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WHY LATIN AMERICA BEATS Philippines . . . for younger men

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Postby Jester » Thu Oct 25, 2012 11:12 pm

steve55 wrote:No need to go to real EXTREME examples. Some prefer 5-10 years older while other 10-20 years older while a smaller minority will prefer men very close to their own age. Well, Winston may chime in. I can only say that I have noticed a trend for American filipinas (not yet too Americanized) to flex BIG on age while even the most DIRT poor american women WILL NOT! Money DOES NOT expain this. Its a cultural thing. How else am I able to find so many Filipnas in the US so FLEXIBLE on age???? Yet find so FEW american women having the same flexibility?? Yet both samples are of women CURRENTLY IN THE US? Have you done this type of search to compare? I have.

And Filipinas whether abroad and in the US have told me they like older men due to their MATURITY. Just ask some filipina friends about this. Have you ever done that? Well, I have.

Conclusion - Online dating proifiles of Filipinas in the US (those who have moved here) matches up with the answers Ive gotten when asking filipinas about this.


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Postby Mr S » Mon Nov 19, 2012 9:13 am

Banano wrote:It means Filipino men in 40s and 50s can bang all these young Filipinas in their late teens and 20s since they love older men.

Where does that leave filipino men that are in their 20s, do they have to wait to mature and get to ripe old age to get some ?

What about middle class Filipinas that can support themselves, are they into old men?


It still depends on the socioeconomic conditions of the older Filipino guy. If he went overseas to work and then came back to his province to live with a lot of savings then yes he could probably meet and be with multiple young women from poor families. They probably wouldn't be beauty queens but they would be young nonetheless.

Most Filipino guys try to find girls while they are in high school/college and then try to make them long-time GF's or eventually marry them. However, if their plan doesn't work and they break up in their 20's then sometimes it takes a while for a Filipino guy to find another proper GF. Usually they have to then wait until they are older and more established to court a decent woman again. Most straight Filipino guys are timid, they are not really that aggressive chasing after women here. That's why considering the size of each of the cities here in PI, there are actually not too many nightclubs or bars where singles can meet up. It's all either low-end Karaoke places or group style live band places. Most Filipinos meet up through friends or relatives. That's why even though Philippines can be a dating paradise for foreign men, you have to know where to go, and how to go bout it here to really meet women consistently here unless you tend to perv out and just randomly talk to strange chicks in Malls/stores places like that hoping they will reciprocate interest in you.

Middle class Filipinas are considered over-the-hill and afterthoughts to local guys here, that's why many try their luck with foreign men since most foreign men are brainwashed that they should find a women close to their own age group. So if you are a local guy in your 40's or 50's and you know you can date and bang women in their late teens and twenties, why bother with women over 30? There is little point to it. I guess if she was a rich widow and the guy wanted to use her for her money then maybe that would be okay. I work with elderly co-workers and sometimes after work I'll walk around with them in the mall and go somewhere to chat, you should see all the stares I get from the younger women. According to my older co-worker they think that I am just hanging around her cause she is rich or something and she is paying me for my company, ha ha. Filipinos are shameless in their preconceived notions of what is considered reality in their eyes.

Remember too that there is a high percentage of homosexuality amongst males here, low-motivated uneducated men, losers, gamblers, alcoholics/addicts, etc. So technically there are only a small percentage of local men who are halfway decent, that is why there are so many single women here available in this country. Actually, most of the decent men here try to work overseas to make more money for their family, so most of the guys you see are either uneducated and can't leave the country, gay/transsexual, part of the elite so they don't need to leave, work in a call center, unemployed who make their wife or GF make all the money and they just sit around drinking Redhorse beer half the day waiting for life to come to them instead of them making things happen, or playing around with their Cocks (cockfighting not penis). I would say a high percentage of guys in this country are worthless losers. As much as the average woman pisses me off with their emotional and mental instabilities, the reality is that Filipino women on average are a lot more mature and responsible then Filipino men for the most part. Most of the men here are mama boys as well, never know how to grow up and be on their own properly.

In regards to women being interested in younger guys what I have experienced is they want to date them and have fun with them to experience being with a "handsome" man. It's more of a status thing when they go out they like the attention they get from other people looking at them and commenting on her being with an attractive foreigner. However, many are realistic and realize that younger guys don't want to be serious so they usually will hold back their feelings and won't want to get serious with you. They would rather go for the older guy cause he would provide more long-term economic stability and wouldn't be as sexually promiscuous. As much as Filipinas have a reputation of being sexual and all that, I think that is overrated and just been overemphasized because of the Go-Go bar scene. I don't think they are much different from most women around the world. Most just want to make babies and feel obligated to provide sex to their BF or husband but are not really into it. Only a small percentage of women are really into having sex regularly and really get into expressing their sexual urges.

What I notice now that I am in my late 30's I find the women ask me the same basic questions regarding personal stuff but they don't believe me that I don't have a steady GF or wife. Because of my age and looks to them it is perceived as impossible to not be attached to a woman. So I think this puts them off a bit and in their minds that I'm a player or liar. You really can't win both ways here. I still look young for my age so I can still attract the really hot girls but at the same time they believe I am secretly married or something so won't really open-up to me like they did when I was in my 20's and they didn't hold themselves back as much. So yes any age you can have fun here and get younger ladies, it will just be a matter of their overall attitude towards you and what they really want out of a relationship. You're better off testing the waters in other countries where age does matter a bit more and if you still don't have any luck come to the Philippines when you are 40 and above and you can feel like your dating in your 20's again.

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Postby Banano » Mon Nov 19, 2012 9:33 am

How common are Filipinas with bigger ass, strong thighs(brazilian style), tits;

from what I hve seen Filipinas have body of a teenage boy
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Postby Dragon » Mon Nov 19, 2012 10:54 am

Mr S wrote:That's why even though Philippines can be a dating paradise for foreign men, you have to know where to go, and how to go bout it here to really meet women consistently here unless you tend to perv out and just randomly talk to strange chicks in Malls/stores places like that hoping they will reciprocate interest in you.


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Postby Mr S » Mon Nov 19, 2012 11:37 am

Banano wrote:How common are Filipinas with bigger a**, strong thighs(brazilian style), breasts;

from what I hve seen Filipinas have body of a teenage boy


They exist to a certain extent but in general they are not common. The reason why Go-Go areas are popular with foreigners is because you can find all type of fetish looks there, they are concentrated in those areas so you don't have to spend months on end trying to find an ideal physical speciment to your liking. So if you like big tits/small tits, big ass/small ass, long legs/short legs, brown skin/white skin, round eyes/slanty eyes, long hair/short hair, wide nose/pointy nose, skinny/built/think/obese girls, pregnant girls who are lactating, flat stomach, ponch, stretch marks, crazy girls, quiet girls, non-English speakers, English speakers, older women, middle aged and younger, cherry girls and super sluts, tattooed/non-tattooed, pierced/not pierced, Malay, Korean, Japanese, mixed, half Malay/black; basically anything you can think of it exists you just have to find them and not get too drunk where beer goggles start affecting your judgement, which tends to be a problem of mine at times when I go out.

There are a lot of really hot women in those places and many have okay attitudes if you treat them right. The problem is they all have some kind of deep seated family/emotional issues that will eventually come out if you get to know them long enough. That's when things can get a bit dicey with them and most guys will tend to steer clear of dating Bar girls regularly unless you know it is only for fun and you can control your emotions. You can have a lot of fun with them, it's just they will eventually want to take it to the next level and you have to think is her p***y/body/face really worth it? What does she have to offer when she is older and her looks start going? The best girls are actually the ones that come from broken families and they are on their own. This way you don't have to deal with family BS and usually those are the ones most freaky in bed cause they are looking for a replacement father figure in their life but they also want revenge by being a super slut. So if you find one you get the best of both worlds with them. No family BS and porn star action in the bedroom.

I was just in AC for a few days and met a really hot and built Filipina who had some dangerous curves. But she comes from one of those f'ed up families with 10 kids or something. One thing you gotta be careful of too when you take her out and barhop is to make sure you don't get her too drunk cause then they are pretty much useless once you get them back to your room. You gotta have your own wits about ya as well cause she most likely won't. So sometimes you win the BG lottery for the night but then something else goes wrong to F it up. That's why Go-Go bar man whores need a lot of personal experience to not get taken for a ride on a regular basis, but even when you are considered an "expert" things don't always work out according to plan. Try, try again as they always say....
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Postby Ginger » Mon Nov 19, 2012 1:31 pm

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Postby Ginger » Mon Nov 19, 2012 1:33 pm

Deleted my own post :)
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Postby Rock » Wed Nov 21, 2012 3:46 am

Ginger, for clarification of what and what's not 'locally certified', which parts don't u agree with in his 2 posts since its just 5% or so?
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