to go but I am nearly there.
I am happy - call me a temporary MGTOW if you will - I like my life.
What I haven't done - like a lot of men - like my male relatives - is bounce from one woman to the other and then, oopps - the woman who was meant to be for 'a bit of fun' and nine months later - she is now part of his life forever - and they hate their existences from then on in.
That will NEVER happen to me.
So - you read it right - I haven't had sex for four years.
Do you see any posts or threads about me and my life and how shit it is? Or do you not?
You don't - I am happy - I love my life.
You are not happy - which is why you are always complaining.
And that is the difference between us both.
Take some good advice from me fella.
GO HOME.
And take your bible with you.