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but I have an off-topic question... hence this new thread...
Jester wrote:Don't want to argue with somone like AIM who has been there done that, but I felt a lot of suspicion from Mexican women in Tijuana in groceries, tiendas, hotels, stores. Didn't get the smiles etc. It seemed that even well away from tourist area, they assumed I was a sex tourist.jamesbond wrote:This is so true! In America, the only way to meet women is through your friends. Women in the US are not open to meeting guys in random places like bookstores and grocery stores. You need to be introduced to a woman by a mutal friend the two of you know.AmericanInMexico wrote:In the United States, that is the only way to meet women; first you have to have a friend introduce you to her (since American women are not open to being met any other way).
It isn't like that here in Mexico where you can meet ten women a night very easily (since women here are open to meeting new people).
I like what you say about Mexico, it sounds like you can easily meet women there. Women in Mexico sound like they are very open to meeting guys in public places like bookstores, grocery stores, etc.
I have noticed that mexican women here in the US tend to be very friendly and open. I can only imagine how friendly and open they are in Mexico.
Ensenada, further into Baja, seemed friendlier both times I was there. But my solo time there was only abot a day.
I would have to say a major concern of mine about Mexico (or Guatemala) is precisely the difficulty of meeting girls without a social circle. So I have been thinking it will take me time to get somewhere (outside the gringos).....
AIM, what are some strategies you've found? Bookstores and groceries - really???
I am very flexible on location, was thinking of Guanajuato for climate, lifestyle, etc, but if a bigger city like Guadalajara would work better for out-of-age-group dating, I would try it.
If I go down there it sure won't be to date gringas or viejas!!