Will N. Dowd wrote:
Obviously many western men would disagree with my opinion, but if they were offered a harem of young women they could choose from every day with new girls coming all the time, and then they compared that to signing a contract with one women for the rest of their life, they would choose the harem no question. It's just such a thing really doesn't exist in western society so they can't try it. But if they tried it they would never get married and would say give me my harem, marriage sucks. Once you get easy and non stop sex from many young girls without all the bullshit that comes with a GF, you won't go back to the old way with just 1 girl.
You are right, I definitely disagree with this, especially since I already
did the harem thing in the Philippines my first time around. If you have already accomplished all you want in life, I suppose that is cool. If you read success teachers like Napoleon Hill,they claim that in the pursuit of sex a man wastes far more energy than on any other thing, and this keeps him from accomplishing his goals. My own experience and that of guys I hung out with when younger have shown this to be true.
Henry Ford, however, teamed up with his one wife, and with her behind him, he built an industrial empire that changed the entire world. I am not saying I will do anything so grand, but the advantages of having a wife and family, and getting all that pursuit out of the way is immeasurable. She helps me to reach my goals. I don't think I need to mention other advantageous scenarios, like marrying into a powerful political family, getting government people on one's side etc. that might help one accomplish goals.
The harem thing was a
lot of fun. I got tired of it after six months, though, and wanted to do something else.
Will N. Dowd wrote:My abstinence from emotional attachment is now starting to include my own family. I've become so red pill and they are so blue pill that our opinions and attitudes clash continually, so now I have decided to no longer voice my opinion, and just keep quiet and reserved. I'm also tired of giving reasons for why I do or don't do things, and being given suggestions of what I should do, which are usually the opposite of what I really want to do.
Tom Leykis has been talking about the subject of love this valentines week and says it is an illusion, and I agree with him. I'm an introvert, a loner and I'm happier alone doing whatever I want, wherever I want, when I want to do it. I don't need emotional attachment, I need physical intimacy with girls I am attracted to. Emotional attachment always brings heartache and break and I've been there and am not interested anymore in that nonsense. Nothing is forever.
I've decided I want to make my life as streamline and efficient as possible, not only in physical items, but in mindset and behavior as well. You will never beat the freedom of being alone with no one to judge you. As long as I have that and a harem I'm happy.
Why, then, did you ever leave the Philippines?
“Booty is so strong that there are dudes willing to blow themselves up for the highly unlikely possibility of booty in another dimension." -- Joe Rogan