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An American Finds Love in Peru

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An American Finds Love in Peru

Postby ssjparris » Sat Oct 30, 2010 10:20 am

for your eyes only ==> article below ....

from "Rod"

As I write I am in Lima, Peru on the 6th day of my weeks vacation visiting a friend. I was here in 2003 when I first wrote you. It has changed drastically in 7 years. Everyone is upwardly mobile seeking that "American" dream as fast as they can. I very rarely receive a nice look from anybody. Much less a smile. I feel a little resentment towards me, as I am an American. Can't put my finger on it though. I get the same treatment whether I am with my 31 yr. old pretty girlfriend ( I am 45 ) or I am by myself. They want my money, but they don't want me.

The people don't understand. It would be like talking to a wall trying to explain the New World Order to them. You're right Western civilization is the only civilization that is left ( what's left of it ) that is still resisting somewhat. All the other cultures have accepted their fate years ago and some centuries ago.

Many of the people here imitate what they see on TV. Wear the clothes they see on Latino MTV, or what they see the TV or Movie stars wearing. Just as in America. They don't realize the life they are giving up is much more superior. Many are poor by western standards but when they go downtown they wear their Sunday best. You would not know of it to look at them that they are poor. There are 11 million people in Lima and the unemployment rate is 25%. People will do anything to get and keep a good job. The employers have the workers right where they want them.

I have lucked out and found a good girl. But it took much discerning on my part and wasn't easy. She has good traditional values and still has an innocence about her.

American women have been easily fooled by feminism. But the genie is out of the bottle now, there is no getting it back in. Women will never admit they have been sold down the river and took the bait hook, line, and sinker.

Now I know what God meant when he said in the ancient book of Genesis that the woman was the weaker sex. It's not just physically he was talking about.

(I asked Rod to elaborate)

Hi Henry,

I am a long time reader of your Web page and have listened to every episode of your once Web radio show" Male Mentoring". And have also read your book " A Long Way To Go For Date". Actually your book was the inspiration that gave me that extra push I needed to search for love outside my own country of the USA. I knew I wasn't happy with American women and didn't want to have to settle for what was left to me.

At the age of 38 in 2003 I met a girl on a paid Website and eventually went to see her in Lima, Peru. To my dismay she was a wannabe Western girl in disguise. Fortunately I saw through her ruse and told her I was not interested in marrying her.

We actually stayed in touch writing emails from time to time. She married a Western European man 6-8 months after our split and then divorced him 2 years later after receiving her citizenship in that country. Of course she told me she divorced him because they were incompatible. She is a 47 year old once hottie, but still looks good for her age. But she can't seem to grasp that most of the men looking for foreign wives are looking for the opposite of what an American girl is like. Not a girl wanting to be like American girls.

My second trip to South America was to Bogota, Colombia. This time was a younger girl of 28. Very good looking, nice figure, was smart, responsible, reliable and very trustworthy. That was something I could rarely find if ever in an American girl. And I thought I was in love for sure. But I had to let my brain override my heart. She had a very quick temper and was very controlling to boot had a 11 year old son that she tried to minimize my contact with.

It's like she was trying to get me to fall in love with her then she would bring her son into the picture. So, I back pedaled a little and said I did wanted to file for a fiance' visa instead of returning to Colombia to marry her and file for the wife visa later. That was all it took for her other side came out and that was all I needed to see that there was no way I could live with someone like that.

Well they say the third time is the charm. I hope so. As I write this letter I have just returned for a weeks vacation to Lima, Peru to meet my girlfriend in person with whom I have been in contact with via, email and instant messenger on MSN for 6 months.

I feel very fortunate to have finally found the girl I been searching for for more than 7 years if not all my life. It wasn't easy. It took a lot of discerning on my part to weed the other girls out. I found her using the free website

She is 31, never married, no children, so, (no abortions) She has traditional values and morals. And still has an innocence about her. An innocence you can't even find in an American girl over the age of 15. I can still actually make her blush at the age of 31. Try finding a 31 year old American girl who can still blush. And at my age of 46 next month and still wanting at least one child she is still very fertile and wants kids.

Good luck for the average 46 year old American male finding an attractive 31 year old female with no kids, no abortions, no failed marriages. Baggage in other words. That would want him. It's like looking for the proverbial needle in the haystack. I thought there was something wrong with me for many years. But I just wasn't looking in the right places.

Guys there is a whole world out there full of single women. Don't feel that you are stuck with what is available in your own westernized country. I think many of us men have forgotten what it is like to be really loved by a woman. So we have just settled for less than true love or worse.

Now I truly know what God meant when he said in the New Testament book of 1 Peter, Ch. 3, vs. 7. Woman was the weaker vessel. God was not just speaking physically. And in the ancient book of Genesis Eve was deceived by the serpent. Adam ate of the fruit knowing what he was doing was wrong. But did it for his wife. Eve was tricked. Just as modern women are tricked to this day. Us men know they are deceived but compromise our principles anyway just to please them. We learn early in life not to make mommy unhappy and what mommy likes and dislikes. We do the same with our wives and girlfriends later in life.

Nuff said. Henry. Keep up the good fight.
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Postby wuxi » Sat Oct 30, 2010 1:26 pm

I enjoyed reading this article. Its not often you hear success stories like this coming from south america. I've met a few women from central and south america in the past and I was really impressed with there appearance and humility.

This guy has a strict set of criteria for evaluating women. He's not easily sucked in by a womens looks and charm. This is the main reason he was successful.

When your looking for a wife you can't be walking around with a boner all the time you need to make pragmatic decisions. When I'm evaluating a womens potential as my partner I look for reasons to get rid of her. I don't enjoy doing this but my future happiness is on the line.
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Postby Winston » Sat Oct 30, 2010 3:22 pm

Who is Henry Makow? Why are his articles cited so often? Can you one of you email him and tell him about this site?
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Postby ssjparris » Sun Oct 31, 2010 8:48 am

sure thing henry makow. is also a man that could not find a good high quality woman in canada. so he went to guess what...phillipines. he married a gorgeous filipina. she was 18 and he was 50 at the time. they have a very happy marriage that has lasted for years thus far. they almost never argue. try saying that about an american woman. anyways, he found out alot about the illuminati and shares his thoughts on their mind control techniques to manipulate the masses.

he exposes feminism for what it really is and why it has destroyed are sweet and beautiful countries.

okay winston with your permission i will give him an email with your background story. he will probably post it on his website. <== this is his email if you would like to do it yourself.
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