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Winston's Chinese dream girl! Is she attainable?

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Postby Rock » Sat Feb 22, 2014 6:12 pm

kai1275 wrote:
Winston wrote:Wow check out this hot Chinese girl with long white legs. Are girls like this attainable in China? If so, by what types of guys?

http://women.happierabroad.com/women/info144057.htm

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Winston asked me to comment on this. My initial thoughts:

1. Wow she is a Hunan girl, that is kinda TALL for a female. 5'7"! South Chinese girls are not that tall usually.
2. Very long slender frame with a DONK in the back. (rare if legit) (She looks like a gal Rock would love)
3. She is wearing a p***y skirt, nothing with that, but gave everyone a TASTE in the first shot!
4. Little to no photoshop on this one. A wonderful sign!
5. Her age is 21. Which explains numbers 3 and 4. She might be pretty immature.
6. Says she is an receptionist for a job. A Chinese girl like this in Hunan is a 9 minimum to Chinese men. She is hounded everyday and approached every week at least. If she has an asshole boss it's worse.
7. She probably went to a 2 year college. Which means she is still easy pickings for even your average Chinese guy. That also means she is probably serious about marriage too since she is not in a 4 year school.
8. I kinda wonder why she is looking for a foreigner. Not saying she is suspicious, but she needs to be vetted out heavily. I saw many like this in Changsha, and there are more of them than men walking around, so it is not too suspicious.

You cannot get all the intel you need from looking at photos. At a bare minimum I would make contact immediately, keep conversation simple and light and try to get as much intel lightly as you can for at least a week. Then get a bit more aggressive towards finding out if she is bonafide trophy wife material. A gal like this is NOT for all men. She knows it too. A man too old will need a ton of game and paper to catch this one if she is not smart. Otherwise she would be like some of the other 9's walking around with a skinny jeans wearing, good looking Chinese guy, that is dead broke. She obviously is too smart for that.

Nice catch on this one Winston. I just hope no one else beats you to the punch now that you gave it away. :lol:


Yes you are right, she's tall and has a hot face. Nice! Winston, this is better than most you post from Asia. To make her closer to perfect though, I would need to feed her a lot of rice. Those hips need to be fattened up lol.
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Postby publicduende » Sat Feb 22, 2014 6:17 pm

kai1275 wrote:Winston asked me to comment on this. My initial thoughts:

1. Wow she is a Hunan girl, that is kinda TALL for a female. 5'7"! South Chinese girls are not that tall usually.
2. Very long slender frame with a DONK in the back. (rare if legit) (She looks like a gal Rock would love)
3. She is wearing a p***y skirt, nothing with that, but gave everyone a TASTE in the first shot!
4. Little to no photoshop on this one. A wonderful sign!
5. Her age is 21. Which explains numbers 3 and 4. She might be pretty immature.
6. Says she is an receptionist for a job. A Chinese girl like this in Hunan is a 9 minimum to Chinese men. She is hounded everyday and approached every week at least. If she has an asshole boss it's worse.
7. She probably went to a 2 year college. Which means she is still easy pickings for even your average Chinese guy. That also means she is probably serious about marriage too since she is not in a 4 year school.
8. I kinda wonder why she is looking for a foreigner. Not saying she is suspicious, but she needs to be vetted out heavily. I saw many like this in Changsha, and there are more of them than men walking around, so it is not too suspicious.

You cannot get all the intel you need from looking at photos. At a bare minimum I would make contact immediately, keep conversation simple and light and try to get as much intel lightly as you can for at least a week. Then get a bit more aggressive towards finding out if she is bonafide trophy wife material. A gal like this is NOT for all men. She knows it too. A man too old will need a ton of game and paper to catch this one if she is not smart. Otherwise she would be like some of the other 9's walking around with a skinny jeans wearing, good looking Chinese guy, that is dead broke. She obviously is too smart for that.

Nice catch on this one Winston. I just hope no one else beats you to the punch now that you gave it away. :lol:


Her description starts with "As you can see I have a perfect body figure that is so soft and enjoyable to cuddle up next to. Hehe... Do you want to feel that? I am a smiling girl and easy to get along with everyone." Sounds like something a high-class escort would publish in her profile. And the racier photos exposing her rack...hmm...sure girls in China are so open-minded? It would be just too good to be true! :)
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Postby Rock » Sat Feb 22, 2014 6:31 pm

publicduende wrote:
kai1275 wrote:Winston asked me to comment on this. My initial thoughts:

1. Wow she is a Hunan girl, that is kinda TALL for a female. 5'7"! South Chinese girls are not that tall usually.
2. Very long slender frame with a DONK in the back. (rare if legit) (She looks like a gal Rock would love)
3. She is wearing a p***y skirt, nothing with that, but gave everyone a TASTE in the first shot!
4. Little to no photoshop on this one. A wonderful sign!
5. Her age is 21. Which explains numbers 3 and 4. She might be pretty immature.
6. Says she is an receptionist for a job. A Chinese girl like this in Hunan is a 9 minimum to Chinese men. She is hounded everyday and approached every week at least. If she has an asshole boss it's worse.
7. She probably went to a 2 year college. Which means she is still easy pickings for even your average Chinese guy. That also means she is probably serious about marriage too since she is not in a 4 year school.
8. I kinda wonder why she is looking for a foreigner. Not saying she is suspicious, but she needs to be vetted out heavily. I saw many like this in Changsha, and there are more of them than men walking around, so it is not too suspicious.

You cannot get all the intel you need from looking at photos. At a bare minimum I would make contact immediately, keep conversation simple and light and try to get as much intel lightly as you can for at least a week. Then get a bit more aggressive towards finding out if she is bonafide trophy wife material. A gal like this is NOT for all men. She knows it too. A man too old will need a ton of game and paper to catch this one if she is not smart. Otherwise she would be like some of the other 9's walking around with a skinny jeans wearing, good looking Chinese guy, that is dead broke. She obviously is too smart for that.

Nice catch on this one Winston. I just hope no one else beats you to the punch now that you gave it away. :lol:


Her description starts with "As you can see I have a perfect body figure that is so soft and enjoyable to cuddle up next to. Hehe... Do you want to feel that? I am a smiling girl and easy to get along with everyone." Sounds like something a high-class escort would publish in her profile. And the racier photos exposing her rack...hmm...sure girls in China are so open-minded? It would be just too good to be true! :)


Some of it's lost in translation Duende. Certain Chinese girls flirt like that but it doesn't mean they are easy or for sale. Don't take it too seriously. By Chinese men's standards, she is near perfectly shaped and she knows it. But of course to Rock's standards, her hips are too narrow and she's a bit top heavy. Maybe she could use a bit of thigh thickening too lol.
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Postby publicduende » Sat Feb 22, 2014 8:29 pm

Rock wrote:Some of it's lost in translation Duende. Certain Chinese girls flirt like that but it doesn't mean they are easy or for sale. Don't take it too seriously. By Chinese men's standards, she is near perfectly shaped and she knows it. But of course to Rock's standards, her hips are too narrow and she's a bit top heavy. Maybe she could use a bit of thigh thickening too lol.


Could well be. I have to say she is one of the most beautiful Asians I have ever seen on a romance site. Had I found her pics (especially the saucier ones) out of context, I would have sworn she is a glamour model.

The major thing that puts me off about AFA is the amazingly large number of model-quality girls, especially those from Russia and Ukraine (with the notable Chinese exceptions). It's quite easy to spot the relatively mature divorcee on a generous dose of Photoshop. Yet, a good 50% of those girls are so clearly in a different league from the real ones portrayed on romance tour slash "success story" footage, that the only plausible explanation I can come up to is that they come from a large database of amateur models, or plain pretty girls on semi-pro shoots, who have never had to (let alone desired to) date foreigners online. They might just be visual bait fronting a team of freelance "English translators" (= hack) who can impersonate them at ease and feed the paid subscriber with the delusion that they are corresponding with the girl of their dreams.

The proof of the pudding is one and only. How many people here, or people you know about, have actually met any of those goddesses and started a romantic involvement? Loveme.com looks like a dedalus of pages, yet the only testimonial I could find is below.

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By all means, no intention to be rude, they look like a nice couple yet...for maximum advertising effect, wouldn't a few real life photos of one or more of the top 5% with real AFA members be a lot better? In other words, why do they bombard us with H-bomb visual candy, only to give us access to a few petards when we ask for a real meet? :)
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Postby droid » Sun Feb 23, 2014 3:24 am

They might just be visual bait fronting a team of freelance "English translators"


Those are good points duende. I've never trusted those sites at all. I think they feed off guys that just want to import a girl with at 'click', instead of going to the field to do the work themselves.

Having said that, Winston's original question was only whether these kind of girls were attainable over there. I think it is really possible, if you put the effort and time.
Again, not to sound PUA but losing weight, getting a haircut that matches your face, nice clothes, working out, etc, will work wonders to maximize your results. The thing is, I really saw a lot of cute girls with a sweet and respectful, appreciative attitude... in this case they really ARE WORTH the effort IMO.

Small case in point, in my short trip, I played a video game with a girl hotter than the one in the pictures, a supermodel type, only somewhat skinnier. I clowned around with my gestures as I played etc, and she was giggling uncontrollably in such a sweet way at the end, I swear she was ready to take her clothes off or marry (I know I know I was an idiot for not closing the deal, anything else I say is just an excuse, but that's besides the point).

Anyways, small stuff, but in my limited experience, there is a world of difference in their attitude. AND THERE IS NO PERENNIAL CHUMP ORBITING, you see them often alone, available at least for friendship.

However, I want to see once I move, if they really are as flaky as some of you guys say...
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
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Postby Rock » Sun Feb 23, 2014 4:53 am

Some guys like to dream, to imagine their fantasies. Sites with high percentages of model looking gals cater to the dreams of some guys. Just look at Winston. Of course, they get paid handsomely for finding ways to fill that need.

China has lot of pretty, attractive, or at least cute girls. Most girls there are not hot hot though unless you go to an artificial environment - big city higher-end KTV or restaurants that cherry pick hostesses/waitresses from around the country, a beauty pageant, or say a modelling and fashion college.

I've encountered girls similar to the one in this profile from time-to-time in China. They never seem to be the type that fall into anyone's lap. At least that goes for all the guys I was around. It might not be so hard to manage a date with one or even, if you get lucky, some level of intimacy. But these girls are in such high demand that unless she just happens to fall for you or your type or you happen to encounter her at the perfect time, she's not likely to enter a serious relationship with you. Her options are endless and unless she's very simple and naive, she's gonna know that much at least.

Sometimes, such girls do intimidate local guys and may be single. But there are older monied dudes out on the prowl looking for such gems, even in the hinterland. They don't mind showering and spoiling real beauties to win them over. I have a friend in Shanghai who rolls like this. Last time I saw him, he was showing me photos of his stunner of a gf, someone he found up in Heilongjiang. He told me he supports her to the tune of like 30,000 Rmb a month plus certain perks. No wonder so many girls there get so spoiled so fast.
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Postby Wolfeye » Sun Feb 23, 2014 5:36 am

Damn, that one in the black in those last photos has an ass on her! Very interesting (and suprising, since it seems Chinese women aren't as known for it as maybe Phillipino or Vietnamese chicks).

A woman that wants a man that is conformist & pleasing to the establishment might be a bit quick to latch on to whoever does that a bit more than the other guy. It seems a very servile way to be, which to my mind is different from collaboration. Be careful of women that are too focused on occupations, since these women might not be the most reliable of people in hard times & might not be too helpful in those times. Occupations can change, the money you make can be useless or closed off to you, the establishment might very well become an enemy- these are very important things for both people to realize.
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Postby publicduende » Sun Feb 23, 2014 12:05 pm

Rock wrote:Some guys like to dream, to imagine their fantasies. Sites with high percentages of model looking gals cater to the dreams of some guys. Just look at Winston. Of course, they get paid handsomely for finding ways to fill that need.

China has lot of pretty, attractive, or at least cute girls. Most girls there are not hot hot though unless you go to an artificial environment - big city higher-end KTV or restaurants that cherry pick hostesses/waitresses from around the country, a beauty pageant, or say a modelling and fashion college.

I've encountered girls similar to the one in this profile from time-to-time in China. They never seem to be the type that fall into anyone's lap. At least that goes for all the guys I was around. It might not be so hard to manage a date with one or even, if you get lucky, some level of intimacy. But these girls are in such high demand that unless she just happens to fall for you or your type or you happen to encounter her at the perfect time, she's not likely to enter a serious relationship with you. Her options are endless and unless she's very simple and naive, she's gonna know that much at least.

Sometimes, such girls do intimidate local guys and may be single. But there are older monied dudes out on the prowl looking for such gems, even in the hinterland. They don't mind showering and spoiling real beauties to win them over. I have a friend in Shanghai who rolls like this. Last time I saw him, he was showing me photos of his stunner of a gf, someone he found up in Heilongjiang. He told me he supports her to the tune of like 30,000 Rmb a month plus certain perks. No wonder so many girls there get so spoiled so fast.


Exactly. Women like the above exists, they're not 3D renders. The questions are:

1) are they genuinely looking for a foreign partner, or they just lend their smiles and poses for a "dating service" of dubious utility, in which case the chance of attaining them is cipher nought?
2) why would they be interested in putting themselves up on an online dating site, catching the fantasies of a thousand Average Joe, when their option include the creme de la creme of their local men: old money guys, rich executives and financiers, minor celebs, etc. Compared to Average Joe, any of those specimens could meet them IRL, sweep them off their feet and whisk them away to a life of comfort and luxury?

We Westerners easily fall into the delusion that, by having a magical edge, we will always be preferred to local men no matter what. When in fact there are so many local men in Russia or China who are young, handsome, and successful, and will probably have a better clue on how to handle said ladies without a hint of a cultural or language barrier.
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Postby publicduende » Sun Feb 23, 2014 12:44 pm

droid wrote:
They might just be visual bait fronting a team of freelance "English translators"


Those are good points duende. I've never trusted those sites at all. I think they feed off guys that just want to import a girl with at 'click', instead of going to the field to do the work themselves.


They're the bait people click on and send love letters to (replied by some hacks slaving away in a poorly heated office in a tier 3 Russian town). Then $100 or $500 worth of "translation fees" later, the more adventurous (or desperate) of them will want to meet the lady, and the lady will agree, only to flake out at the last possible convenient moment. Maybe Mr. Joe already has a ticket booked and you could see the disappointment etched on his ageing face. But...no fear! For a small extra fee, they can embark him on a romance tour where he could meet dozens of ladies "just like that one". And the ladies he is actually able to meet IRL, one-to-one or party style, are a bunch of average looking divorced women (over 30, if lucky) with one or two kids, not dissimilar from Joe's life situation. If the agency has enough money, they could sprinkle the party with handful of younger and attractive girls, paid a token to turn up and pose as interested parties, dance and giggle and pretend to like whatever the Joes are saying to them.

The above might be an overly cynical (if tongue in cheek) account, yet it is exactly what crosses my mind when I think people are paying a decent dollar to send letters to those pretty young ladies.
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Postby chanta76 » Tue Feb 25, 2014 6:59 pm

Some of those photos are photoshop.

Your best bet is to go to China and see for yourself ..I mean the thing with loveme is that they sometimes use as someone mentioned bait and switch pictures. I don't know how many they do but the best thing to do is go to China.

Plus Winston ..don't you have a family now to take care?
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Postby Rock » Tue Feb 25, 2014 7:43 pm

publicduende wrote:
Rock wrote:Some guys like to dream, to imagine their fantasies. Sites with high percentages of model looking gals cater to the dreams of some guys. Just look at Winston. Of course, they get paid handsomely for finding ways to fill that need.

China has lot of pretty, attractive, or at least cute girls. Most girls there are not hot hot though unless you go to an artificial environment - big city higher-end KTV or restaurants that cherry pick hostesses/waitresses from around the country, a beauty pageant, or say a modelling and fashion college.

I've encountered girls similar to the one in this profile from time-to-time in China. They never seem to be the type that fall into anyone's lap. At least that goes for all the guys I was around. It might not be so hard to manage a date with one or even, if you get lucky, some level of intimacy. But these girls are in such high demand that unless she just happens to fall for you or your type or you happen to encounter her at the perfect time, she's not likely to enter a serious relationship with you. Her options are endless and unless she's very simple and naive, she's gonna know that much at least.

Sometimes, such girls do intimidate local guys and may be single. But there are older monied dudes out on the prowl looking for such gems, even in the hinterland. They don't mind showering and spoiling real beauties to win them over. I have a friend in Shanghai who rolls like this. Last time I saw him, he was showing me photos of his stunner of a gf, someone he found up in Heilongjiang. He told me he supports her to the tune of like 30,000 Rmb a month plus certain perks. No wonder so many girls there get so spoiled so fast.


Exactly. Women like the above exists, they're not 3D renders. The questions are:

1) are they genuinely looking for a foreign partner, or they just lend their smiles and poses for a "dating service" of dubious utility, in which case the chance of attaining them is cipher nought?
2) why would they be interested in putting themselves up on an online dating site, catching the fantasies of a thousand Average Joe, when their option include the creme de la creme of their local men: old money guys, rich executives and financiers, minor celebs, etc. Compared to Average Joe, any of those specimens could meet them IRL, sweep them off their feet and whisk them away to a life of comfort and luxury?

We Westerners easily fall into the delusion that, by having a magical edge, we will always be preferred to local men no matter what. When in fact there are so many local men in Russia or China who are young, handsome, and successful, and will probably have a better clue on how to handle said ladies without a hint of a cultural or language barrier.


Young women like that exist China but they are definitely above the norm.

Some may actually be genuinely looking for a foreign partner. Don’t forget China’s size. The pool of Chinese gals on English language dating sites relative to their total population is much smaller than it is for Filippinas or Russians. A westerner is a lot more obvious and exotic in China than in Russia. There are still niche girls in China, some of whom are even attractive or better.

I think most of this crazy money in China is new. 25-30 years ago, very few local mainlanders were even wealthy. Now you probably got more millionaires in either Shanghai or Beijing than NYC. The friend of mine I mentioned in Shanghai was broke 10 years ago. Now he owns a downtown Shanghai apartment, a restaurant, and a club. He acts and gets treated like a big shot. When he comes to Taipei, his attitude is that it’s just a backwater now.

There’s a percentage of Chinese girls who may remain innocent and simple. I’ve met those types. They may marry their college sweetheart or perhaps an English teacher crush. Some won’t feel comfortable around rich or flashy guys. They may think that they are not good enough or that they don’t fit in that kind of life. Even some very pretty girls just want a simple life. But the million dollar question is, given what’s been going on in China, how small has that percentage become.

Yes, some westerners are very delusional about how they are seen abroad. The pattern they often seem to fall into is initially having some beginners luck when they arrive in country or at some point after, learning to fancy themselves as newly minted ladies men, but quickly spiraling down the quality ladder of who they date. They might not even be conscious of the dynamic but if you visit them after reading all of their amazing accounts, you may be quite disappointed in their actual dates or how local girls in general seem to respond to them.

But, you also see a lot of lower key or more down-to-earth expats in Greater China, especially Taiwan and China. So many actually do not fit nicely into the clichés and stereotypes we like to spout on about here. The ones who are more in line with those caricatures are found more often in SE Asia.
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Postby droid » Wed Feb 26, 2014 1:26 am

Her options are endless


I don't know if I can agree with that. Let me throw some numbers at this:

There's only 1Million millionaires in China, or 0.1% of the populace.
However, let's consider a worst-case scenario. Suppose each one of them is a single male and heavily monopolizes/spoils 10 girls or so. That's 10 million of the hottest girls.

There's about 100 million girls aged 20-30
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According to this, these rich guys have taken the top 10% of girls. Which really paints a bleak picture.

But I argue, there's still 90 Million candidates for the rest of us. Numerically speaking, you should still be able to get plenty of "9"s.
It can't be that bad, a lot better than back home LOL, both in quantity, and quality.


Having said that, I'd be more concerned about all the non-rich extra dudes in the market...
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
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Postby kai1275 » Wed Feb 26, 2014 5:12 pm

Rock wrote:
kai1275 wrote:
Winston wrote:Wow check out this hot Chinese girl with long white legs. Are girls like this attainable in China? If so, by what types of guys?

http://women.happierabroad.com/women/info144057.htm




Winston asked me to comment on this. My initial thoughts:

1. Wow she is a Hunan girl, that is kinda TALL for a female. 5'7"! South Chinese girls are not that tall usually.
2. Very long slender frame with a DONK in the back. (rare if legit) (She looks like a gal Rock would love)
3. She is wearing a p***y skirt, nothing with that, but gave everyone a TASTE in the first shot!
4. Little to no photoshop on this one. A wonderful sign!
5. Her age is 21. Which explains numbers 3 and 4. She might be pretty immature.
6. Says she is an receptionist for a job. A Chinese girl like this in Hunan is a 9 minimum to Chinese men. She is hounded everyday and approached every week at least. If she has an asshole boss it's worse.
7. She probably went to a 2 year college. Which means she is still easy pickings for even your average Chinese guy. That also means she is probably serious about marriage too since she is not in a 4 year school.
8. I kinda wonder why she is looking for a foreigner. Not saying she is suspicious, but she needs to be vetted out heavily. I saw many like this in Changsha, and there are more of them than men walking around, so it is not too suspicious.

You cannot get all the intel you need from looking at photos. At a bare minimum I would make contact immediately, keep conversation simple and light and try to get as much intel lightly as you can for at least a week. Then get a bit more aggressive towards finding out if she is bonafide trophy wife material. A gal like this is NOT for all men. She knows it too. A man too old will need a ton of game and paper to catch this one if she is not smart. Otherwise she would be like some of the other 9's walking around with a skinny jeans wearing, good looking Chinese guy, that is dead broke. She obviously is too smart for that.

Nice catch on this one Winston. I just hope no one else beats you to the punch now that you gave it away. :lol:


Yes you are right, she's tall and has a hot face. Nice! Winston, this is better than most you post from Asia. To make her closer to perfect though, I would need to feed her a lot of rice. Those hips need to be fattened up lol.


Nah man! Get her pregnant a few times and she will fill out! Fine wines get better with age! This is the natural order of how women SHOULD be. She is just right. In her 30's she will get a little closer to what you like and might take till 40 or 50 to get the rest. Then she is still enjoyable if not more in your older age. Any women with too much hip and thigh action risk being fat and busted in their 40+ ages. Not always but in most cases. I agree with your assesment of nearly perfect though. She is very damn close.
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Postby kai1275 » Wed Feb 26, 2014 5:25 pm

publicduende wrote:
kai1275 wrote:Winston asked me to comment on this. My initial thoughts:

1. Wow she is a Hunan girl, that is kinda TALL for a female. 5'7"! South Chinese girls are not that tall usually.
2. Very long slender frame with a DONK in the back. (rare if legit) (She looks like a gal Rock would love)
3. She is wearing a p***y skirt, nothing with that, but gave everyone a TASTE in the first shot!
4. Little to no photoshop on this one. A wonderful sign!
5. Her age is 21. Which explains numbers 3 and 4. She might be pretty immature.
6. Says she is an receptionist for a job. A Chinese girl like this in Hunan is a 9 minimum to Chinese men. She is hounded everyday and approached every week at least. If she has an asshole boss it's worse.
7. She probably went to a 2 year college. Which means she is still easy pickings for even your average Chinese guy. That also means she is probably serious about marriage too since she is not in a 4 year school.
8. I kinda wonder why she is looking for a foreigner. Not saying she is suspicious, but she needs to be vetted out heavily. I saw many like this in Changsha, and there are more of them than men walking around, so it is not too suspicious.

You cannot get all the intel you need from looking at photos. At a bare minimum I would make contact immediately, keep conversation simple and light and try to get as much intel lightly as you can for at least a week. Then get a bit more aggressive towards finding out if she is bonafide trophy wife material. A gal like this is NOT for all men. She knows it too. A man too old will need a ton of game and paper to catch this one if she is not smart. Otherwise she would be like some of the other 9's walking around with a skinny jeans wearing, good looking Chinese guy, that is dead broke. She obviously is too smart for that.

Nice catch on this one Winston. I just hope no one else beats you to the punch now that you gave it away. :lol:


Her description starts with "As you can see I have a perfect body figure that is so soft and enjoyable to cuddle up next to. Hehe... Do you want to feel that? I am a smiling girl and easy to get along with everyone." Sounds like something a high-class escort would publish in her profile. And the racier photos exposing her rack...hmm...sure girls in China are so open-minded? It would be just too good to be true! :)


She could be a high end escort. It is actually very common these days to find pics of girls like this one taking photos in hotels in China, like this gal did. They usually post this kind of stuff in Weibo with titles like: "Am I hot or no". They are usually mining for comments to help jumpstart a modeling career, increase their modeling work, look for sugardaddys, or pull high end clientele for xiaojie activity. Some of the xiaojie-ish ones do not think what they are doing is xiaojie, because they are not the ones hanging out in the barbershops offering a bullshit haircut. Some of those are also mining for an er-nai gig as well.

She is not "Virgin-Hunting" material, but at the same time, she still might be a good catch if her background and personality pans out. Her beauty makes her worth the effort to dig for sure! The biggest thing is her replying back to you. Using game to get her to Skype as soon as comfortably possible, is crucial.

I will share a weibo link of the hot girls from various cities when I can collect them. You can actually contact the girls directly that way. Basically the Chinese version of "Instagram Game". That kind of game would be nice to see out of our single guys here. Might be a bit slanted towards a younger cat. Like under 50. Chinese language skills might be mandatory as well. Maybe Xiongmao could try it out if no one else can.
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Postby kai1275 » Wed Feb 26, 2014 5:35 pm

Rock wrote:
publicduende wrote:
kai1275 wrote:Winston asked me to comment on this. My initial thoughts:

1. Wow she is a Hunan girl, that is kinda TALL for a female. 5'7"! South Chinese girls are not that tall usually.
2. Very long slender frame with a DONK in the back. (rare if legit) (She looks like a gal Rock would love)
3. She is wearing a p***y skirt, nothing with that, but gave everyone a TASTE in the first shot!
4. Little to no photoshop on this one. A wonderful sign!
5. Her age is 21. Which explains numbers 3 and 4. She might be pretty immature.
6. Says she is an receptionist for a job. A Chinese girl like this in Hunan is a 9 minimum to Chinese men. She is hounded everyday and approached every week at least. If she has an asshole boss it's worse.
7. She probably went to a 2 year college. Which means she is still easy pickings for even your average Chinese guy. That also means she is probably serious about marriage too since she is not in a 4 year school.
8. I kinda wonder why she is looking for a foreigner. Not saying she is suspicious, but she needs to be vetted out heavily. I saw many like this in Changsha, and there are more of them than men walking around, so it is not too suspicious.

You cannot get all the intel you need from looking at photos. At a bare minimum I would make contact immediately, keep conversation simple and light and try to get as much intel lightly as you can for at least a week. Then get a bit more aggressive towards finding out if she is bonafide trophy wife material. A gal like this is NOT for all men. She knows it too. A man too old will need a ton of game and paper to catch this one if she is not smart. Otherwise she would be like some of the other 9's walking around with a skinny jeans wearing, good looking Chinese guy, that is dead broke. She obviously is too smart for that.

Nice catch on this one Winston. I just hope no one else beats you to the punch now that you gave it away. :lol:


Her description starts with "As you can see I have a perfect body figure that is so soft and enjoyable to cuddle up next to. Hehe... Do you want to feel that? I am a smiling girl and easy to get along with everyone." Sounds like something a high-class escort would publish in her profile. And the racier photos exposing her rack...hmm...sure girls in China are so open-minded? It would be just too good to be true! :)


Some of it's lost in translation Duende. Certain Chinese girls flirt like that but it doesn't mean they are easy or for sale. Don't take it too seriously. By Chinese men's standards, she is near perfectly shaped and she knows it. But of course to Rock's standards, her hips are too narrow and she's a bit top heavy. Maybe she could use a bit of thigh thickening too lol.


I think her breasts are the result of a push up bra, but I could be wrong. Something 80% of Chinese women are really into. That said, Hunan women with large chests are not uncommon. My wife has a D cup. Women in the South have bigger chests, especially Guangzhou women.

Her ass is what is uncommon. Only Guangzhou women have asses like that, but even out of the ones with nice donkeys, relatively very few are THAT pretty as well. Also Guangzhou women have amazing muscular/thick/Chun Li legs and thighs to go along with them. It's exceptionally rare to see one that big in proportion to waist/stomach that flat as well.
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