umm Ginger, "sleeping with somene they really like" as a "one-time deal" is exactly what most of us call... "a one night stand".Ginger wrote:
I do not 'support' one night stands, wherever you got the idea? I think you might have been assuming too much from my posts.
I do not support sleeping around.
What I said is it's not wrong for a man or a woman to sleep with someone they really like. (be it be a one time deal or The Deal of a lifetime). That is not the same as sleeping around and/or having a one night stand.
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I know you're a girl and all, and thus used to being able to just say whatever comes into your head, without considering it first, and having people put up with that. But it would be appreciated here on HA if you would read what you write, abd think about it, and see if it actually makes sense, and then post it by pressing "submit".
My short answer: If we know you're a chick, we tell you the truth. Because if you're wrong, a slap in the face will only wake you up and do you good. We know you can take it. Like a brat that needs educating.Ginger wrote: On another note:
Why do people judge what I post based on the fact that I happen to possess XX chromosomes? I do not get it. I feel sorry for myself sometimes for being born in a very Fu*ked up world where some women are amazonian freak shows (they call themselves feminists), some men are neanderthal prick shows, etc etc. What an awful circus.
I realize I'm ranting, but hey, when I post as a guy (in other forums) I get respected, and when I post as a woman (in the same other forum), I get questioned. Why the BS bias? Sorry for the rant. I'm being hormonal ahahah...I guess I'm in need to get a whiff of some green ink as another male forumer here stated.
If we think you're a guy, we think maybe you're p***y-whipped, a beta, a basket case, and we try to show some compassion. We know you've been through hell already, and we try to show some respect for a wounded warrior.