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If your a billionaire with an asian fetish try and get a girlfriend that doesn't look like a train wreck, not like this pinhead. This chick wouldn't stand a chance of getting a boyfriend in asia but in the US she can land the big one. Most guys working in china have smokin hot girlfriend despite the fact there broke and there drunk half the time.
Hey, if he likes her, then that's his business.
Back in college, we had a native American guest speaker from Northern CA. He told us that in the old days, when men wanted to choose a wife, he'd feel her hands. If she had "worker's hands", it means that she'd weave, cook, and clean, making a good wife. If her hands are nice and soft, you'd starve as her husband.
Over the past decade, I've dated girls ranging from uber short/skinny, 5' tall & 98 lbs, to tall and chubby. From personal experience with girls in California, Taiwan, Singapore, and Malaysia, I found that pretty girls tend to be lazy at home and have messy bedrooms/bathrooms. Once I dated a girl from HK whos room was so messy, you could barely open the door to the room, and her dirty laundry was all over the floor. Her bathroom? I had to use 2 bottles of bleach to clean it.
My ex-GF in Taipei, I had to mop her bedroom floor and launder her bed sheets and blanket, because it was filthy and disgusting. She slept with her pet dog and the dog barfed on her sheets. She kept her underwear stashed in plastic garbage bags in her bed as storage. If you saw her outside the house, you would've never guessed as she looked perfectly dressed up and pretty.
I also recall this skinny Taiwanese chic from UCLA. Her bed smelled funny and I asked when was the last time that she changed her sheets. "2 or 3 months", she replied. Then she commented "maybe longer'. She also wears her jeans for weeks without washing and sat on my bed in those same jeans. X_X At that point I actually felt sorry for my nice bedsheets.
After 20 years of dating, I've simply concluded that the old native Indian guy had the right idea. Hotties make great girlfriends and hot lays in the sack, but most do not make good marriage material. If you're looking for a wife who'd stay & be loyal to you and change your diapers when you're 90 years old, you really need to look at qualities other than looks.
Hahaha it reminds me of when me and my filipina girlfriend were staying with my American friend and his Maranao wife. My friend's wife felt my girlfriend's hands and her first question was, "Do you know how to wash clothes?" (We sent our clothes to a laundry service. She could really cook though.)
“b***y is so strong that there are dudes willing to blow themselves up for the highly unlikely possibility of b***y in another dimension." -- Joe Rogan
This along with the peeing in the mouth stories i've been reading on this forum are actually making me a little ill.
Yeah some women are slobs at home and i've seen this as well. Trade roommate stories with women who have had to room a lot. I've never had guys i've roomed with in college leave their skidmarked underwear laying around but the women i've talked with have always had some "interesting" stories such as their roomies leaving used tampons out on the floor/counter etc..
Yeah she does look pretty terrible right down to the linebacker thighs/calves that should not be on any asian woman. I'm not particularly surprised by Zuckerberg's preference in women though. It seems guys that fit his profile (skinny, nerdy, relatively smart, jewish background?) tend to date asian women.
This reminds me that Woody Harrelson has a pretty ugly looking asian wife as well. The dorky looking actor Michael Cera was also dating a pretty ugly Chinese girl.
Nicholas Cage at least married a pretty hot Korean waitress.
I think people do become a little blind when it comes to attraction from another race. Some guys generalize race down to collective superficial characteristics and go with the first "asian" or "white" woman that pops up. They end up with a dog but some people really can't tell all that well.
1. As someone who's into tall and curvy women, I'm going to disagree with the consensus here. I don't think she's so bad. I kinda like the first set of shots in pants and if she's 170 cm or above, I would probably be attracted to her too. Anyway, she's not typical of Chinese girls I tend to see a lot of whities pick - in line with the short and skinny stereotype of Asians. BUT, this man is a freakin multi-billionaire and he's young to boot! He could have about any and as many women as he could ever want. So yes, it does seem quite odd that he would select her, especially if he plans to be serious with her and monogamous.
2. Yes, Zuckerberg comes from a Jewish background and is a self professed atheist. It seems like so so many of the very brightest, richest, and/or most creative Americans happen to be secular Jews (sorry if that's not PC enough). A few of the Jewish friends I used to know from work have also settled down with Taiwanese or Chinese girls too.
Well attraction is in the eye of the beholder I suppose. I know for sure most asians (not just Chinese) would think she's rather ugly and mannish. Then again she's a harvard grad and is dating a billionaire so she's smart enough to network and f**k the right people. That's pretty smooth right there.
I do think there is a perceptual gap in what people find attractive in various races though. Just looking around me in Thailand I don't think i'm wrong when I say that most white people seem attracted to the really short and dark asian look which is pretty much the opposite of what Thais and a lot of other asians find attractive.
I had a childhood friend who was a Marine and Jewish. He has a pretty hardcore asian fetish which I asked about. He told me pretty much verbatim that a lot of Jewish guys date asian women because they are the 1) closest to their family's expectations of respectable education and work background as well as being attractive 2) They aren't stuck up annoying JAP (jewish american princesses)
The dog would pee on the floor and run over it. Then my ex-GF would pick her dog up and kiss the dog's feet. I had to ask myself what I was kissing on her lips.
I think that's more than enough detail for me. You can't have stayed with her too long... Don't care how hot she was, that's just plain disgusting.
Suppose it could have been worse, she might have had relations with her pooch behind your back
My girlfriend has "worker's hands." She used to work in the fields.
Asian women are like the new trophy wives. I notice here in NYC that you see professional white guys married to Asian women. You rarely see a blue collar white guy married to an Asian women. I think the reason is one for Asian American women they are open to dating out more than any other race. And unlike white women they have less baggage but still have baggage if she is Americanize.
But Asian guys get the short end of the stick...but I do see a rise of Asian guys with white girls. Speaking of taste...I also notice that white guys are more forgiving in the looks department compared to Asian men taste. I notice overweight Asian girls or Asian girls who just look too plain or even unattractive with white guys. Personality wise I have no idea how they are...
That reminds me of the small comedy She's Out Of My League where a character theorized about the relative hotness and how a couple has to be in a certain range to survive. Specific to the movie the Asian American girl, the fattest woman in the movie was married to a fat white man. But she had once been with the fat guy's pretty boy, friend. The dude said she got bonus points for being Asian so instead of being a 4 she was a 6, otherwise pretty boy a hard 8 would have had nothing to do with her. Meanwhile the character who keep pushing the theory self described himself as a 5 who was a relative 7 because he played Darryl Hall in a Hall & Oates tribute band.
It's the fact that there aren't very many asians in the U.S. as far as percentage goes. People always forget that the total population of Asians in the U.S. is only 4.5% or so. Plus most of the asian population is concentrated in CA, NY/NJ, and Hawaii. Asian people stick out like sore thumbs and asian women even more so because most white American women have moved the bar extremely low when it comes to attractiveness.
Most "hot" AA women i've seen in the U.S. would be merely average in Thailand. However even very average slim asian girls with very plain faces will look good if your options are a fat white/black woman with a bad attitude or nothing at all. I think that's why the hype with asian women is so outrageous too they are simple a far superior option over what's the norm in the U.S.
I notice that too. I think it maybe because the Asian American population is small and that maybe the reason why there is not too many hot looking Asian girls in USA. In Asia you see hot looking girls all over the place but the Asian girls in America is like hit or miss.
But I think in general speaking American women (white , black etc..) physical are the least attractive. On the average American women are over weight..and don't dress well or up keep. Usually women from overseas are much more attractive.
Not just Asian women in Asia but other women from other countries. I think diet plays a big part because the American diet is horrible and also in America being overweight is the normal look.