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Photos of hot/cute girls I met in Angeles City!

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Postby Winston » Wed Nov 18, 2009 7:55 pm

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Some are...some not...

Postby Nate » Thu Nov 19, 2009 8:03 am

Well a couple of them look pretty good...but an average walk through Gaisano Mall would show off
a better crop of hot girls...most of whom obviously would rather work in a mall at low wages than
sell themselves...and stop posting these photos Winston (haha) you are going to give me an attitude
as not one of these girls even comes close to my girlfriend...and the best part is that she does not
seem to even know it...I better stop here...or will spend a whole page bragging about her...
I have seen a lot of the Philippines and I have to say that for just straight out HOT babes...the
southern Philippines is number 1....
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Postby Winston » Thu Nov 19, 2009 12:17 pm

The mall has a lot of cute sweet girls, yeah. But they are poor and not willing to sell themselves, however, sometimes they will still ask you for money and offer nothing in exchange, naively thinking that out of good will, you as a foreigner give out free money to anyone in need, with no strings attached. Kind of dumb.

So how are southern girls different? I heard Mindanao was kind of conservative. Ladislav says that too.
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So WWu, did you f**k any of these bar-girls?

Postby MatureDJ » Sun Nov 22, 2009 6:18 am

Did you?
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Re: So WWu, did you f**k any of these bar-girls?

Postby Winston » Mon Nov 23, 2009 5:50 pm

MatureDJ wrote:Did you?


Some of them.

Hint: If the pic shows me in a private room with them, then it's a good bet that I did :)
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Down South

Postby Nate » Tue Nov 24, 2009 6:54 am

Winston wrote:The mall has a lot of cute sweet girls, yeah. But they are poor and not willing to sell themselves, however, sometimes they will still ask you for money and offer nothing in exchange, naively thinking that out of good will, you as a foreigner give out free money to anyone in need, with no strings attached. Kind of dumb.

So how are southern girls different? I heard Mindanao was kind of conservative. Ladislav says that too.


What is the difference between southern Visayan speaking girls and Manila girls?
Well first, there are ethnic differences. Malay blood more heavily dominates, and
generally the girls are better looking. All of the girls you show here would be quite average
down south. Some are "cute" but hot by southern standards? Not really...
(Admittedly a subjective standard)
The southern girls do tend to be a bit more conservative, but it is not really a problem...
and there is nothing as good as "Catholic girls being naughty"...haha
Davao...Cebu City...Cagayan De Oro...all have an overstock of quite pretty girls...
My GF is certainly one of those southern hotties...men's taste varies on what is absolutely hot...
but at a certain point, there is general consensus that a girl is at least in the hottie category.
My forum description in response to Ladislav's posting was of an imaginary girl who might motivate
many men to settle for a "one and only" was actually about Jie.

Anyway...for some schmucks still stuck forever in the USA...your photos must be quite the tease for them...
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Postby Winston » Tue Nov 24, 2009 10:05 pm

If southern Filipinas are better, then how come most men come here to Angeles to date girls? Or Cebu, rather than Davao?

Can you post pictures of girls you think are hot, so we have an idea, rather than just words?
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Postby Nate » Wed Nov 25, 2009 4:48 am

Winston,

Check your map. Cebu is clearly part of the Visayas region of the Philippines. The southern Philippines does not just refer to Mindanao. In typical usage, the southern Philippines will include the Visayas and Mindanao.
I would think most men going to Angeles for a "date" are in fact looking to get laid by a prostitute, so "dating in Angeles"
is quite a different thing than meeting one of the southern hotties I was referring to. Even in the Philippines, I suspect that the absolutely hottest girls will usually not end up as prostitutes. They usually have other options.
However, a "date" that begins with paying a bar fine is quite a different thing than spending time living in an area
and mixing socially and culturally to the point that one is accepted by local families as the "proper material" to express interest in one of their daughters.


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Postby Repatriate » Wed Nov 25, 2009 4:12 pm

swincor_ wrote:
However, a "date" that begins with paying a bar fine is quite a different thing than spending time living in an area and mixing socially and culturally to the point that one is accepted by local families as the "proper material" to express interest in one of their daughters.



This is a very simple concept Winston seems not to understand, or is unwilling to understand. He has set the bar so low for himself that he seems to confuse dating women with paying a prostitute for sex. If the latter is his thing, fine, but this thread is misleading to say the least. A much better indication of his success with filipina women would have been to actually date and post pics of girls OUTSIDE the bar scene.


If there was one single salient point of criticism leveled at this site that I agree with this would have to be the one. I hope Winston will post some normal pics of normal Filipinas. I have seen some nice normal filipinas abroad but i'd like to see a good cross sample within the population of the Phillipines. I have nothing against the pay for play scene but Winston should really be clear on what direction he wants this site to head in.
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Postby Mr S » Wed Nov 25, 2009 4:27 pm

If you want to see what real Filipina girls look like try browsing dateinasia.com
Make sure you choose Philippines cause other Asian countries are there also. It's a free site and the girls online will actually chat with you. I've used it a few times to chat with girls in the south since they are a bit harder to meet than in Luzon generally.

Angeles is pretty much a whoring town but you can meet regular girls there as well in the right places, mainly the malls, small stores or restaurants. But they could be former bar girls or a loose woman anyways considering their living in the city so you never know her true history. If you just want to get laid with little effort Angeles is the place to go. Other cities take a bit more effort depending on their size and location within the Philippines. The smaller the city the more everyone knows what's going on so it's often difficult to just date a girl that's better than average and not have locals know about it, especially if your a foreigner. I've never gotten lucky in Davao or Cagayan de Oro but Cebu and Bacolod are pretty decent places to meet chicks and get laid. Davao in my opinion is the gayest city next to Manila I've ever been in. If you like sausage fests while bar hopping then Davao is a good place to visit. :P
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The Really Hot Girls are Not Prostitutes

Postby Nate » Wed Nov 25, 2009 5:14 pm

swincor_ wrote:
However, a "date" that begins with paying a bar fine is quite a different thing than spending time living in an area and mixing socially and culturally to the point that one is accepted by local families as the "proper material" to express interest in one of their daughters.



This is a very simple concept Winston seems not to understand, or is unwilling to understand. He has set the bar so low for himself that he seems to confuse dating women with paying a prostitute for sex. If the latter is his thing, fine, but this thread is misleading to say the least. A much better indication of his success with filipina women would have been to actually date and post pics of girls OUTSIDE the bar scene.

The Philippines is a big place, and with a lot of time and money on one's hands (as Winston has), one could easily venture out into the southern islands, and actually experience filipina women in real life, away from the seedy, artificial bar scene of Angeles. But that's not Winston has done. Since arriving in the Philippines, he has devoted virtually his whole time in a dusty whoretown, hitting up bars day in and day out just to pay bargirls for sex. For all his talk about being adventurous, Winston is in fact the complete opposite: lazy, un-curious, and un-adventurous, particularly in his approach to pursuing women.

And for all his talk about finding quality women overseas, Winston's approach boils down to nothing more than paying a prostitute. It reflects an extremely lazy, slumming attitude that extends to other areas of his life as well. We see this attitude manifest itself in his distinct lack of interest in his new country outside the bar environment of Angeles City, or in the way he asks questions like, "Why do many people think my site is only about sex tourism?"



How many men want a GF or Wife who is or was a prostitute? I sure would not and I do not personally know a man
who would accept such a thing. The prettiest of girls are unlikely to end up as GRO's (Prostitutes). That only makes sense, as even with very poor families, a really hot girl has some options that others may not have...who says life is fair? In other words, the most desirable girls, with that special combination of hot looks, charm and personality, are
not likely to be found working as bar girls. Do the math. They have options. Usually they have numbers of suitors.
And the first foreign guy that comes along may not make the grade either. On several occasions I have been asked
by Filipino friends to vet an American man expressing interest in their daughter. They want to know about his background and if in fact he is what and who he claims to be.
I know a Brit young man who lives in Manila metro who is only 25 years old, has learned Tagalog, and is engaged to a high quality girl. He asked permission to court her. Again, he was looking for an actual life partner...a beautiful and
intelligent girl, not just the first pair of spread legs he could find.
So what is a hot girl? Well in my book, it is beauty, charm, that sparkle in the eye, a kind of sizzle and enthusiasm for life, and when her heart chooses, a wildcat in the sack. Whores are not such girls, and such girls are not whores.
For a guy who wants to bar fine his way to oblivion, be my guest. The prostitutes need the business,
but we should not pretend that it's quality girls we are talking about in the process.

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Postby Mr S » Thu Nov 26, 2009 4:26 am

It's very difficult to find a quality girl here in the Philippines, that is my opinion. Most have low education or no critical thinking skills and have little to talk about outside the immediate reality of the Philippines. I would say only around 10% of the population would be deemed 'partner' material or an all-around partner that has multiple skills in different areas of life. Most of the guys that come here for girls are of the blue collar type or work in a trade. There are some business guys but they pretty much can separate their bar night entertainment woman from normal ones. Usually they are dating a normal girl and screwing around on the side for fun in the bars.

If you have a masters degree or doctorate or other professional degree I would say don't bother trying to find a decent woman here cause it's near impossible unless your standards are low in the looks department or your willing to deal with typical feminist shit found in America. Wealthy woman here in the Philippines tend to be dominant so if your not the submissive type than dating one isn't going to work out. Actually most of the woman here once they get into a relationship with you try to dominate the guy to see what they can get aways with. It's just that woman with money technically don't need a man so they tend to think they can be the boss. The older the woman is the worse it gets.

I interview the cream of the crop here in the Philippines on a regular basis and get to see a lot of educated woman and talk to them. There aren't that many I would bother with, most of the good ones are trying to immigrate to other countries anyways so all the uneducated leftovers will be around in the coming years. Basically the education system is such shit here that when comparing it to a western one you have to drop down one notch their education level. For example if they graduated high school it would maybe be only equivalent to reaching 8th grade. If they graduated university that would only be equal to finishing high school. If they have a masters that would maybe be the same as getting a bachelors degree. Any doctorate or professional degree is really only about the level of a masters in a western country unless they got their degree overseas or gained additional training in a foreign country. Most of the decent professionals are leaving the Philippines in droves on a monthly basis. The only ones staying are the ones with poor English skills or have other obligations that make them have to stay in the country.

The Philippines is going to be a really f***ed up place 10-20 years from now as they have no one qualified to teach the next generation and their society is going to just keep getting worse, not better.

Personally I wouldn't bother getting involved with a Filipina as a long term GF or wife, too many issues not worth dealing with over a long period of time. Find other woman from different countries, that's my opinion. They are okay to hang around with on a short time basis but long term they have too many negatives going for them to consider being a proper house wife. Most of the younger woman can't even cook or do house hold chores! Especially if they come from a rich family, so they are little different from western girls in that respect. They are generally lazy too and won't keep their bodies looking good as they age, they just rely on nature so if it goes it goes with them. Also they have nothing to really talk about, they will bore you to death in the long run.

I'm more of the intellectual and rational type so this may be why I can't find a decent girl here cause most of the population is more emotional and has little to say of relevance in a conversation. If you don't mind having a girl that is overly emotional and has trouble thinking independently and making her own decisions about various subject matter than ok be with a Filipina. But most guys married to one that live here in Philippines specifically hang out at bars because they want to meet and talk to foreigners. Mainly cause their GF or wife has nothing to say so they need to find people that can stimulate them intellectually.

I've been living here for over 5 years now and traveled to all the major cities here in the Philippines. It's all the same wherever you go. Those decent educated girls from the the Philippines that are dating material are most likely already in the western country you are trying to escape from: Canada, UK, New Zealand, Australia, Ireland & USA. Hang around some of the major hospitals in one of the bigger cities and you'll find Filipinas originally from the Philippines. Chat them up, they may be a better catch than traveling all the way to PI to attempt to find a decent girl.

I've already given up on girls from PI and to a lesser extent other Asian countries; I'm looking ahead to eastern Europe or South America as I haven't had many experiences with the woman from those areas. Asian woman yes, and I know what package they bring to a relationship. I'm not so sure I want to sign for it at this juncture in my life... :lol:

And yes, some of the prettiest girls do end up whoring themselves out cause they have no other options. Over 60% of the population is considered poor and many of these girls are pushed into the bar industry to support their families, especially if they are older. They will sacrifice their life to see that their younger brothers and sisters get their education and don't have to sell their bodies for money. It's sad but that's life here in PI. Decent education is not provided by the government here so there are little realistic options for the poor to get out of poverty. You can find nice girls in the bars that could be dating or wife material if you have low standards but they could never truly function properly in a western society for the most part. I think most guys messing around with bar girls and marrying them have low education and self esteem themselves or are at an age where they are older and can't get girls under 25 in their own countries so they will settle for a girl from PI, even if she was a bar girl. The bars here don't feel like brothels so a newbie guy won't really get the impression it's prostitution cause the girls are so nice to customers they like and treat them like BF's, better often then how a normal girl would treat you in the west and only after one night!

This is the seduction of places like Philippines and Thailand, the naughty nightlife can fool westerners into thinking that it's not prostitution cause it doesn't feel like western style prostitution. However if you got a good head on your shoulders and decide to live in either Thailand or Philippines you'll start realizing that its not what it appears to be and it's just a slick way of selling skin that's more lucrative than in western countries. With some guys it doesn't take long, others it takes years to break out of the fake reality they present to guys. It took me a few years to actually wake up and realize nothing decent really comes out of the bars if your looking for a GF or wife. It's ok for fun just like any titty bar would be in a western country, but getting serious with a girl from there is a huge risk and 9 out of 10 times the relationship will not work out in the long run if you come from a respectable background.

(Plus women in Philippines can sense bar girls, they have a sixth sense about it. So if you try to date one and bring her around the mall or regular places you will get stared at cause everyone knows a working girl, trust me this is the truth! I used to do that and never payed attention but now I would never run around with a bar girl in broad daylight if you have any kind of good reputation you want to keep!)
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Postby Repatriate » Thu Nov 26, 2009 6:04 am

Mr S wrote:It's very difficult to find a quality girl here in the Philippines, that is my opinion. Most have low education or no critical thinking skills and have little to talk about outside the immediate reality of the Philippines. I would say only around 10% of the population would be deemed 'partner' material or an all-around partner that has multiple skills in different areas of life.

I would say that about any place in the world. I believe that once you take into consideration attractiveness, education, and most importantly personality and compatibility there are usually only 10% left out of any pool of women.

I have met quite a few Filipinas abroad and I don't quite see what the appeal is. They seem to adore western culture and adopt the worst aspects of it (pop media worship) while excluding the best aspects (education, critical thinking, and individuality) Also Filipinos in general have this inferiority complex that can be a rather annoying attribute.

If you have a masters degree or doctorate or other professional degree I would say don't bother trying to find a decent woman here cause it's near impossible unless your standards are low in the looks department or your willing to deal with typical feminist shit found in America.

One major turnoff i've seen in Filipinas is that they tend to be very opinionated and kind of ignorant as well as loud mouthed in a way that's highly unappealing.
Most of the decent professionals are leaving the Philippines in droves on a monthly basis. The only ones staying are the ones with poor English skills or have other obligations that make them have to stay in the country.

The Philippines is going to be a really f***ed up place 10-20 years from now as they have no one qualified to teach the next generation and their society is going to just keep getting worse, not better.

Also they have nothing to really talk about, they will bore you to death in the long run.

From what i've seen of the brain drain abroad i'm not too impressed with the "cream of the crop" if this is what they are. I do think the Phillipines is really f***ed though. They have the worst possible situation out of most SEA nations aside from maybe Myanmar. I'd say maybe even Myanmar is better since they can at least retain hope that one day the junta will fall. Whereas the political and educational complacency is rooted deep within Filipino culture.
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Postby Mr S » Thu Nov 26, 2009 12:06 pm

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Mr S wrote:It's very difficult to find a quality girl here in the Philippines, that is my opinion. Most have low education or no critical thinking skills and have little to talk about outside the immediate reality of the Philippines. I would say only around 10% of the population would be deemed 'partner' material or an all-around partner that has multiple skills in different areas of life.

I would say that about any place in the world. I believe that once you take into consideration attractiveness, education, and most importantly personality and compatibility there are usually only 10% left out of any pool of women.

I have met quite a few Filipinas abroad and I don't quite see what the appeal is. They seem to adore western culture and adopt the worst aspects of it (pop media worship) while excluding the best aspects (education, critical thinking, and individuality) Also Filipinos in general have this inferiority complex that can be a rather annoying attribute.

If you have a masters degree or doctorate or other professional degree I would say don't bother trying to find a decent woman here cause it's near impossible unless your standards are low in the looks department or your willing to deal with typical feminist shit found in America.

One major turnoff i've seen in Filipinas is that they tend to be very opinionated and kind of ignorant as well as loud mouthed in a way that's highly unappealing.
Most of the decent professionals are leaving the Philippines in droves on a monthly basis. The only ones staying are the ones with poor English skills or have other obligations that make them have to stay in the country.

The Philippines is going to be a really f***ed up place 10-20 years from now as they have no one qualified to teach the next generation and their society is going to just keep getting worse, not better.

Also they have nothing to really talk about, they will bore you to death in the long run.

From what i've seen of the brain drain abroad i'm not too impressed with the "cream of the crop" if this is what they are. I do think the Phillipines is really f***ed though. They have the worst possible situation out of most SEA nations aside from maybe Myanmar. I'd say maybe even Myanmar is better since they can at least retain hope that one day the junta will fall. Whereas the political and educational complacency is rooted deep within Filipino culture.


Yup! You understand them perfectly! I wish more people could see through the propaganda about them and be realistic about their faults. I think some countries though have higher percentages of potential dating and marriage material, but the longer I stay here in this country and other 3rd world countries it becomes less likely I could ever have any kind of a solid long-term relationship with a woman from these types of countries. I'm not someone to have to settle for second best. I use time as an advantage to improve myself. I really think guys who settle for 3rd world girls are lowering the bar for themselves and just settling for what they can get cause of the ease of it. Yeah, the girls are good looking when they are young but most woman are decent looking under 25, it's just they are poor and desperate so guys with money look like an easy ticket out of their misery.

Since I have been obtaining my masters degrees and will start a PhD program in another year I really have no interest in the women that surround me here in the Philippines. I think if I want a relationship I am still young enough to find a higher quality woman to get into a relationship with from another country. I'll probably shoot for Europe and see what happens. I'm attempting to gather ancestry records that proove my Irish lineage which will entitle me to Irish citizenship and thus a EU passport to live and work anywhere in the EU legally if I wish.

Unlike Winston, I'm mainly stuck in this country cause I'm fighting a legal battle trying to get custody of my daughter. I had a brief fling with how Benjamin Franklin would call, "a low woman", and now I'm paying the price economically, mentally and emotionally. Don't ever get involved with someone from a low social class and education level from yourself cause if it doesn't work out and you have children involved, your life will be a living hell trying to reason with the mother. Various viewpoints of looking at reality and what is best for the child is at stake and we don't see eye to eye on almost anything. Right now she has run off to the province with my kid and I don't know what the hell she is doing. The legal system here is f***ed up also so it's not much help with immediate answers. It may take up to 2-3 yrs to settle this thing if she keeps running around avoiding to confront the situation. I'm just doing it for my daughters sake cause I know her life will be shit if her mother is in charge of her life.

Anyways if you have decent self-esteem for yourself don't get involved with girls from 3rd world countries, have fun with them casually only. The only exception to this would be if you live in the country long term, such as over a year or longer then maybe you can weed out the undesirables and find one that might be willing to learn and change, thus you can mold her to a higher potential possibly.
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Postby gmm567 » Thu Nov 26, 2009 5:44 pm

SO wonderful post on the negatives of the philipines. Very insightful. I wonder how you would compare
the situation here in the United States. I know you've said before that you thought the dating situation was
horrible here.

Please, I 'd be very interested to learn more about how you assess the United States vis a vis women, dating , marriage.
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