Chinese girls

[droid]

Strange, it seems i hit some kind of chord here

I also don't understand the recurring meme of "expats are like this, expats are like that". I don't see a pattern, same dude distribution as back west. And they're not even more [whore]mongering than the locals, i don't see the point of all the holier-than-though drivel from some guys

Droid have a watch of some of serpentza's other china vids... they are quite interesting.

Yeah like i said i wrongly thought the guy was a pretentious douche with his suit and glasses, then the biking shots got me to watch

[mentor]

The rest of China is closed off to mongers just because the culture is embedded (and has been for 5000 years) into monogamy (for women), because of filal piety - young women living with their parents (most unmarried young women in China outside the big cities)have a curfew of 9pm, but most importantly - Chinese women are not fools and can see a sex pest and a monger a mile away.

Sorry buddy - better luck in the Philippines.

Nice to read that there are such good girls in China!
I guess the downside for a westerner with serious intentions, still remains, and it is how to approach them...

[yick]

Nice to read that there are such good girls in China!

Yeah, most girls in China are pretty decent, the set up here isn't viable for mongering and for bad girls to be handling more white meat than Colonel Sanders outside of the big cities, if and when you read about white guys shagging multiple women, they are usually in the bigger cities, you couldn't do that in a smaller Chinese city (most of them) because there aren't the bars (good girls don't go to bars) for it - which is why most Chinese cities will never be overrun by foreign men looking for 'fun'.

I guess the downside for a westerner with serious intentions, still remains, and it is how to approach them...

You need to be here for a long period of time, settle on a city without foreigners (most cities in China) - now that's hard because foreigners tend to like creature comforts, learn Chinese - you don't have to be fluent but you need to start, become a fixture in the place you live, be smart, well dressed, polite, clean, don't run around drunk, off your head and aggressive - and the women will find you - you need to become a fixture in the place where you live and you'll find someone nice.

China isn't a place where you'll find someone nice staying for a month or so and doing monthly trips twice or three times a year, you need to be here long term.

[Citizen]

Nice to read that there are such good girls in China!

Yeah, most girls in China are pretty decent, the set up here isn't viable for mongering and for bad girls to be handling more white meat than Colonel Sanders outside of the big cities, if and when you read about white guys shagging multiple women, they are usually in the bigger cities, you couldn't do that in a smaller Chinese city (most of them) because there aren't the bars (good girls don't go to bars) for it - which is why most Chinese cities will never be overrun by foreign men looking for 'fun'.

I guess the downside for a westerner with serious intentions, still remains, and it is how to approach them...

You need to be here for a long period of time, settle on a city without foreigners (most cities in China) - now that's hard because foreigners tend to like creature comforts, learn Chinese - you don't have to be fluent but you need to start, become a fixture in the place you live, be smart, well dressed, polite, clean, don't run around drunk, off your head and aggressive - and the women will find you - you need to become a fixture in the place where you live and you'll find someone nice.

China isn't a place where you'll find someone nice staying for a month or so and doing monthly trips twice or three times a year, you need to be here long term.

Yes, your comments confirm what I thought from the few days I was in Shenzhen and from my experience with that "be a slave for me" Chinese girl. China is not for me. Plus China and the Chinese get to be far too rich now for me to feel comfortable there. So do the Indians that are abroad. I will find the right place for me. It just is not China or India.

[chanta76]

I think there maybe a correlation with the values that the woman have and the culture that they are from and how successful that country will become. Everyone knows that the Philippines is easy score but if you take a look at their country it's mess. Thailand is bit better than the Philippines but it's mix bag with areas that are doing good but other areas that are poor.

Countries where mongering is difficult and monogamy is stressed upon are country like South Korea, and maybe Japan ????, and I guess China. In some ways you have to respect those countries. Sadly even though it's easy score in the Philippines . I don't know if people respect that country.

[D_Athlete]

I reckon it is about time to leave - your mongering ways have hit a roadblock - oh well, never mind.

I have two good friends who have a few women on the go, but they live in Shenzhen and Guangzhou - big cities full of young, single migrant women - the caveat is of course they are both tall, good looking, young with decent salaries - and they are white of course - but being white on its own is not enough and I don't think it ever was apart from a short space of time.

If you aren't doing the same - well, it probably is you.

The rest of China is closed off to mongers just because the culture is embedded (and has been for 5000 years) into monogamy (for women), because of filal piety - young women living with their parents (most unmarried young women in China outside the big cities)have a curfew of 9pm, but most importantly - Chinese women are not fools and can see a sex pest and a monger a mile away.

Sorry buddy - better luck in the Philippines.

No thanks. Not a fan of the Philippines.

And unfortunately I'm stuck working in China for the next few years.

I've noticed they've also made it near impossible to find good escorts in the country for foreigners now. Young, gorgeous Chinese escorts that look like Yifei Liu or Fan Bingbing are completely off limits to foreigners. When you're in a dating slump, I wouldn't mind getting some from a hot escort. But it is nearly impossible. That's a dangerous combo -- living in a hectic stressful 3rd world shithole with rude pieces of shit people and not even getting any sex. One would eventually start to lose their mind living in such a society. Now I know why Chinese people have meltdowns in public frequently

[Citizen]

I think there maybe a correlation with the values that the woman have and the culture that they are from and how successful that country will become. Everyone knows that the Philippines is easy score but if you take a look at their country it's mess. Thailand is bit better than the Philippines but it's mix bag with areas that are doing good but other areas that are poor.
Countries where mongering is difficult and monogamy is stressed upon are country like South Korea, and maybe Japan ????, and I guess China. In some ways you have to respect those countries. Sadly even though it's easy score in the Philippines . I don't know if people respect that country.

Have you ever been to South Korea or Japan? Hookers and escorts are everywhere. The cultures don't like foreigners (they think foreigners are dirty and stupid which many of them are) so foreigners are often excluded from banging the whores. If you go to Vancouver or Toronto you will find many Japanese, South Korean and Chinese escorts. The "rich" young Asian men, whose families are dogs of the banksters and thus able to study abroad, have got to have their poor girl sex slaves.
The few women that Arab countries have don't seem to be escorts (gee I wonder why those guys have no women). Instead, it usually it seems to be women from Europe or Asia who are those countries sex slaves. I wouldn't call the Arab countries successful but maybe somebody else would. Saudi Arabia's party is just about finished. Look at them burn through the cash reserves they have.

[Gadfly]

I find that fair number posters here are selfish . If they know something they dont want to share . thinking if someone else know..there is not enough for me. Either that we just have allot trolls here.

In my case, you were pestering me constantly, about what I do for a living. It had become an obsession for you.

I had already told you some about my personal status: that I was employed, and that I had traveled and even lived abroad before. But you still kept asking me over and over and over again what my job is. And when I wouldn't tell you, your responses degenerated into personal attacks and insults on me.

There is no quick, easy solution if you want to travel and work abroad, Chanta. Even if you're fortunate enough to get a job that pays well, you're going to have to work and save like everyone else. That's why it doesn't matter what I or anyone else does for a living.

[Kradmelder]

I find that fair number posters here are selfish . If they know something they dont want to share . thinking if someone else know..there is not enough for me. Either that we just have allot trolls here.

In my case, you were pestering me constantly, about what I do for a living. It had become an obsession for you.

I had already told you some about my personal status: that I was employed, and that I had traveled and even lived abroad before. But you still kept asking me over and over and over again what my job is. And when I wouldn't tell you, your responses degenerated into personal attacks and insults on me.

There is no quick, easy solution if you want to travel and work abroad, Chanta. Even if you're fortunate enough to get a job that pays well, you're going to have to work and save like everyone else. That's why it doesn't matter what I or anyone else does for a living.

Gadfly, what do you do for a living? Do you think I could make a good living overseas getting white women to pay to sleep with me? By the way, what do you do for a living? How do you make your money? What job do you do ?

[chanta76]

gadfly,

your on my ignore list I don't want to go down this path again. Perhaps your too sensitive but that previous post was a general response to posters here. Not towards you but if your ego felt like responding go ahead. Answering a question isn't that difficult but at least to me you came across as a unemphatic prick.

There has been other posters that PM me for advice from my experience in South Korea and I tried to help them out as best I can .

I mean if someone asked me how to find a girl friend and I just tell them just talk to girls and that's all. That's not really an answer.

I find that 's how you answer towards me. I think that's why I'm also hard on Voyager. His in the Ukraine meeting girls and somehow making a living but he criticize Mark Davis service . So i asked him how he did it. He gave a very generic answer. I mean yeah you have to work hard save to travel or move around. To meet girls ..yeah you have to talk to them but my question was specific. More like how were you able to do it.

What's the point of having forum with just generic answers?

[chanta76]

I think there maybe a correlation with the values that the woman have and the culture that they are from and how successful that country will become. Everyone knows that the Philippines is easy score but if you take a look at their country it's mess. Thailand is bit better than the Philippines but it's mix bag with areas that are doing good but other areas that are poor.
Countries where mongering is difficult and monogamy is stressed upon are country like South Korea, and maybe Japan ????, and I guess China. In some ways you have to respect those countries. Sadly even though it's easy score in the Philippines . I don't know if people respect that country.

Have you ever been to South Korea or Japan? Hookers and escorts are everywhere. The cultures don't like foreigners (they think foreigners are dirty and stupid which many of them are) so foreigners are often excluded from banging the whores. If you go to Vancouver or Toronto you will find many Japanese, South Korean and Chinese escorts. The "rich" young Asian men, whose families are dogs of the banksters and thus able to study abroad, have got to have their poor girl sex slaves.
The few women that Arab countries have don't seem to be escorts (gee I wonder why those guys have no women). Instead, it usually it seems to be women from Europe or Asia who are those countries sex slaves. I wouldn't call the Arab countries successful but maybe somebody else would. Saudi Arabia's party is just about finished. Look at them burn through the cash reserves they have.

You have sex industry everywhere. You can find p4p here in USA . I would say the biggest difference between South Korea vs let say the Philippines is there are higher amounts and easier access of p4p in the Philippines where as in South Korea or Japan it's bit more pricey and exclusive. Saying that if your a white guy or black guy and look hard enough there is p4p to be found in South korea but again it's not like what you see in the Philippines or Thailand.

Usually you have over sea's Asian girls that come to USA or Canada under a tourist visa but work as a sex worker. It's all under ground. Some of them service non-Asian men where as others service only Asian men from what I know. Why? Most of it has to deal with the culture and language but there are Asian sex workers that service non-Asian men. I would say there is allot of them actually.

The Asian girls that work as a sex worker here in the states do it to make fast money..go back to her native country and just claim that she only study or traveled to keep her clean image. There is quiet a number of them that do this.

In the Arab countries they actually recruit sex workers from other countries and pay them allot of money. You hear stories of American porn stars working in the arab countries for couple of months and make allot of money. Why not use Arab women? it could be gender imbalance or maybe the backward culture that they have there.

[Gadfly]

I find that fair number posters here are selfish . If they know something they dont want to share . thinking if someone else know..there is not enough for me. Either that we just have allot trolls here.

In my case, you were pestering me constantly, about what I do for a living. It had become an obsession for you.

I had already told you some about my personal status: that I was employed, and that I had traveled and even lived abroad before. But you still kept asking me over and over and over again what my job is. And when I wouldn't tell you, your responses degenerated into personal attacks and insults on me.

There is no quick, easy solution if you want to travel and work abroad, Chanta. Even if you're fortunate enough to get a job that pays well, you're going to have to work and save like everyone else. That's why it doesn't matter what I or anyone else does for a living.

Gadfly, what do you do for a living? Do you think I could make a good living overseas getting white women to pay to sleep with me? By the way, what do you do for a living? How do you make your money? What job do you do ?

Haha yeah, I suspected as much

[Gadfly]

gadfly,

your on my ignore list I don't want to go down this path again. Perhaps your too sensitive but that previous post was a general response to posters here. Not towards you but if your ego felt like responding go ahead. Answering a question isn't that difficult but at least to me you came across as a unemphatic prick.

I might be an "un-empathic prick," but to be honest, you didn't give me much reason in our PM exchanges to feel any empathy for you.

And, yeah, I guess you got me. I do plead guilty to the charge of being too sensitive and having an ego. But that's still better than trading places with you, I think.

[chanta76]

gadfly,

I don't want to escalate this to endless flame war. Your going to think whatever about me and I probably think low of you also. Considering that your trying to instigate right now says allot about where your coming from.

If it makes you feel better to look down on me than go ahead . You probably have your struggles and demons . I don't know if your in such a better place than I am. I mean last I remember your Asian like me and you come to this site but I'm not going to judge.

[Gadfly]

gadfly,

I don't want to escalate this to endless flame war. Your going to think whatever about me and I probably think low of you also. Considering that your trying to instigate right now says allot about where your coming from.

Just for the record, you are actually describing yourself and your behavior from the last time (see #2 below).

If it makes you feel better to look down on me than go ahead . You probably have your struggles and demons . I don't know if your in such a better place than I am. I mean last I remember your Asian like me and you come to this site but I'm not going to judge.

1) When you lash back like a girl, you’re going to get it. And if that comes off as “looking down on you,” so be it.

2) You were the one who contacted me first. I gave you my honest views, but you were only interested in my "secret formula for success." When I tried to end the exchange, you continued to lash back at me publicly on the forum.

3) You can judge me however you want, it makes no difference to me. I don't ever recall saying I was in a better place.

OTOH I do recall saying that many people out there have it just as bad or even worse than you, even white people. That's why I'm not especially sympathetic when you whine incessantly about getting dumped on by whites.

For all its problems, my life is still pretty good right now. So don’t think you can take me down a peg, because much of your misery is your fault, and your problem. Not mine. The theme of this forum is happier abroad, BTW. If you don’t like being around white people, then move elsewhere.