Tsar wrote:magnum wrote:All I want is a woman who will give me her body mind and heart, and I will do the same in return.
magnum wrote:another reason I'm in such a hurry to get hitched, women have a expiration date if you want one that's pure and not emotionally and physically spent.
I want much of the same. A girl that's pure, able to bond emotionally, warm heart, and not comparing me. Women do have an expiration date. It's best to go for the younger women.
I don't care what other people think. I might be a nice guy but I don't let society control me and I won't be pushed around. I don't care if I have to break "political correctness" or the status quo to get what I want out of life. The people that get what they want and make their dreams a reality do what they want regardless of society's unwritten rules. If society, liberals, feminists, or the common American ever wanted to judge me because I will eventually be dating a younger woman I wouldn't care. I would know they were jealous and that I was being a true alpha by defying the status quo. As long as my intentions are honorable I don't care about breaking any of society's rules.
publicduende wrote:What you refer to when you say young virgins are "more impressionable" is precisely that kind of innocence and naivety that makes the girl more vulnerable, not happier, and her relationship with you one of silent acceptance, subservience and one-way dependency, certainly not mutual respect and understanding.
When a young virgin is impressionable that means she could go in either direction. A good man can help her become respectable, moral, and retain her compassion. A bad boy would corrupt her and and using her just to "score." I wouldn't say that the young virgin wouldn't be happy with a good man. I know any girl would be very happy to be with me if she knew me.
Look, I know you and Magnum have good intentions. Still, one has to live in the present. Girls of yesteryear were, on average, more mature and virtuous because society forced them to grow up quickly through hardship and discipline, and prepared them for their role of wives and mothers by that age. They had no other opportunities, no other choice.
Girls have choices now. Just like the boys, they can enjoy life a lot more, go to school and university and express their passions and abilities in the same arenas as their male counterparts, explore the world and the fabric of society, get their hands dirty and learn from mistakes as well as successes. So let's not be unnecessarily prudish: engaging in sexual activity of some description at some point after puberty, with all the good and bad that comes with it, is just as part of growing up as it is climbing trees, being bullied and fighting back, crying at the movies and swallowing a bad mark at school.
Don't want to sound like Mr. Miyagi now, but if the girl has been nested in a solid, loving and balanced family, chances are she will have been given the kind of upbringing and moral coordinates to pursue her ambitions without forgetting that her biology will at some point scream for a stable love and motherhood, and live her sexual life without having to turn into a mindless slut. Most of my high school classmates in a mid-size town in Southern Italy (not quite the liberated metropolis) had their first sexual experiences between 15 and 17, like me. And I'm sure they had their fair share of successful and failed relationships, and perhaps a few flings in between. None of them have turned into sluts or feminist militants from hell. And I could tell that would be the case without having to track their moves, because I knew most of their families, and knew what kind of "moral antibodies" against depravation they had.
So, you're right about a girl's innocence leading her to either direction. The point is, those directions should have been given much earlier, since childhood, and by her own family. The idea of a "mature boyfriend" imposing himself as an additional role model in exchange for a full relationship, obviously involving sex, is a common myth circulating among paedophiles or socially/sexually impaired men.
I know your intentions are honourable. However, it's much better to look for a girl, not necessarily a virgin, who had a good family upbringing and has the maturity and judgment to enter a happy relationship with a man a few years her senior, than try to woo an immature teenager in the hope to "freeze" her in her virginal purity.
