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Discuss culture, living, traveling, relocating, dating or anything related to Russia, Ukraine, or the former Soviet Republics.
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I met this russian chick 4 years ago called Marina. She was really hot and such fun to be around.
And then you have Marina Hot for words
https://www.google.com/search?q=marina+ ... 37&bih=907
And this woman pops up on Winstons adds.
So I wonder. How come so many really hot woman are called Marina...is that as common as Olga or something?
Thanks for that. There is something about russian women and singing...
One day my ukrainian lady friend wanted to show off her massage skills....she is actually pretty good....very strong in the hands. I have a bad back and told her that massage helps it....so she immediately volunteered to show me how good she was at that....much better than my wife ever was.
So anyway she started humming as she was going about my back massage. She sounded like she knew how to carry a tune...my wife was tone deaf. So I asked her if she could sing....she was very enthusiastic and said yes, of course she could sing....she actually claimed ALL russian women know how to sing pretty well as they learn as little girls.
So I asked her to sing me a song that was one of her favourites.....she sang in Ukrainian of course but that is not more understandable than russian to me.
I can tell you it was a lovely experience....getting a great back massage from a woman who has helped me save my life while singing a very pretty if somewhat haunting melody. I relaxed and enjoyed......
When she stopped singing and stopped the backrub I turned to her to say thank you and I could see she had been crying.....she had tears in her eyes. I was shocked so I asked he why she was crying, why was she upset.
She explained to me that the song was one she learned as a little girl from her mum. The song was of a girl who wished for her prince to come along and she waited and waited all her life for her prince to come and find her and he eventually does......and she simply looked at me and said "that never happened for me"....
It was a very sad moment between us. I talked with her about this for some time because it seemed a bit "morose" or "overly sad". She explained that much of the history of the Ukraine and Russia is very sad and that russians feel very deeply about these things....that they do not always pretend to be happy.
We talked for a while more and I encouraged her that one day her "prince" might show up in a very unexpected time in an unexpected place and that she must keep her mind open as to who he might be and what he might look like.........
After that there were many times she sang to me.......I miss such russian/ukrainian singing.....it was just lovely....
You know what, the song your girl friend hummed is very similar to katyusha(First video).
katyusha is about a girl whose boyfriend has been dispatched to battlefield in former soviet era, and the girl keep waiting her boyfriend home for very long.
Also, what sentimental story.
In fact, that mermaid puppet on "Stingray" is pretty hot. Her name is Marina.
"Woman is a violent and uncontrolled animal... If you allow them to achieve complete equality with men, do you think they will be easier to live with? Not at all. Once they have achieved equality, they will be your masters." Cato the Elder
well she did actually sing it...and for the remainder of our time together she often gave me back massages and sang for me. These were some of the loveliest times of my life. I really do have quite severe back pain at times and regular massage and jogging keeps it at bay. I have slipped disks in my back 4 times now. Very painful. But it costs about EUR50 per hour of massage here in Germany depending on what you ask for. I have this egyptian guy now who is really good. So when fav#1 was doing it for free and I did not need to drag myself off to a health club to get a massage that was really nice. And my mum used to sing to me when I was sick as a little boy so fav#1 singing to me brings back those very fond memories. I do not know why more women do not take care of their man like that. Us men really appreciate it.
I have a LOT of "sentimental stories" of my three most favourite women I met since my wife and I agreed to divorce. My luck with women has been MUCH better than it ever was with my wife....and I think that it is really sad that I can say that.
My wife would never learn how to give me a good back massage and we never had the money spare for me to go to a real masseuse while I was married. I suffered back pain and more for many years of being married because I was working so hard and such long hours I could not take care of my health. My usual day when I was working away from home was 12 to 14 hours per day. Today I strolled into the office at 1:30pm.
Women today just have completely unrealistic expectations of men. Even my fav#1 is in la-la-land over what she is seeking in a man. She said to me once "why do you think I have such bad luck with men?" My response then was "You have had all the luck you need. You met me."
Since then? We talked recently (may) and we went over this topic in great detail. She has had no luck finding a man willing to marry her and have more babies since we split. I told her that the reason she has such bad luck with men is that she tries to dominate and control them. She provokes them to see what they will do and then tries to dominate and control the man when he reacts. Standard for women. I told her that from her descriptions of the men she is talking about the only men she gets close to are the ones that accept her domination and control, she rejects men who will not put up with that, like me. Since she only accepts men who ACCEPT being dominated and controlled she then ends up NEEDING to dominate them and control them. She complains that the men she finishes up with â€œalways have to be told what to do and never do anything of their own accord. They are like children. They need a mother not a wife.â€
When I explained to her that this was HER FAULT because those were the only men she selected she was actually SHOCKED as she could immediately see it was true. I told her that the minute she gave up on â€œmore babiesâ€ I would be very interested. But she is looking for the impossible. A man willing to marry her and have children with her at her age who will stayâ€¦.it is NOT going to happen. If she gets married and has a kid the man will leave 99% sureâ€¦she will drive him out with her domination and controlling techniques because that is the only man she is going to be able to get to marry her. No sane man with any significant money is going to marry her. Such a man will marry a hottie twenty something if he wants kids.
It is amazing that even a man like me is â€œnot good enoughâ€ for a husband if I am not willing to have kids. If I agreed to have more kids I would have been married 10 times over by now. My two top favs both openly said they would marry me in a new york minute if I agreed to have children. But as soon as a man says â€œno kidsâ€ we are, apparently, not good enough. So much for women being â€strong and independentâ€œâ€¦they want a man-slave and more of us men know this.
I actually really would like a nice woman in my life as my wife. I was brainwashed with the idea of being married and so I would prefer to live with a GOOD woman.
Now I am done with kids? I am in excellent health. Tall, blonde, blue eyes. A little overweight but I am 48. All women I meet call me â€œhandsomeâ€.No drugs. No skeletons in the closet. Do not smoke any more. Was a devoted husband and father for 20 years. I am great with kids and small animals! LOL!! I make excellent money and travel the world for my work. I would just like a really nice companion who would just be pleasant to me. But, apparently, this is too much to ask. Women seemingly want a man who is all that and dumb enough to hand over all his money to pay for HER kids.
As more and more women ask â€œwhere did all the good men goâ€? I will keep answering. I was right here but I was hated on despite being the best of husbands and fathers and I am not willing to be any womans slave againâ€¦.and there are millions of men just like me who are fed up with the endless demands of women. I think it is really a shame because I really like women. I find it very strange I have to deny that I am gay over and over again when I have been so attracted to women since my hormones cut in when I was 12.