Winnie The Pooh(tm)...I think you are reverting back to your ol' self. Watch, guys...Winnie will get back in shape, and move onto greener pastures pun intended. He's going through very gradual metamorphosis right about now. In any event, this is the best post I have seen of the vintage you in a "hot New York-1 minute" as the phrase goes.Winston wrote:publicduende,
That's not true. Hookers do have a choice. I've been rejected by many Russian and Polish hookers, and even by some Filipina bar girls. They are human and have preferences too. You forget that.
Yes it's a business to them, but why do you think it's IMPOSSIBLE for a Filipina bar girl to actually LIKE a guy who barfines her? Why do you think it's impossible for there to be any affection or chemistry? Just because you paid for something doesn't mean it is strictly business. Life if often a mix in shades of gray. You forget that.
Your post reminds me of my sojourn in AC, the Visayas, and Mindanao (I didn't include all of Luzon even though you like Baguio a lot and I loathe Metro-Manila - too American of a vibe for me!).
I have recently rendered how I d.icked down a hawt-a.ss bargirl for free after I paid for her the first time.
Yeah it's somewhere in between and sometimes becomes VERY PERSONAL because they want to become emancipated from that lifestyle. Many of them become tired of earning their keep by selling a.ss in the bar (many of them let the girls reside in the apt. section of the bar/wh.orehouse in the Philippines) in conjunction with actually letting their "love" "grow on them". Women sometimes fall in love eventually and sometimes after a stimulating conversation.Winston wrote: Any decent guy who has spent a lot of time with Filipina bar girls will tell you this: It's not love or business, but somewhere in between.
Only guys with little or no experience (like you perhaps) would say that it's all a business and nothing more. That should tell you something.
Like me, Mr S and Ladislav told you before, the way to know if a bar girl likes you is if she sees you outside of her work, or contacts you a lot. Body language says a lot more than words do.
Ask Ladislav. He has more experience in this than even I do.
Women are the same everywhere in the context that they have the impressionability of a pubescent child. Again, many if not all women are children in my eyes. Maybe that's why I'm such a stickler for having at least a "landing strip" on their vah-jay-jay; I don't want to feel like I'm sleeping with a child because many of them were children outside of the bedroom. That's me I guess.
If Roosh V blatantly admitted that he were a sociopath, then it wouldn't surprise me. Most American people are opportunists and carnivores.Winston wrote: You also forget a few things:
1) Poor Filipinas genuinely do like nice guys, as long as they are of higher economic status.
2) Women are genetically programmed to submit to men of higher status. A Western guy is seen as high status in the Philippines, therefore, even hoes will submit to him by giving him love and affection. It's in their genes to do so. The love they give though, is more of a "survival based" type of love rather than romantic based, in that it doesn't make you feel vulnerable since it was too easy.
3) For most guys, it is not easy to sleep with non-pros. It is not in a woman's nature to sleep with a man outside of a relationship. They are not hardwired for casual sex with no strings attached. You can't just have sex with a non-pro like picking a product off a supermarket shelf. So give these guys a break. Stop condemning them for going for pros.
4) Bar girls get jealous when a guy they like, even a customer, barfines or flirts with another girl. If they were all business, why would they be jealous?
As to Roosh, why doesn't he try to help guys who are seeking love, romance or marriage? Why limit himself to players? Isn't he human? Doesn't he need love, romance or affection too? WTF? Or is he a sociopath?
Does he make his living only off of selling his ebooks? If so, that is an unstable income stream. Why doesn't he sell ads or use Adsense? He has a ton of traffic and is losing out by not doing so.