Downsides of Dating Abroad *Naked* TRUTH

[Jester]

If you need a spoiled, middle class skank, look no further - there are plenty here.

Thought you lived in Davao? No? Back here in Purgatory?

[Jester]

+infinity! ...what the fcuk he said!!!! ) Here, you have been saying what I have been saying as a beastly rant. Anglos don't want to learn languages and want women built like little boys hence why the Philippines is annoyingly popular.

Ahhhh yess HA is the besst

[davewe]

If you need a spoiled, middle class skank, look no further - there are plenty here.

Thought you lived in Davao? No? Back here in Purgatory?

Nope - I have been to Davao. Still live in the US. You might have me confused with someone else.

[xiongmao]

I will indeed debunk OP's theory.

I've only really dated middle class Chinese girls. One had a million dollars in her bank a/c. One bought me dinner - a sign she had a rich daddy! All were graduates. All but one was fluent in English.

I've also dated Japanese women - most of them had far more cash than me. One lived in Asakusa and her apartment rent almost cost more than my salary!

My brother in law is now married to a Malaysian girl. Again, her family has money.

I've not dated any hoes, in fact at least 3 were virgins, and only 2 had long term bf's before.

Loads of women in China want foreign husbands, because they're perceived as being better than local men.

In general, men prefer the poorer Asian girls because men will almost never marry above themselves. Most men seeking Asian brides have no money, so they go for the very poor Asian girls.

As far as popular countries go, British men want Chinese or Thai brides. Filipinas brides are quite rare here.

[Andrewww]

In Eastern Europe chances are you will meet plenty of poor country girls studying at university in the big cities. Even the poor are more educated than middle class American skanks. Some will get master's degrees and work in low-income jobs like call centers because they can't find good opportunities.

You're right about the risk of ending up with an escort but she will have a very hard time hiding that from you. Those who come from good families won't ever consider selling their body.

So what I'm trying to say is even if you end up with a poor woman from a poor family she won't be a dumb blonde. Most of them are very eager to work and will feel guilty if they see you paying for everything. I had a girlfriend telling me that she doesn't want to go out because she's broke...she just wanted to come over my place instead of going out and spending my money.

The biggest downside to dating abroad is lowering your standard of living but that can be a good thing sometimes.

[have2fly]

The biggest downside to dating abroad is lowering your standard of living but that can be a good thing sometimes.

Hahahaha That was probably my biggest reason to move to the USA. However, after I enjoyed new cars, new cell phones and laptops in complete loneliness, I will say that living in developing country is not too bad, especially considering how much money you save and THE TRUE FREEDOM you get, like FREEDOM to move around easily - since YOU DON'T NEED A CAR in other countries, those cities are built for pedestrians!

So think how much money you save on your average car bill per month, how much more health you get from all that walking, how much life you will enjoy in the busy city everyday instead of looking at the same old lawn in front of your house!

I've lived in Ukraine for almost a year and let me say - I loved it! Yes, I had very good money by local standards, but it was very low by U.S. standards. Nevertheless, I had enough for everything. All you truly need is a bag of clothes and laptop with carrying case/backpack - that's it! I look at American houses, people pile TONS OF SHIT in their garages! Overconsumption of shit you never needed makes you work jobs you never wanted to pay off credit cards you never really required! Yes, go watch Fight Club one more time!

Instead of enjoying fake customer service and strangers in ice bubbles you will be treated with average or low customer service, but your friends will be real, your girls will look in shape and your food will be very cheap, fresh and organic. Besides, there are ways to make money abroad. Look at Ladislav as an example. Save some money, invest and secure your future. Even a total idiot can get CDL and drive a truck for a few years and then move abroad, no education needed for that. So all it takes is a wish, you live in the country of opportunities, use what you have to make yourself happy.

[Tsar]

Another reason why Western guys end up with a bar girl is because that is all they know back home- s'luts who have been through 10-20- or more men. And who are also older and uglier. So they bring their standards to the new country- she is working in a bar and only slept with 5 guys for money and she is 19! Wow, back home non hoes have slept with 20-30 guys already and they would not give me time of day and they are 30 and treat me like dirt. Boy am I lucky and I have not been laid in 4 years. I'll marry her in a jiff.

The M.O.B. in Ukraine guys basically go an arranged marriage route and there is nothing wrong with that. Except that most Anglo men are brainwashed that they are saviors and that all those women want to do is to emigrate to the West. They have no appreciation for those cultures and no interest in them at all. Another thing is that a lot of women that these guys marry in Ukraine are ethnically Russian who are now living in a "foreign" country but who had been imported there decades or a century ago so they still have a friendly communal Russian attitude to people. They just have no Russian citizenship. Pure 'Ukrainian' Ukrainians are stand offish and nationalistic -mistrustful of outsiders and of each other as well. They are very hard to date.

So would it be as rare as it is in America for a girl in Ukraine or the FSRs to be a virgin at 19? I have a thing for blonde or brunette, especially if they have green, blue, or grey eyes so E. Euro is my destination.

I'm junior in college and I got totally disgusted being around American girls. They wouldn't ever notice me and most were party sluts. So that's partly why I became a commuter.

No first kiss, no girlfriend, and I'm a virgin. So that's partly why I can never date a non-virgin. I want an even experience tally. I don't want to be compared to prior boyfriends. I don't think it's too much to ask for with a girl ranking 7-10. Then my moral beliefs are also a factor.

Some people might call me arrogant or judgmental because I would not date any girl except a virgin. My thought is it's better being single than me having regrets because I lowered my standards for a girl that I won't trust and can never love completely. Not worth it to lose myself and compromise my beliefs for a girl. If anything it proves I have a strong willpower, diligence, and a sense morality. Something that most girls should desire unless they're Anglo sluts that want to have a bad boy alpha that uses them.

I can remember hearing one girl talking at my first university and the message she gave was "I'm a slut. I'm proud of myself." Most of the other girls went for bad boys or were only interested in one night stands. Anyway I dropped out of that feminist hell to go elsewhere as a commuter.

[Jester]

Thought you lived in Davao? No? Back here in Purgatory?

Nope - I have been to Davao. Still live in the US. You might have me confused with someone else.

Did you not post a pic of you with a luscious, er, very pretty, dark-skinned, slender Mindanao honey? Thought that was your wife?

Anyway I guess even if that was your pic, still, shouldn't assume you LIVE there.

Never assume...

[Jester]

In general, men prefer the poorer Asian girls because men will almost never marry above themselves. Most men seeking Asian brides have no money, so they go for the very poor Asian girls.

Calls for self-examination on my part...

As far as popular countries go, British men want Chinese or Thai brides. Filipinas brides are quite rare here.

Why the British-Thai connection, do you think?

[Jester]

So would it be as rare as it is in America for a girl in Ukraine or the FSRs to be a virgin at 19? I have a thing for blonde or brunette, especially if they have green, blue, or grey eyes so E. Euro is my destination.

I'm junior in college and I got totally disgusted being around American girls. They wouldn't ever notice me and most were party sluts. So that's partly why I became a commuter.

No first kiss, no girlfriend, and I'm a virgin. So that's partly why I can never date a non-virgin. I want an even experience tally. I don't want to be compared to prior boyfriends. I don't think it's too much to ask for with a girl ranking 7-10. Then my moral beliefs are also a factor.

Some people might call me arrogant or judgmental because I would not date any girl except a virgin. My thought is it's better being single than me having regrets because I lowered my standards for a girl that I won't trust and can never love completely. Not worth it to lose myself and compromise my beliefs for a girl. If anything it proves I have a strong willpower, diligence, and a sense morality. Something that most girls should desire unless they're Anglo sluts that want to have a bad boy alpha that uses them.

I can remember hearing one girl talking at my first university and the message she gave was "I'm a slut. I'm proud of myself." Most of the other girls went for bad boys or were only interested in one night stands. Anyway I dropped out of that feminist hell to go elsewhere as a commuter.

One of my tall, athletic, good-looking sons had a similar experience in college.

Of course I would have thought young guys like you and him could get virgins. (Or at least girls who didn't talk like trash.) But not so easy apparently.

Stick to what you want, don't compromise, and you will get what you want.

[djfourmoney]

I see you have some insight here based on actual on the ground experience, so by definition it must be ignored.
I would suggest an alternative name for the site though...instead of Happier Abroad it could be renamed Bitching at Home.


Outwest

Ain't that the truth...

[Falcon]

One of my tall, athletic, good-looking sons had a similar experience in college.

Of course I would have thought young guys like you and him could get virgins. (Or at least girls who didn't talk like trash.) But not so easy apparently.

Stick to what you want, don't compromise, and you will get what you want.

Ouch, that's me.

[djfourmoney]

In general, men prefer the poorer Asian girls because men will almost never marry above themselves. Most men seeking Asian brides have no money, so they go for the very poor Asian girls.

Calls for self-examination on my part...

As far as popular countries go, British men want Chinese or Thai brides. Filipinas brides are quite rare here.

Why the British-Thai connection, do you think?

Because Asian women are generally petite and short. That seems "Feminine" to them per Steve Sailer behind the upsurge of White men marrying Asian women in America.

Since our cultures are similar I suspect that is why Thailand is popular with British men. I would also say I agree with Xiongmao's point that lower middle class, working class British White males feel their best chances are with women from the poor villages and smaller towns outside of the major cities because they are (again) using their economic advantage in a poor country to ensure a woman will be interested in them.

A woman looking to improve her families standing, will opt for older men especially White males from Western countries = Economics

"Its the economy, stupid..." - James Carville (Clinton's re-election campaign)

[Jester]

As far as popular countries go, British men want Chinese or Thai brides. Filipinas brides are quite rare here.

Why the British-Thai connection, do you think?

Because Asian women are generally petite and short. That seems "Feminine" to them per Steve Sailer behind the upsurge of White men marrying Asian women in America.

Since our cultures are similar I suspect that is why Thailand is popular with British men. I would also say I agree with Xiongmao's point that lower middle class, working class British White males feel their best chances are with women from the poor villages and smaller towns outside of the major cities because they are (again) using their economic advantage in a poor country to ensure a woman will be interested in them.

A woman looking to improve her families standing, will opt for older men especially White males from Western countries = Economics

"Its the economy, stupid..." - James Carville (Clinton's re-election campaign)

You mentioned Steve Sailer before, gonna google him.

As you can tell, I am still on the fence about ChiangMai/Davao (affordable massage, quick companionship, cheap living while I rebuild my life) vs Latin America (nice legs/hips/butts, right to do business locally, culture I can raise a family in, easier to make friends with locals, could import an FSU gal if I want)

I posted more on this here, a more appropriate thread:
viewtopic.php?p=101704#101704

[Jester]

Because Asian women are generally petite and short. That seems "Feminine" to them per Steve Sailer behind the upsurge of White men marrying Asian women in America.

You mentioned Steve Sailer before, gonna google him.

OK I guess this is the article you were referring to.

http://www.isteve.com/IsLoveColorblind.htm