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Kradmelder
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Re: Chinese girls

Post by Kradmelder » October 7th, 2016, 1:39 pm

Zambales wrote:
yick wrote:Materials and money are important to Chinese women, very much so.

I think they expect their husbands to work hard and do everything to provide.

None of this sitting around malarkey - they want nice houses, cars, their kids to be well dressed and to go to good schools.

Their families might not have their hands in your pockets the same way as Filipinas (apparently) but they want you out
earning and it is expected.
f**k that! Talk about jumping out of the frying pan into the fire lol!
Jump out of that pan Bru. Only women cook in frying pans. Men cook their meat over the fire :lol:

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Re: Chinese girls

Post by yick » October 7th, 2016, 1:46 pm

Kradmelder wrote:
yick wrote:Materials and money are important to Chinese women, very much so.

I think they expect their husbands to work hard and do everything to provide.

None of this sitting around malarkey - they want nice houses, cars, their kids to be well dressed and to go to good schools.

Their families might not have their hands in your pockets the same way as Filipinas (apparently) but they want you out
earning and it is expected.
So what is the difference from white women? Sounds about the same: heifers looking for green veld to graze and drop calves. If this is so, then the discussion of white, chinese, filipina is about the same as discussing whether charolais, hereford, or limousin are a better grade of meat.
The main points are the same, no Chinese woman will ever want a starving artiste needing to find himself as she and her kids are running around barefoot in poverty - not one that has ever existed anyway.

You know what women are like Kradmelder - they like to keep you busy throughout the week and on your days off, you want to sit on the couch after a hard weeks graft with a cold can of Lion in your hand - watching the rugby and the missus wants you fixing some f***ing shelf - white, brown, Chinese or black - they are all the same.

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Re: Chinese girls

Post by Kradmelder » October 7th, 2016, 1:53 pm

yick wrote:
Kradmelder wrote:
yick wrote:Materials and money are important to Chinese women, very much so.

I think they expect their husbands to work hard and do everything to provide.

None of this sitting around malarkey - they want nice houses, cars, their kids to be well dressed and to go to good schools.

Their families might not have their hands in your pockets the same way as Filipinas (apparently) but they want you out
earning and it is expected.
So what is the difference from white women? Sounds about the same: heifers looking for green veld to graze and drop calves. If this is so, then the discussion of white, chinese, filipina is about the same as discussing whether charolais, hereford, or limousin are a better grade of meat.
The main points are the same, no Chinese woman will ever want a starving artiste needing to find himself as she and her kids are running around barefoot in poverty - not one that has ever existed anyway.

You know what women are like Kradmelder - they like to keep you busy throughout the week and on your days off, you want to sit on the couch after a hard weeks graft with a cold can of Lion in your hand - watching the rugby and the missus wants you fixing some f***ing shelf - white, brown, Chinese or black - they are all the same.
Long time since you were here. Lion is long gone. Now it only stands for Let the Indians Own Natal :lol:

The SA women don't want you to fix the shelf. They want you to hire someone to do that while you take them out for a fancy lunch in some trendy place where they can be seen. The black one probably wants you to go out and steal the stuff off someone else's shelf :lol:

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Re: Chinese girls

Post by yick » October 7th, 2016, 1:56 pm

mentor wrote:
yick wrote:Materials and money are important to Chinese women, very much so.

I think they expect their husbands to work hard and do everything to provide.

None of this sitting around malarkey - they want nice houses, cars, their kids to be well dressed and to go to good schools.

Their families might not have their hands in your pockets the same way as Filipinas (apparently) but they want you out
earning and it is expected.
Thanks for the clarification.
So, here I think we have a difference with filipinas, as they seem to be more 'relaxed', but as you said may of them they ask indirectly in the form of 'help'.
Better straight and direct terms with a chinese girl, or more soft and indirect with a filipina?
I guess this is possibly a matter of personal choice...
Material things and wealth are important to Chinese women, you had better improve her life or die trying - especially if you have children with her.

Chinese men do that willingly, it isn't even contested. If you want a woman who is willing to let you find yourself and isn't bothered about material possessions then I am sure there are loads of nice western women who'll love you for you.

Chinese women will love you, but they want you to go out to bat when the time comes. No excuses.

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Re: Chinese girls

Post by yick » October 7th, 2016, 1:59 pm

Kradmelder wrote:
yick wrote:
Kradmelder wrote:
yick wrote:Materials and money are important to Chinese women, very much so.

I think they expect their husbands to work hard and do everything to provide.

None of this sitting around malarkey - they want nice houses, cars, their kids to be well dressed and to go to good schools.

Their families might not have their hands in your pockets the same way as Filipinas (apparently) but they want you out
earning and it is expected.
So what is the difference from white women? Sounds about the same: heifers looking for green veld to graze and drop calves. If this is so, then the discussion of white, chinese, filipina is about the same as discussing whether charolais, hereford, or limousin are a better grade of meat.
The main points are the same, no Chinese woman will ever want a starving artiste needing to find himself as she and her kids are running around barefoot in poverty - not one that has ever existed anyway.

You know what women are like Kradmelder - they like to keep you busy throughout the week and on your days off, you want to sit on the couch after a hard weeks graft with a cold can of Lion in your hand - watching the rugby and the missus wants you fixing some f***ing shelf - white, brown, Chinese or black - they are all the same.
Long time since you were here. Lion is long gone. Now it only stands for Let the Indians Own Natal :lol:

The SA women don't want you to fix the shelf. They want you to hire someone to do that while you take them out for a fancy lunch in some trendy place where they can be seen. The black one probably wants you to go out and steal the stuff off someone else's shelf :lol:
What? No more Lion breweries? Kak man! Where there hell have they gone to - probably relocated to Perth with the rest of the nation!

What do you drink nowadays then?

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Re: Chinese girls

Post by Eric » October 7th, 2016, 2:04 pm

Yick has some good advice - first of all understand that Chinese women are not the same as women back home - theyre not independent, which means they won't have this grating repellant demeanor which is supposed to be attractive in the West.

They arent impressed with bravado, whatever.
First of all, you need to understand something about women (all women) and human beings. Everything revolves around them. If you can think about and go about this angle of 'how can I be fun, and interesting to this girl...to all girls' then they will respond to you and amazing things will happen.

Its not trying.to take, get something or win a trophy. Its like my Mom used to say to me, which I thought was too- easy bullshit, at the time. She said "Just smile"...girls love a good, nice smile"
Along the same kind pf thing Ive figured out, what good advice from Mom. She also said, Kill em with kindness. Notice how none of these entail 'tough guy attitude'?
Its simple, women like this and admire it - from a distance.tough guy alpha who is zoning on her and confident.. but most guys get it wrong. They lose track of it and forget that the only sole reason for it is to get females, And they start doing it for themselves...big disaster because it looks foolish and turns them off, because its arrogant, and loses sight that its about them.
With this you'd understand that its an act only for this, and dont mix it with other things like for yourself. It's only for this. Period... if you can remember that youll be fine and your confidence wont feel like its on a tether. Have a sense of humor.
even with this, she will often use it to play you out because she thinks its funny and or cute/ amusing to her.
Women love attention - bottom line.

This even.works on bitches, if you want to stomach them, it should theoretically work on all women. Even all people.

What is mongering?
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Kradmelder
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Re: Chinese girls

Post by Kradmelder » October 7th, 2016, 2:12 pm

yick wrote:
Kradmelder wrote:
yick wrote:
Kradmelder wrote:
yick wrote:Materials and money are important to Chinese women, very much so.

I think they expect their husbands to work hard and do everything to provide.

None of this sitting around malarkey - they want nice houses, cars, their kids to be well dressed and to go to good schools.

Their families might not have their hands in your pockets the same way as Filipinas (apparently) but they want you out
earning and it is expected.
So what is the difference from white women? Sounds about the same: heifers looking for green veld to graze and drop calves. If this is so, then the discussion of white, chinese, filipina is about the same as discussing whether charolais, hereford, or limousin are a better grade of meat.
The main points are the same, no Chinese woman will ever want a starving artiste needing to find himself as she and her kids are running around barefoot in poverty - not one that has ever existed anyway.

You know what women are like Kradmelder - they like to keep you busy throughout the week and on your days off, you want to sit on the couch after a hard weeks graft with a cold can of Lion in your hand - watching the rugby and the missus wants you fixing some f***ing shelf - white, brown, Chinese or black - they are all the same.
Long time since you were here. Lion is long gone. Now it only stands for Let the Indians Own Natal :lol:

The SA women don't want you to fix the shelf. They want you to hire someone to do that while you take them out for a fancy lunch in some trendy place where they can be seen. The black one probably wants you to go out and steal the stuff off someone else's shelf :lol:
What? No more Lion breweries? Kak man! Where there hell have they gone to - probably relocated to Perth with the rest of the nation!

What do you drink nowadays then?
I dont drink any SAB products; it is not a white man's beer. They are all made with mielies now. I will drink Tafel, which is from Namibia, windhoek, or mostly my home made beers which are much nicer. Got Weiss, Bock and a stout at the moment. My outside flat is now a brewery. It is next door to the garage full of bikes :lol: No mielies or chemicals in mine. Pure Rheinheitsgebot. Just malt yeast and sometimes some dextrose for light beers. Even have fridges to ferment at european temperatures, and crash chill if I want to drop all sediment and make clear beer. Imported malt and yeast of course. All carbonated naturally and bottle conditioned. No C02 injections

Brewing is like bikes: a hobby that is white as fark :lol:
Being from england you should appreciate good beer, although the english style is a bit bitter to my taste. The chocolate stout I made was not to bad though. Far better than Guiness.
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Eric
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Re: Chinese girls

Post by Eric » October 7th, 2016, 2:18 pm

yick wrote:
mentor wrote:
yick wrote:Materials and money are important to Chinese women, very much so.

I think they expect their husbands to work hard and do everything to provide.

None of this sitting around malarkey - they want nice houses, cars, their kids to be well dressed and to go to good schools.

Their families might not have their hands in your pockets the same way as Filipinas (apparently) but they want you out
earning and it is expected.
Thanks for the clarification.
So, here I think we have a difference with filipinas, as they seem to be more 'relaxed', but as you said may of them they ask indirectly in the form of 'help'.
Better straight and direct terms with a chinese girl, or more soft and indirect with a filipina?
I guess this is possibly a matter of personal choice...
Material things and wealth are important to Chinese women, you had better improve her life or die trying - especially if you have children with her.

Chinese men do that willingly, it isn't even contested. If you want a woman who is willing to let you find yourself and isn't bothered about material possessions then I am sure there are loads of nice western women who'll love you for you.

Chinese women will love you, but they want you to go out to bat when the time comes. No excuses.
This is how it should be and how basically every society is. Men and women are going to sleep together... women in China will take money for sex because they want money.

If you want a serious relationship China is the best place to meet a good gf. But, you better be sure thats what you want, as theyre not sluts and they have self respect.

Western women dont want or need a man, are independent and require respect for this. They are bad gfs, sluts and are really good for sex. ..
In China it is commonly accepted, cheating. They are a practical people.

Be nice to a female and her panties will drop for you. Amazed it took me to 30 for this advice.
Misery and happiness are only states of mind.

El_Caudillo
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Re: Chinese girls

Post by El_Caudillo » October 7th, 2016, 2:50 pm

Some good advice from Yick here when he says it depends. I both the good and bad when I was in China, in terms of foreigners getting into long term relationships with local girls. I'm talking in China meet ups here.

Good was often the youngish guy hooking up with the sweet girl with a major in English and a fascination for the West, if not for moving there.

Good was also the classic expat guy with company job who hooked up with materialistic, smart younger woman. He had the money and let her deal with the Chinese administrative stuff in their lives.

Bad was the guy who married a unsophisticated girl and took her back to the West, only for her to realize he wasn't rich at all back there.

Bad was the average guy who met a girl in a bar, who stayed with him for a year, got fluent in English and then moved to her next host.

Lonelier sometimes was the foreigner who delayed getting involved, learned the language and then could see through the various motives? But everyone has motives.

Of course there is myriad of possible outcomes...

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Re: Chinese girls

Post by Blue Murder » October 7th, 2016, 4:55 pm

chanta76 wrote:I find that fair number posters here are selfish . If they know something they dont want to share . thinking if someone else know..there is not enough for me. Either that we just have allot trolls here.
Both of those are correct.
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Re: Chinese girls

Post by mentor » October 7th, 2016, 6:22 pm

El_Caudillo wrote:
Bad was the guy who married a unsophisticated girl and took her back to the West, only for her to realize he wasn't rich at all back there.

I would like to have more analysis on this....

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Re: Chinese girls

Post by Zambales » October 7th, 2016, 7:44 pm

El_Caudillo wrote: Bad was the guy who married a unsophisticated girl and took her back to the West, only for her to realize he wasn't rich at all back there.
When I go to somewhere like the Philippines I try to explain to as many people as I can that only a small minority in the West are rich. They kind of get the picture when I point out that if everyone was wealthy, hardly anyone would work, meaning society wouldn't function properly. Who would drive the bus? Who would police the streets? Who would bake the bread in the morning? etc. etc.

Too many of the genuine women in the poorer countries think that finding a guy and relocating to the west is a piece of cake and they'll live happily ever after. Likewise with the guys who think that all foreign women would make ideal wives. There's naivety on both sides.

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Re: Chinese girls

Post by Zambales » October 7th, 2016, 8:05 pm

yick wrote:
Kradmelder wrote:
yick wrote:Materials and money are important to Chinese women, very much so.

I think they expect their husbands to work hard and do everything to provide.

None of this sitting around malarkey - they want nice houses, cars, their kids to be well dressed and to go to good schools.

Their families might not have their hands in your pockets the same way as Filipinas (apparently) but they want you out
earning and it is expected.
You know what women are like Kradmelder - they like to keep you busy throughout the week and on your days off, you want to sit on the couch after a hard weeks graft with a cold can of Lion in your hand - watching the rugby and the missus wants you fixing some f***ing shelf - white, brown, Chinese or black - they are all the same.
I abolished slavery in my house but I had to put my foot down with my ex. You have to because if you don't they'll take liberties. I see my days off as my Sabbaths with walking the dog and washing the car the odd time the only acceptable strenuous activities. :)

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Re: Chinese girls

Post by Kradmelder » October 7th, 2016, 9:56 pm

Zambales wrote:
yick wrote:
Kradmelder wrote:
yick wrote:Materials and money are important to Chinese women, very much so.

I think they expect their husbands to work hard and do everything to provide.

None of this sitting around malarkey - they want nice houses, cars, their kids to be well dressed and to go to good schools.

Their families might not have their hands in your pockets the same way as Filipinas (apparently) but they want you out
earning and it is expected.
You know what women are like Kradmelder - they like to keep you busy throughout the week and on your days off, you want to sit on the couch after a hard weeks graft with a cold can of Lion in your hand - watching the rugby and the missus wants you fixing some f***ing shelf - white, brown, Chinese or black - they are all the same.
I abolished slavery in my house but I had to put my foot down with my ex. You have to because if you don't they'll take liberties. I see my days off as my Sabbaths with walking the dog and washing the car the odd time the only acceptable strenuous activities. :)
I can't recall how many years since I washed my bakkie. I pay blacks to do that. But washing my own bikes is a labour of love. Would you pay someone to give your wife a bath? I will kneel in the hot sun and wash the mud from the spokes and all the parts.

It is about time to do them all again. I have a trip next week.

Is there still a sabbath. Most married men I know Saturday is doing chores, Sunday is a bike ride or church and be home by 12 to make Sunday meal because their wives don't cook. I'm totally serious. Even hard core bikers ride at sunrise on Sunday, by 11 wives calling they woke up and are hungry so he must come home and cook. Sunday meal is a big family thing here. Most men I know do the cooking and none are those you would weak sister or faggot types. They just want their kids to eat proper. I can relate to it. When my kids tell me what my x feeds them I just want to spend my weekend making good food for them.

I just spent 3 hours making slow cooked ribs and veggies from garden because they told me a week at their mother for school holiday they just ate take aways.

So please define what you mean by slavery? Working in day running a business and running a home as well? Ok I'm a slave and I can't blame whitey for that.

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Re: Chinese girls

Post by Zambales » October 7th, 2016, 10:41 pm

A woman forever wanting you to do work around the house. What's a bakkie by the way?

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