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An Army of a Million Bachelors

What's your story? Discussions your reasons for going abroad.

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Postby wuxi » August 12th, 2010, 5:03 pm

Illegal immigration might be contributing to this gender inbalance. However, I have no stats to back this up.
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Postby The_Adventurer » September 29th, 2010, 1:40 pm

DaRick wrote:Without finding any purpose to working your butt off, why do so? I especially say this as society uses these bachelors for their own ends whilst disdaining them.


That's the question millions of young men called NEETS are asking in Japan. These are young men 18-24 who are Not in Employment, Education or Training of any kind. Most work part time jobs in fast food or other menial labor and live, that's right live, in internet cafes playing games, chatting and otherwise surfing the internet. Some are actually supported by their parents, who see their condition as their fault, and have the means to travel overseas and mostly waste time.

They look at their parents and that generation, and the skyrocketing divorce rates and general pointlessness of it all and ask, "Why?" So they choose to do nothing, or merely survive.
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Postby jamesbond » September 11th, 2013, 5:29 pm

jtest28 wrote:But they don't give the couples that aren't married. I noticed on the rare occasion when white men and black women are together, they almost are always married. When it's white women and black men, almost none are married. At least that's the case in these southern states.

And in the last two years, thats when the dramatic shortage of white women started, as that's when they started dating outside their race. I would be interested in the government giving us those stats instead. The newer ones, post 2007, and the ones that include couples who aren't married.

Here is an interesting article talking about why are there so many single black females in America.

For starters, there are 1.8 million more black women than black men. So even if every black man in America married a black woman today, one out of 12 black women still wouldn't make it down the aisle if they hoped to marry a black man.

Let's take 100 black men. By the time you eliminate those without a high school diploma (21 percent), the unemployed (17 percent) and those ages 25-34 who are incarcerated (8 percent), you have only half of black men, 54 percent, whom many black women find acceptable.


Black women are more open to dating outside of there race. Indeed, the number of black women entering interracial marriages has more than doubled in the past decade.

Here is the link for the full article: http://abcnews.go.com/Nightline/single- ... id=9395275

From this article entitled, "The real black marriage problem" from the Chicago Sun-Times comes this interesting statistic.

By the age of 30, nearly 81 percent of white women and 77 percent of Hispanics will marry, but only 52 percent of black women will marry by that age, according to the Joint Center for Political and Economic Studies.

Here is the link for that article: http://www.suntimes.com/news/mitchell/1 ... oblem.html
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Postby Banano » September 11th, 2013, 6:47 pm

Quick look at Australian bureau of statistics:


Census:2011

City: Melbourne

http://www.censusdata.abs.gov.au/census ... stat/2GMEL

People 3,999,982
Male 1,966,503
Female 2,033,479

Median age 36


Breakdown by age and gender:


Age Males Females

23 30,956 30,061
24 31,221 30,159
25 31,357 30,758
26 31,688 32,174
27 31,667 31,890
28 31,986 32,461
29 31,403 31,830
30 31,234 31,557
31 30,368 30,918
32 29,655 30,269
33 28,996 29,542
34 29,007 29,202




Its pretty even, you cant blame it on gender imbalance,
Then why bars and clubs are sausage feasts? Why 45 yo woman have 10 young guys chasing her and 25 yo guys cant find gf?
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Postby Repatriate » September 11th, 2013, 6:54 pm

Banano wrote:Quick look at Australian bureau of statistics:


Census:2011

City: Melbourne

http://www.censusdata.abs.gov.au/census ... stat/2GMEL

People 3,999,982
Male 1,966,503
Female 2,033,479

Median age 36


Breakdown by age and gender:


Age Males Females

23 30,956 30,061
24 31,221 30,159
25 31,357 30,758
26 31,688 32,174
27 31,667 31,890
28 31,986 32,461
29 31,403 31,830
30 31,234 31,557
31 30,368 30,918
32 29,655 30,269
33 28,996 29,542
34 29,007 29,202




Its pretty even, you cant blame it on gender imbalance,
Then why bars and clubs are sausage feasts? Why 45 yo woman have 10 young guys chasing her and 25 yo guys cant find gf?


To a great extent the attitudes and culture of anglo men are responsible for the spoiled childish anglo woman's behavior.
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Postby jtest28 » October 6th, 2013, 1:34 am

I also think if one looks at the fact women do go for a bit older men, and men don't mind younger women (he he) and less people are being born, the family is shrinking. What I mean is theres always been a bit too many males born per females, BUT, people have always had big families so the population was rapidly expanding, soooo, what used to happen is say you're a 35 yo man, there would be a shortage of women in YOUR age group. BUT, if you searched in the 25 yo age group, there would be more women that age than men your age! Hence, I believe there used to be a man shortage when people had bigger families. But everyone went from having 4 to 6 kids down to 2, then one, and many people aren't even having kids now! So guys around our age, we cant just go younger and have the shortage fixed anymore.
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Re: An Army of a Million Bachelors

Postby Jester » October 6th, 2013, 7:26 am

ladislav wrote:
So, the choice is yours: do you want to be a private soldier in the horny army of one million angry and frustrated bachelors in the USA who are fighting over a perennially small number of arrogant, capricious and self absorbed women and be chasing the will-o'the wisp that seems to always move away from you, or do you want to be surrounded by an army of a couple of million young bachelorettes? I bet that unless you are a glutton for punishment, you would choose the latter.

That is why you would be Happier Abroad.



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Postby Jester » October 6th, 2013, 8:12 am

jtest28 wrote:I also think if one looks at the fact women do go for a bit older men, and men don't mind younger women (he he) and less people are being born, the family is shrinking. What I mean is theres always been a bit too many males born per females, BUT, people have always had big families so the population was rapidly expanding, soooo, what used to happen is say you're a 35 yo man, there would be a shortage of women in YOUR age group. BUT, if you searched in the 25 yo age group, there would be more women that age than men your age! Hence, I believe there used to be a man shortage when people had bigger families. But everyone went from having 4 to 6 kids down to 2, then one, and many people aren't even having kids now! So guys around our age, we cant just go younger and have the shortage fixed anymore.



+1 for giving an easy-to-understand explanation of this.

This IMO is an even bigger problem than bitchiness/feminism.

An BTW - off topic -- this is why polygamy is generally okay for even beta men.
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