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Discuss culture, living, traveling, relocating, dating or anything related to the Asian countries - China, The Philippines, Thailand, etc.
My two cents. The majority of Chinese girls are not materialistic, because traditional Chinese values include 包容 (tolerance) and 磨合 (learning to get along). Unfortunately this is changing as China's hell bent on economic develooment under a Western capitalist model. It's still very much possible to find a good wife in China, but you must settle down in China and NEVER take her out of China. I lament the future of China. The youth are rapidly becoming poisoned by Western consumerist BS.
You write English very well for a Chinaman in china and have a very different insight, which is interesting.
Tolerance and getting along are feminine traits across the race and culture divide. All traditional women had these traits. It was one of major roles of women to keep harmony in the house. Now women are the most divisive creature in the house with their me me me attitude. All races have or are succumbing to the consumerism seen at its worst in the American model. All races also succumb to the Jewish poison of feminism, porn, self indulgence etc.
It is a question of time until even the Muslims succumb. The only reason Muslims and Chinese held out longer is they kept out the brainwashing trash from Hebrewwood and don't have jews, especially in positions of influence. unfortunately Chinese women will also become degenerate the more and more they are exposed to western culture. It corrupts everything absolutely.
So this is the opposite of has been written previously here, but thank you and you are welcome to contribute your knowledge.
Respect to your actions, you do you your duty well! Thank you.
I am actually a Chinese-Canadian, first gen. Before I returned to China (where I lived in Beijing for six years) my Chinese was crap, but after I started using it on a daily basis I just picked it up. Now I'm equally fluent in both, though my English is probably still better by a small margin. I'm now in Vancouver for college but I'll definitely go back to China in the near future. As a rule of thumb I'd say that it's best to tread carefully with women in the developed first tier and borderline first tier cities, this includes women who migrated to these cities and got corrupted by the city vibe. Also, make sure that she wants to stay in China and not leave it. I would highly recommend settling down in a smaller place.
Here is what a Chinese girl told me. "You fck like a God. You are wonderful and kind. A really great guy. Why won't you be a slave for me?" Think Chinese girls are not greedy? Think Chinese don't live on credit? Think the Chinese don't pay their debts? Look at all the revolutions and regime changes. Think again folks.
Like the Beastie Boy's song says, "It's sabotage."
Your comments are strange. You live in Vancouver, where the "communist" young Chinese drive around in Porsche's and Ferrari's (even though nobody in China paid their debts when they turned commie). Where the young Chinese men have lots of hot chinese sex slave girls. Escorts all over the place. Where the food, air and water are not poisoned unlike the rest of Western Canada. The Chinese, servants of the Israeli Kurgan NWO agenda don't get poisoned, right? You were also living in Barcelona for a while. The city that gets the best of everything, even though they have nothing. Food and water aren't poisoned there either. No chemtrails over either city. Yet you tell whitey to go and live in China and thus serve the Chinese economy. You sound like a do as I say but not do as I do kind of guy.
China's a big country so maybe they differ depending on where they're from.
Why do western men die before their western wives? Because they want to!
In a second tier city some years ago I knew and English guy who married a local girl. The guy was intelligent but was fond of smoking marijuana. He was quite overweight, but only in his early thirties. Anyway, they had a child together and initially the in'laws moved in to look after the baby. But then the couple moved to another city as he found a better teaching job. The wife wasn't much of a mother by all accounts and he had to work and look after the kid a lot, although being China they could afford the nanny. The guy decided he would go back to the UK for a year and study to get his secondary teacher registration - so he could eventually work in International schools in China. That was when things started to go wrong. His wife didn't want to look after the kid all the time and really couldn't accept that back in the UK they really didn't have much money - she woke up to the fact he was just an average Joe. He got stressed out and started to fail his course work. Eventually they found him dead with some pills and a bottle of drink. The wife still lives in the UK - guess she got her ticket out of China. Harsh to blame her really. But it was a marriage in which neither side knew what they were getting into. He was a nice guy, it's a terrible story.
Yes, now I understand better.
Sad story, but it argues about what you said before...
Girsl should know well, that maybe westerners are in better financial conditions than themselves, but in no way they could be considered as 'rich'. Life in the west is far more expensive too.
I think these things should be clearly discussed in the couple, and the girl should really know what she can realistically expect.
No excuses then.
The younger generation of Chinese girls think they are akin to Korean and Japanese girls already, but China is still a third world shithole. Can anyone explain this phenomenon? Like they think their shit doesn't stink and they are as hot as any Korean or Japanese girl, yet their hygiene is still disgusting, some of them still possess those light mustache outlines or have hair growing out of their toes.
mentor, you said you are in your 40's right? You are not going to be getting any early 20's Chinese girls unless you have the cash to flaunt and spend on them.
Btw, you want to get an idea of the average Chinese girl, check out this video:
Pay close attention when they start talking about a girl they met at a bar In Beijing who was livestreaming herself, and how bitchy and cunty and self-conceited she was. Yet, she looks like a 6/10. Yellow fever idiots and beta Chinese guys think she's a 9/10. I'm laffin'
I never make this kind of comment but i hope she dies a horrible death.
I would settle with just throwing my drink at her face. Of course i'd be confronted by a hundred manginas though.
Waking up to this post made me not want to leave the bed, knowing what's coming to newer generations of men. We're lucky we caught the end trail of it at least.
Having said that, that's not the average chinese girl (at least yet), come on.
Can't wait to hear The Adventurer's take.
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
Me sir! Me sir! Me sir!
The answer is that a lot of Chinese girls have woken up to the fact that a lot of western expats in their country are nothing more than useless sexpats and mongers who are out for what they can get. So now, Chinese girls are wary of western wen, and I don't blame them.
If your gripe is because the days of Napoleon Dynamite types from America turning up and securing a nice looking Chinese girlfriend have long gone - well, you had your chance between 1997-2008 - Chinese women have wisened up, good for them and I hope it continues, I would hate this country to turn into Thailand or the Philippines - attracting the flotsam and jetsam of humanity, after a quick lay.
But you still want to f**k them
Depends who he is and how he looks, it also depends on the way he behaves and acts and how long he is willing to stay in a certain locale and get to be a fixture. If he thinks he will fly in and out on two week jaunts - I don't fancy his chances.