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Speaking of high heels, I found a German documentary about rich Russian girls with Paris Hilton syndrome... and the shoes they wear?
Youtube has everything! Don't you speak German Think Different? Explain it to us!
I dislike these kinds of high-maintanence plastic superficial women, and I don't like high heals all that much.
But at 5:45 there was a sweet G-string scene
Hold on a second... Here's the deal with FSU women.
I wouldn't call them high maintenance. You've been conditioned to think that women that care enough about themselves to remain attractive to their husbands and boyfriends is "high maintenance". No! FSU Women come from an environment where they have to compete for men's attention because so many other attractive options exist. This is why when you see them on the street, most are wearing skirts and heels. They take extra special attention to look good for dates, especially for Western Men.
Rich Women in Russia, Western Europe, Canada, Mexico or America are NO DIFFERENT.
My man with FSU women you only have not to be -
1) Meek, A Lil Bitch, Mangina; they want MEN, especially men that will get off their ass and go meet them in person. Letter Writing = FAIL
2) Don't be cheap! They hate that. They don't expect you to be rich or anything but make sure your penny pinching is sensible and not because your job sucks and doesn't pay shit.
3) Have some sort of personality
Being moderately attractive is a plus but not a requirement.
I should add be willing to have children. If you have ANY doubts about this, you better make sure you find a woman that shares your idea about children. A majority I would say 90% of FSU women under 35 want at least one child.
You see how SHORT that list is and I dare you to goto any US dating site and find an attractive women with smaller list of demands. That also covers a majority of women you meet in FSU, not just average looking women and not just attractive women.
My FSU Rant for the day...
Djfourmoney is right, that you cannot compare a well-dressed feminine woman from the FSU to a well-dressed AW. These girls in this video are somewhat high maintenance, because they're hanging out with the "nouveax riches" Russian guys. They're also very young and immature, IMHO. In the video they are talking about good values, though and having a close relationship with their families, but they're also making fun of the horrible way the Germans dress (i.e. no class). Superficial girls are everywhere, but if you go a little beyond the big cities of the FSU and stay away from stupid nightclubs, you'll find treasure. Feminism has also destroyed American men to a certain degree, because we've been taught for 40 years that by being a gentleman and chivalrous in the traditional sense towards a woman, she will only kick you in the teeth for your troubles. This is turn has taught us to stop trying to be a gentleman.
That's so not the case in other countries. In countries like in the FSU, women relish being feminine and want to be treated well and they will give it back to you in spades. THAT is the key difference: in the US the man gets nothing in return; outside the Anglo world, the well-treated woman will make your heart sing for your troubles. So, I think American men need to take the high road on this point, don't lower yourself to the basest level like AW, by thinking "it's not worth the trouble", because IT IS WORTH THE TROUBLE, IF YOU LOOK BEYOND OUR SHORES!
Djfourmoney, Think Different
You guys hit it right on! Actually there are fake glamorous girls in Russia or FSU, they chase money and don't want to work at all. Some of them get their way, some don't. Who cares? There are only about 5% of such girls, if not less! While they do exist and there are many of them, there are thousands of hot ones that are not like that.
High maintenance issue has been addressed. It is correct - all of those well-dressed girls could be living in an efficiency apartment with her parents, but wear a fur-coat and expensive Italian shoes because of fierce competition for men and also to look presentable as they take fashion seriously. Russians have a saying "you have to walk in-tact with time" (Нужно идти в ногу со временем). It means that you have to keep up with modern trends to be on top of things etc. Needless to say, those girls ARE VERY shocked to see how Americans dress and look when they come to the U.S. Ask Mark Davis and his wife reactions