Winston wrote:Repatriate wrote:Winston wrote:Check this out. That Asian bro I mentioned scored a lot more in Russia than I did. How come? Maybe I'm just too short and not masculine looking enough?
People on here have pointed out repeatedly that you have a pot belly, a bad haircut, and dress poorly. I seem to recall the term "taxi driver" being thrown about quite frequently.
This doesn't mean you have to have a sculpted body or wear Armani but your sense of style and personal appearance is undeniably bad. I've heard you speak on youtube before as well and you seem to drone and maintain a poker face. I bet that really turns women on.
If you took up some advice from someone who can evaluate you in person and fix this I bet it would help as well. Instead you blame your race and call other people "stupid" when it's really just you.
Women aren't going to tell you these things even if you've known them for awhile.
Actually, Russian women prefer big stocky guys, not skinny guys, so my weight wasn't that much of an issue with them. The problem was that I am not rugged or masculine enough for them to arouse their sexual attraction. They aren't into the sweet boy type. My dress in Russia was not bad most of the time, especially in winter where I had nice clothes and bought nice jackets. The photos you see of me in Russia are of summer when I was caught without any summer attire and could not afford to buy any and put in my luggage which was already full, thus I was caught with little to wear. You gotta consider that.
You are wrong about my personality. Many Russian girls liked my personality. I was playful and carefree, and made them laugh a lot. Plus I am direct and blunt and they are too. So our personalities jived well. The problem was that I didn't look mature and manly by their standards. That is my objective conclusion based on what I heard. And I know far more about Russians than you do.
Hey Winston, I think you're on to something here. It sounds like Russian women may have taste similar to other western women. Very young girls may like pretty boys. But from about 24-26 onwards, I think the rugged masculine look wins out. They want men, not boys or girlie-men (to borrow a term from Arnold).
I think the worst look for these grown-up girls is the very feminized and/or geeky look. If you're the type of guy who gets mocked with terms such as 'faggot' by toughs on America's inner city subways, you may fit one of these prototypes.
Pretty boy is much better cus at least he's pretty. But the real manly man is what seems to spark strong attraction with western women more than anything else.
If you are more of a pretty boy, I think you will do a lot better with NE Asian and maybe some SE Asian young girls and women than you will with western women. If you have more of a feminine look or style, I also think Asian females will be much more accepting of you as a potential romantic partner than western women will be.
Winston, I won't comment on your looks other than to say you are totally NE Asian. Several guys on the forum have said that NE Asians are most desired in places like Thailand and China, perhaps with ethnic Chinese in countries such as Phils as well. You've given Russia your best shot and learned a lot. Romantically, its not for you. I think you would come to a similar conclusion in Vladivostok and other parts of eastern/Asian side of the country. White Russian women are still white Russian women.
Perhaps you will give China and/or Thailand an aggressive effort at some stage, maybe with Chinese Filipinas in Manila too. It seems like your chances would be far better in those locals. Your website seems to be drawing more attention and profit opportunities so you may get the chance fairly soon. Will be interesting to see how you fare.
BTW, don't take style suggestions as insults. Most guys have low lying fruit that they could improve on. An artistic and fashion conscious gal pal could certainly help you (and most of us straight guys) enhance desirability with women in general. If you ever meet someone who is keen to help you out, give her makeover advice a try.