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Discuss culture, living, traveling, relocating, dating or anything related to the Asian countries - China, The Philippines, Thailand, etc.
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Asian girl wants white baby
Some Asian woman are really self-hating and loathe being Asian, so, no...not surprising.
Could be easier in Hong Kong due to its colonial legacy, but I can only speak for the mainland.
In the mainland it depends. Some girls and their families might be worried about you because you're a foreigner, they're afraid you might leave China, but some are just conservative. However, from my experience, girls who are at least somewhat more educated and exposed to the world may be more open to at least giving you a chance. And then, of course, there's fate.
Dating in Zhejiang is really hard. But it's a very wealthy place. Also social connections are really important here.
Yesterday I found a whole part of this city I never knew existed. I thought I lived in the rich part... but there's an even richer part .
Just stay in one place for a long time and built up your social network. Oh, and throw your phone away and talk to people.
When Chinese girls talk about liking 'white men' or 'foreigners' they mean the German football team, hollywood actors and Ronaldo - they're the people that usually get cited when they talk about 'foreigners/white guys' that pique their interest.
If you are average height, balding, scruffy, unhygenic etc etc white guy - then no, they don't mean YOU.
Just to save confusion on this topic - the more characteristics that make you stand out - height (very very important to be over six foot or as near as dammit), big muscles, good dress sense, smell nice and be clean, don't smoke etc - are far more important than being white skinned and of European DNA.
In fact, in China, your looks are judged FAR more harshly if you're white than they would ever be if you were a Chinese or Korean man. Chinese girls compare the average white guy to movie stars, they don't compare local fellas to Chinese movie stars.