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Discuss culture, living, traveling, relocating, dating or anything related to Latin America, Mexico, or Central America.
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Women cost money and all relationships consist of purchasing or renting women. If you're low income or unemployed, women will leave you. Traveling gives more purchasing power. So while an average American provider cannot afford to purchase or rent an American woman, he should theoretically find it easier to purchase a foreign woman.
So my question is what does an American man's annual income need to be to keep a Latin woman? In particular Mexican women.
If you think on those levels then your doomed already.
As I have mentioned before -
When I was with my ex, I could have married her anytime I felt like it. I didn't want too for other reasons. She made more than me. I tired to start a business, it failed, I went back to work, I made less. Things got paid, no money issues.
That is was basically combined income of about $40K.
We had one car (new) and apartment (decent). As time moved on, you should, could, would make more money. Why? Because kids aren't cheap! Owning a home isn't cheap. Having regular vacations isn't cheap.
So basically, it comes down to lifestyle you want to lead, not where the women comes from. This is the WRONG FRAME OF MIND. Why would you need a certain amount of money for Mexican Woman, like you expect them to have fewer desires or something?
You are not purchasing or renting women, that's ridiculous and I have a hard time taking post like these seriously. I highly recommend if you value women this way, just to continue "renting" women.
I agree with djdjfourmoney said above.
Women, regardless of nationality, want a man who can be or have potiential to be a good provider but you cannot keep a woman with money alone...unless you seek gold digger types.
Other factors come to play with relationship; chemistry, emotion, passion, romance, trust, compatibility and much more.
"Preservation of one's own culture does not require contempt or disrespect for other cultures." - Cesar Chavez
Not fewer desires but fewer options. American women have more options and therefore can leave and divorce you for something better. Mexican women can't.
All women leave men when money runs dry. And the one's whom put up with underproviders resent them.
Last edited by drealm on May 23rd, 2011, 6:33 am, edited 1 time in total.
You also can't keep a woman with those factors alone.
I'm not understanding...
Mexican women can't divorce, so they'll be happy with less?????? Makes no sense at all.
Women in Malta can't get a divorce its LAW, so you might wanna consider marrying a Malise women. That way if she's can't stand you she can just move out and can't divorce you (not yet anyway) and you can't remarry either legally, so you're BOTH STUCK.
My ex squirted or as Eddie Murphy said "Ooooooooo" If you get a woman to go "Ooooooo" you can do whatever you want. You can walk on water, you can lie your ass off, it won't make a difference. I knew how to "ring her bell" so I had control.
She was chubby though and grew tired of it. I am not fat, I don't need to date, f**k and have children with women that have weight problems. Its already hard enough in our culture that I don't need WIP "Works In Progress".
You would be surprised... When women LEARN or RE-LEARN that all those things in bold matter more than money, power or status. That's when you can be Joe Average and still Win her over.
I didn't say Mexican women can't divorce. I said they have less options for dating. Immigrant Mexican women whom don't speak English will have a harder time leaving you for another American man, or leaving you period because they don't speak English. And immigrant Mexican women will have a hard time finding providers in their own country even compared to low income gringos.
If a woman evaluates her mate according to attractiveness or sex appeal, she's already lost the bid. She should have a fairly boring out look on sex and be focused on having children.
Last edited by drealm on May 25th, 2011, 9:17 pm, edited 3 times in total.
Those items are complimentary not alternatives. If you can't afford to feed, shelter and clothe women they'll leave you. Homeless men are not appealing, no matter how charismatic their personality. And supposing you did find a woman who valued none-provider traits over security and safety, it would be a downward spiral. Because the fundamental basis of such a relationship gives women power to pick and choose your personality. By strictly being a provider you bypass women's irrational personality tests and are free to live according to your own morals and standards.
As far as the numbers go, I would say- look at the monthly GDP per capita in that country and double it. This is what it will cost you to support your woman more or less and provide a comfortable life without going broke. Say, in the Philippines, an average GDP per month is USD 200-250. So, you will need $400-500 a month to keep her reasonably happy. Watch out for those who have unrealistic expectations when it comes to "foreigners/Americans". America trumpets the mantra around the world about being the richest nation on Earth, so its citizens must be fabulously wealthy who are born with millions of dollars in the bank.
A brain is a terrible thing to wash!
Thank you, good metric. Mexico's GDP PPP seems to be $8,143 USD. So double would be roughly $16,400.
Question, if you import a foreign woman to the US, will she her cost expectations increase? Is your formula for keeping her satisfied based on living abroad or at home?
That would be for a middle class /professional woman. Ask about an average income for the common masses if you want an average girl. And then double it. Ask how much the husbands of her sisters are making per month and double it.
A brain is a terrible thing to wash!