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Spanish woman tells horror stories about Russian women

Postby Winston » Fri May 16, 2008 7:08 am

Check out this interesting letter I received:

"Hello,

I'm a Basque, woman who has been married to a Russian man for the last 15 years.

Every Russian woman I have met with 2 exceptions, were and I'm sure still are and will be, the biggest pieces of shit under the sun. Greedy, manipulative, cold-hearted, cheap, trashy, cunning, liars, cheats, hypocrites, superficial, immoral, dishonest, disloyal, oh boy!!! where do I stop? I can go on and on and on. They are just as you describe them and more.

My husband, a decent chap until September was nothing like that, in fact I was surprised to meet someone with the same values I inherited from my proud and brave, forefathers; I though I was the luckiest girld around.....till September!!!


His old receptionist left, a new one came, a 22 year old from Shitland AKA Belarus, within a few months she got hold of him (the imbecile) by the proverbial balls. I have no idea what he gets from her, physically she is nothing, I mean just my smile is worth a couple of dozens of her ugly self. Intellectually? Forget it.. she is no astrophysicist either. Wit perhaps? Hey!!come on!!...she has the mental ability of pond life.

So, no intelligence, no good looks, no charm nor wit. In fact she is what I like to call, "an invisible woman", the type one does not notice anywhere, mousey colour hair, phallic looking nose, long ugly bony fingers and really wide-set-eyes. Not a pretty girl at all. So what has she got to make my intelligent husband behave like a cretine? ....Oh! I just got it, it must be sex.....

Frankly I do not know what it is, what I do know is that she actually had the nerve to call me to tell me "she was going to have his baby soon", then, she would take everything from me and make sure I ended up in the street.HA HA HA HA HA!! She does not realise that the Russian woman worth more than a Basque has not been born yet and that, revenge tastes better cold!!!

Her evilness knows no boundary, she sent me a text message while I was in hospital really ill, suffering with pneumonia during Christmas 2007 telling me literarily. "PEOPLE ARE LAUGHING AT YOU , AND I AM DOING XMAS SHOPPING WITH YOUR HUSBAND'S MONEY. HAVE FUN TOO."

My stupid husband did not believe me, many other calls came, I told him but, he was in another galaxy then; I said then..... he has suddenly landed... on his face.....SHE IS PREGNANT... and he is not happy.

A Russian accented man has called me anonymously several times, he has warned me of the whore's intentions, getting pregnant, getting money etc. Four weeks ago, he called again, he said, she has done it, she is pregnant, your husband is buying a car for her and she want to see you in the street. He seems very concerned, he seems to believe that woman is evil enough to try and do something to me. Well, I really hope she does, let her make the first move; I can't wait.

Mr. Dick-head himself showed up for first time since November.

I'm so sorry and ashamed, I have been trapped. I betrayed you. bla bla and f***ing bla..... I warned him, I said a million times, Russian women in the west are women on a mission, OPERATION MONEY. It must be awful for him to realised it was not his devilish looks, his animal magnetism, his charm nor his sense of humour that actually attracted her; it was his bank account, no more, no less. He is just a man so, he was not listening to me and was thinking with his penis. Nothing new I'm sorry to say old chap, but that's just they way men are at times, dick thinkers.

Te fact that I discovered a email from her (la puta) asking him to buy her an apartment in "the elite part of Brest" Elite??? wow, I was not aware there was any class in Shitland (Belarus) let alone an "elite area". I guess that area in the part of town in which the toilets have lids and paper to wipe their ex-Communist derrieres.!!! Anyway, that PETITION/DEMAND was less than two months after their first f**k......and he did not think it odd. Amazing.

A nice mess he got himself into.........I wonder how many cases are there like this? How many Russian whores stop at absolutely nothing (except work) in order to survive. A truly remarkable breed of parasite indeed, a leech as you called them.

I wonder if she knows what to have a Basque for an enemy means?

P. S. Why do all look as though they have taken make up lessons from the Ukrainian School of Advanced Prostitution and Needle Point"
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Postby KristineTheStrawberryGirl » Fri May 16, 2008 7:40 am

Hence the reason that Basque holds a grudge for all Russian women.
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Postby Grunt » Fri May 16, 2008 12:29 pm

So...if all Russian women are "out for the money", what are all the feminists marrying men for?

Our sparkling personalities?

Or, when we consider that 75% of all divorces are initiated by the female and that 90% of kids are given to the mother, AND that child support and alimony are enforced under pain of death...we begin to see the pot calling the kettle black.

Besides, if divorce is going to happen no matter what, why not marry a hot young Russian girl instead of a bloated mouthy feminist?
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FEMINISTS

Postby BASQUE » Sat May 17, 2008 10:01 am

I guess a true feminist would marry just for love/companionship/friendship anything bot money as they usually are independent woman and do not need a chap to pay their bills.
I am not a feminist, I am ME, a successful doctor who has always work in what I chose and love to do. Mr right came along and we got married, he had nothing I had plenty (I always had plenty) and we got together. I was brought up in the true philosophy of the Basque household we-are-all-equal here, only the elders have the knowledge of their year and therefore they are possibly wise than the young ones, Men and women grow up identically educated and respecting each other as equals. In the rest of Spain, the story changes enormously, there, they need to be feminists to be respected, we Basques don't, we have that respect from birth. I can do most things a man can and many more better than them, including fighting or shooting (macho things) change the break pads on any on my several cars, fix the aircon (yesterday I did just that) repair a leak in a tap, paint cook, and do whatever I happen to want to do. There is nothing a woman can't do if she really wants to do it. At my UNI. women got the highest marks by far, so I do not imagine any of these women having to prove any point and joining a feminist group.
I have very little time for feminists nor I have I got it for MACHO men either. I do not give orders (well not often) but I do not take them (never) either
I only have time for people with whom life seems a little nicer if they are around. Cheerful, witty, spontaneous, funny, generous with their time, (no money, I have my own in large am mounts, thanks)
The only feminists I know are not particularly interesting nor intelligent to me, I'm sure they are many who are but as I say, I do not have the pleasure of having met them yet .
The ones I know are both lesbians and men haters, that is daft to me.
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Postby Chemist » Sat May 17, 2008 2:24 pm

Yep, your reading comprehension sucks, big time! This letter proves it.

If these are the types of letters you receive that you're trying to pursuade me that you have hundreds of supporters with, then your support base isn't as solid as you'd like to pretend.

This "Basque" has been hurt by a cheating husband and is venting at anybody who she thinks may be sympathetic enough to listen.

This letter is more of a scathing comentary on Russian men if you ask me. If her husband remained faithful, I doubt Basque would have issues. But he cheats with his Belarussian receptionist and she wants to paint the whole Russian population with the same brush. And it's just the women she's condemning. What about her husband? Oh yeah, he was just "being a man". Not only is Basque a racist, but sexist as well.

Do I really need to go through a list of all the nice women you met in Russia Winston? Do I need to describe to you my fiancees girlfriends and tell you how nice they are?

The fact is that you treated the nice Russian girls like crap while you went after the scammers and part-time prostitutes. Your fault!

Seriously, Wu. Read the letters carefully before you use them as proof of something. The ones that you sent lately have done more to undermine you than support you. Go back to school if you must. It would also help if the author sounded rational and intellectual rather than a raving lunatic. To support a logical argument you need logical sounding people.

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Pobrecita

Postby Erazinn » Sat May 17, 2008 4:20 pm

Hola guapa vasca,
Que tal? Espero que estes mejor. Que triste tu historia. Yo tambien estoy casada con un Ruso. Le voy a comentar las cosas que se me ocurren de los Rusos: fieles, muy de la familia, listos pero super listos, directos y francos, muy de fiestas y bailes, super orteras, tacano ni lo describe (ojo catalanes!!),
no tan guapos pero altos, la comida es buena pero no muy sofisticada, son muy cabezotas, etcetera etcetera. Solo tengo experiencias con mi suegra, mi cunada y los demas. Mi cunada es curiosa porque es maestra y tal vez mejor que los demas pero igual tiene sus carencias segurisimo. Pero acuerdate- ese pais es TAN DURO, que esa gente ha aprendido ser serpientes de la primera clase para sobrevivir. Hay que ganarles en otra manera.
Mi marido para el momento es fiel y me quiere. Oye, yo creo mejor un Ruso que a veces con un mujeriego espanol. En fin, espero que puedes hacer las pazes (paz) con tu marido o escaparte y olvidarte de todo eso y regresar a Espana de los suenos...
Un beso muy grande. Seas fuerte.
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Postby Winston » Sat May 17, 2008 5:31 pm

Chemist,
Again you are only seeing what you want to see. This woman is not a supporter of everything I stand for. She just agrees with me about Russian women. Stop making a mountain out of a mole hill.

I've told you many times, if you really want to see letters from my supporters, there are over 400 of them here: (and many more to be added as well, when I get the time)

http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Reader_Responses.htm

But you refuse to ever read any of them. Instead, you pretend that they don't exist, when in fact they do. Again, your problem, not mine.

You are not a truth seeker, so get out of here.
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Postby joefranks » Sat May 17, 2008 7:41 pm

Basque woman - the way you threatened "la puta" was so sexy, if you ever want a guy to get revenge on your lover with, all that remains for you to seduce me would be a time and place.

Sigh - such are men, and such are women, desperate women, or at least ambitious women towards the bottom of highly unequal societies. Men would probably do the same thing if they didn't, as a gender, control the vast majority of the world's wealth and property.

Allow me to bring in my boy Bertrand Russell on the subject of the state of male-female relations (not too much changed since when he wrote it nearly a century ago):

(From "Proposed Roads To Freedom")
"When elementary needs have been satisfied, the serious happiness of most men depends upon two things: their work, and their human relations. In the world that we have been picturing, work will be free, not excessive, full of the interest that belongs to a collective enterprise in which there is rapid progress, with something of the delight of creation even for the humblest unit. And in human relations the gain will be just as great as in work. The only human relations that have value are those that are rooted in mutual freedom, where there is no domination and no slavery, no tie except affection, no economic or conventional necessity to preserve the external show when the inner life is dead. One of the most horrible things about commercialism [that is, capitalism] is the way in which it poisons the relations of men and women. The evils of prostitution are generally recognized, but, great as they are, the effect of economic conditions on marriage seems to me even worse. There is not infrequently, in marriage, a suggestion of purchase, of acquiring a woman on condition of keeping her in a certain standard of material comfort. Often and often, a marriage hardly differs from prostitution except by being harder to escape from. The whole basis of these evils is economic. Economic causes make marriage a matter of bargain and contract, in which affection is quite secondary, and its absence constitutes no recognized reason for liberation. Marriage should be a free, spontaneous meeting of mutual instinct, filled with happiness not unmixed with a feeling akin to awe: it should involve that degree of respect of each for the other that makes even the most trifling interference with liberty an utter impossibility, and a common life enforced by one against the will of the other an unthinkable thing of deep horror. It is not so that marriage is conceived by lawyers who make settlements, or by priests who give the name of 'sacrament' to an institution which pretends to find something sanctifiable in the brutal lusts or drunken cruelties of a legal husband. It is not in a spirit of freedom that marriage is conceived by most men and women at present: the law makes it an opportunity for indulgence of the desire to interfere, where each submits to some loss of his or her own liberty, for the pleasure of curtailing the liberty of the other. And the atmosphere of private property makes it more difficult than it otherwise would be for any better ideal to take root.

It is not so that human relations will be conceived when the evil heritage of economic slavery has ceased to mold our instincts. Husbands and wives, parents and children, will be only held together by affection: where that has died, it will be recognized that nothing worth preserving is left. Because affection will be free, men and women will not find in private life an outlet and stimulus to the love of domineering, but all that is creative in their love will have the freer scope. Reverence for whatever makes the soul in those who are loved will be less rare than it is now: nowadays, many men love their wives in the way in which they love mutton, as something to devour and destroy. But in the love that goes with reverence there is a joy of quite another order than any to be found by mastery, a joy which satisfies the spirit and not only the instincts; and satisfaction of instinct and spirit at once is necessary to a happy life, or indeed to any existence that is to bring out the best impulses of which a man or woman is capable. " (emphasis added)
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Postby Chemist » Sat May 17, 2008 8:53 pm

Again you are only seeing what you want to see.

Au contrair!

You stalked me through the email once again with a copy of this letter. Did you not?

And it had this subject heading:

"Chemist, even intellectual Spanish women have horror stories about Russian women"‏

Nobody with any sense can look at this subject heading without coming to the conclusion that you intended the letter to refute an earlier claim of mine that you were your own worst enemy in the FSU and not the russian women.

You figured that if you dug down into the barrel deep enough for at least one other letter that agreed with your opinion about russian women, that you were vindicated.

Accept that you didn't read the letter carefully enough (like you didn't read hocus's letter before you posted it in your "Why do they bash thread")

First, the letter isn't intellectual at all. You don't seem to realize that your credibility suffers when you call something intellectual that clearly isn't.

Second, for all we know, the Belorussian girl could be the victim of all this. The Russian husband could have told her that he was divorced from this Spaniard but is still causing problems and how much he loves her instead. Or she may be under duress. The Russian guy could have threatened her job if she didn't comply with his wishes. You simply don't know.

Third, no matter the circumstances, the Russian husband was the one who cheated. You know, the person that's suppose to honor his wife! Why is she being so soft on him? I suppose that he's "just a man" and that he didn't know any better about what love and committment are about. I can't help but feel insulted by this thought.

So we have a spanish woman, who insulted the women of an entire country based on the ALLEGED behavior of ONE WOMAN. And she's giving the husband a free pass.

Sorry Winston, you're backpeddling. The letter's author doesn't present any intellectual arguments, nor does she present sufficient evidence that the Russian women were the problem with her marriage, or your bride seeking adventures in the FSU. She also committs a logical fallacy by condemning all Russian women based on the behavior of one.

This woman is not a supporter of everything I stand for. She just agrees with me about Russian women. Stop making a mountain out of a mole hill.

This letter is a testimony of ONE individual's relationship with ONE russian woman. The people that tried to make a "mountain out of a molehill" was you and the author. I exposed it for what it was and tried to put it into perspective.

Your trying to save face after I demolished you. It won't work.

I've told you many times, if you really want to see letters from my supporters, there are over 400 of them here: (and many more to be added as well, when I get the time)

I already told you that I don't accept them as evidence to your personality. And if this letter from the Spanish girl is any indication as to the quality of those 400 testimonials, then I consider my reasons to be on solid ground.

But you refuse to ever read any of them. Instead, you pretend that they don't exist, when in fact they do. Again, your problem, not mine.

Oh, I'm sure they exist. I'm willing to accept the posibility that some sexually frustrated college student stumbled across your website while surfing for a place to go on spring break or while he was looking for internet porn, wrote something like "You da man Winston Wu", and moved on with his life.

I just don't consider it "proof" of your greatness.

But thanks for playing anyway.

You are not a truth seeker, so get out of here.

Well you could just stop sending this crap to my email. Or you can ban me.

But I guess you need me to help you make some money right?
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Postby Grunt » Sun May 18, 2008 12:23 am

I think I know why Spanish men are seeking Russian ladies to begin with.

Housework looms for Spanish men

MPs in Spain have drawn up a marriage contract for use in civil ceremonies which obliges men to share household chores and the care of children and elderly family members.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/4100140.stm

What I would like to know is, where is the law that forces Spanish females to be pretty, thin, quiet, and useful...or face jail time.

Spain was never on my life of places to find a wife, but now its on my list of places to never, ever visit.

Good work, all you mouthy Spanish females. You will destroy your country soon.
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NO SYMPATHY, thanks

Postby BASQUE » Sun May 18, 2008 1:24 am

Chemist.
Let me tell you that I am not the kind of woman that needs sympathy. I'm what it's called A TOUGH COOKIE. I told my story to warn YOU GUYS. I am not daft and realise that my husband is 90% guilty of this sordid mess. But, and this is a jolly big BUT... the tramp crossed the line of any right to be respected, the very moment she sent me a text message. (my lawyer will love it). If you read my message well you will find a few insults addressed to my almost ex-husband. He did get a right punch on his face too. I'm in Spain now and can tell you dozens of cases similar to mine, with one big difference, I will be the winner of this mess. I have not failed a single exam of anything in my life and have always got what I decided to get. So, please forget sympathy, I do not have room for that; a course on astrophysics perhaps, sympathy? No Gracias......mate!!!
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TO GRUNT

Postby BASQUE » Sun May 18, 2008 1:35 am

Grunt are you vertically challenged? I'm asking because that is what after reading all the ridiculous crap you write I picture you looking like a snivelling little fellow to whom I would love to beat the ever loving shit out of in my kick boxing class. I bet you have a huge beer belly and you smell of rancid sweat. Yo can't even read properly, there is no Spanish man in this story, there is a Russian man you prat
You say Spain in now in your list of countries NOT to visit. HURRAAAAH!!!
Don't come to Spain PLEASE have pity on us. We like gentlemen here and you sound like someone I would not eve employ as my dog walker. I am too glamourous and treasure my dogs and my image to much.

Never yours TRULY.....
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Postby BASQUE » Sun May 18, 2008 1:45 am

Gracias por tu amable comentario. Mi marido era para mi, mi mejor amigo y eso es precisamente lo que duele. La traicion de un amigo es imperdonable. yo se que me quiere y la otra ha sido un momento de "calenton" que viendo la clase de persona que es le va a costar caro. Afortunadamente el dinero en esta ecuacion, no es un problema. El embarazo si lo es, y si la puta sigue adelante con el, sera catastrofico. Ella va a por todo l que pueda sacar. Lo suyo seria que aborte la puta y luego enviarla con pasaje de ida solo a mierdalandia de donde nunca debio salir. Hoy he hablado con el y la verdad es que soy idiota por que encima me da pena el, si es que las mijeres somos tontas cuando queremos a alguien. A el le puedo perdonar pero lo que he tenido que aguantar de la tipeja esa NUNCA, me pedira perdon de rodillas, en Londres o donde sea, pero lo hara palabra de bilbaina del centro de Bilbao, y ya sabras tu lo cabezones que somos

Un beso nena y gracias de nuevo por tus palabras de aliento.
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Postby BASQUE » Sun May 18, 2008 2:18 am

Hello,
Thanks for the offer but my revenge will be an elegant one, no help is needed.
In any case, if you haven't placed Spain in you list of "countries not to be visited" like some sad fellow above, come over let's have a few sangrias by the Mediterranean sea, you will see how the smile of a happy Spanish woman is worth a million of yellow-toothed Russian with silicone breasts, head to toe in designer stuff to compensate their lack of natural feminine grace, something they can't possible have for at least three more generations. Let's face it, when their ancestors had not yet come down from the trees, ours, were discussing philosophy in marble palaces. Someone called me a racist; well that is idiotic, if that were the case I would not have married a Russian nor would I employ anyone from abroad and yet, in my staff you will find, an Egyptian ophthalmologist, 3 Russian doctors, an adorable Polish nurse, a Rumanian security guy, a Colombian auxiliary nurse. So there is in a nut shell, No I am not a racist, I just say that the Russian women I have met except my 3 doctors and 2 friends who happen to agree with me 100%, have been a really unpleasant lot. My story is by no means unique it's really a sociological phenomenon we are experiencing with the Russian women. Apparently, something similar but at a much lower intensity happened in Spain in the 70's with the arrival os the Swedish blonde tourists that came to Spain and started to sunbathe topless. That was an eye opener for both men and women. We soon started to follow their great "invention" and we turned the tables round, Spanish girls are shorter but, have better bodies and are more feminine and fun to be with. We cook better too (men and women) . It's only so many smogarsbord and herring a person can have before committing suicide.......So there you have, you have the sea, the sun, the sand, the sex, if you are lucky, fun and good food and drink on top.
SPAIN IS DIFFERENT!!!
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Postby Winston » Sun May 18, 2008 7:04 am

Basque, you sound like a great woman. I'd love to meet you someday in Spain and see all the things you describe. I heard it's a very festive country. All the women I've met from there seemed very intellectual, cultured, and curious about the world.

And the men have a camaraderie feel to them. I felt an instant comfort zone around them.

Like me, the men are both intellectual, yet wild and passionate at the same time. They have the same attitude toward life as me. I think I'd fit in there.

How do the women get so smart so young there?

The culture and architecture seems amazing too.

By the way, what is a Basque and how is it different than a Spaniard?
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