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Winston's Chinese dream girl! Is she attainable?

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Postby Winston » September 5th, 2014, 9:22 pm

Wow look! I found the perfect looking sexy Chinese dream girl that I want to MARRY! She's perfect for me! She's self-employed too, so we have something in common!

What do I do? How do I get her? What do I say? How should I go about it?!

http://women.happierabroad.com/women/info148351.htm

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Postby MrBlueLight » September 6th, 2014, 3:12 am

This girl looks like the gold digger type. I think the original girl that posted was more attainable. That one seems like a normal girl when she's without her make up. This new girl...the competition will be fierce, man.
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Postby Winston » September 12th, 2014, 10:10 am

What about this for my dream girl? She's such a lovely Chinese cutie! So sexy and feminine too!

http://women.happierabroad.com/women/info148620.htm

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Postby MrBlueLight » September 12th, 2014, 11:01 am

It would be more helpful if you post pictures of girls who are not all done up. Like girls in their everyday clothing rather than modeling pics. Every girl can look unattainable when done up to the dime, but what she looks like normally will give us way more information on what kind of girl she is.
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Postby Winston » September 13th, 2014, 10:48 pm

Wow check out these Romance Tours to China. The ladies look so lovely. What do you think? Should I go to one?

http://women.happierabroad.com/tour/chi ... -women.htm
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Postby Winston » September 13th, 2014, 11:34 pm

What about this for my Chinese dream girl? lol. She looks very hot and model-like, but also high maintenance and materialistic. Her facial expression below looks kind of self-absorbed too.

http://women.happierabroad.com/women/info146532.htm

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Postby KokujinKrusader » September 14th, 2014, 12:44 am

MrBlueLight wrote:It would be more helpful if you post pictures of girls who are not all done up. Like girls in their everyday clothing rather than modeling pics. Every girl can look unattainable when done up to the dime, but what she looks like normally will give us way more information on what kind of girl she is.


This is 100% true. sometimes, even donning a pair of glasses can completely change a person's look. One of the girls that worked at one of the hotels that I stayed at looked like a totally different person when she got dolled up and took her glasses off.
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Postby MrBlueLight » September 15th, 2014, 8:55 am

Are you just grabbing pictures of random girls off the web? Do you know these women? If not, you cannot have them because you don't know them!
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Postby sea_dragon » September 15th, 2014, 9:44 am

heh you want to marry all of those girls. why not polygamy?

On another note, those girls aren't my type. Mostly because I don't find southern Chinese looks to be attractive and I look more similar to chiseled northern Chinese looks.
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Postby Winston » September 15th, 2014, 9:59 am

MrBlueLight wrote:Are you just grabbing pictures of random girls off the web? Do you know these women? If not, you cannot have them because you don't know them!


No. Don't you see the web links above the photos? They are from my AFA site. I can contact them through there.
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Postby MrBlueLight » September 15th, 2014, 10:09 am

Are you rich?
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Postby In2dadark » September 15th, 2014, 5:48 pm

Looks like a sales gimmick.
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Postby chanta76 » September 15th, 2014, 10:07 pm

Most of these pictured have some photoshop and lighting to make the girls look even better. You need to see a regular picture to really judge.
Winston you need allot of money to land a hotter chinese girl. Better to jead back to the philippine where you are notice more.
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Postby Winston » September 15th, 2014, 11:33 pm

MrBlueLight wrote:Are you rich?


It depends on who you are comparing me to. If you compare me to someone poor, I will seem rich. If you compare me to a doctor or engineer in America, I will not.

Why do you ask? Relationships based on money never last and have no passion.

Better to find a hot Chinese girl with a good heart and values.

Besides, the fact that you can't even see the web links above the photos and recognize that these are girls from AFA, hampers your credibility and intelligence. So what's your point?
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Postby Winston » September 16th, 2014, 5:04 am

Maybe you guys are right. Chinese women aren't easy to get along with. They are very materialistic-minded, very judgmental and analytical, etc. They not only want a guy who is well off, but who has good genes to pass on, looks presentable to her family and friends and out in social settings, has stable character, no major flaws, etc.

That's the Chinese mindset. I know because I'm Chinese too and I know my ethnic mentality. It's not that they want to tear others down. They just like to analyze and consider lots of factors and practical issues. There's a reason why Chinese are good and efficient in business. They are good at using good common sense and practical instincts to ensure success. It takes a strong analytical mindset and wisdom to accomplish that.

I don't think the women in China will be as picky as in Taiwan though. Everyone tells me they aren't. But it won't be easy to get a hot girl there. It's more realistic to expect to get a 6 or 7. But even plain Chinese girls can be cute or attractive, as long as they aren't fat and don't look degenerate.
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