Some of the girls that want to meet me on POF!

[Will N. Dowd]

I am consistently horrified by some of the women that look at my profile. I mean look at the examples below. Compare that to the girls I have had as GF's and slept with. I changed my profile yet again to say that I have been with girls between 10-20 years younger than me and they were all hot and or cute so that is what I am used to.

Here are some of the worst women that have looked at my profile:

This one claims that men send her perverted messages! These men must have reached new heights of desperation.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=42928813

Too bad she lives far from me lol:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=21773936

A genuine princess:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=2629931

That Vancouver Canucks hockey jersey picture is horrifying:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34340327

This one messaged me:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=28083272

36 or 63?:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=44074772

She likes ass kicking:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=51393272

Female sports fans always suck:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=9369947

At least she is better than her fat friend:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=43518516

Here's a typical milf, except I'm not interested. Some guys would be all over her, but I would rather look at asian porn:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=54180015

sigh...

[Will N. Dowd]

This woman messaged me:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=39605218

and this one just did too, again:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=2046020

I messaged this local pinay and we're chatting now:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=53836977

[Will N. Dowd]

I got tired of the endless back and forth short messages on POF with the pinay above from Baguio, so I gave her my number, but she kept using POF messaging, so I told her I wouldn't send her any more messages on POF anymore, she has my number so use of instead of the POF. I will never message her on POF again. Why on earth would you still use the POF messaging if someone gave you their number? She has nice legs.

[Will N. Dowd]

The dumbass pinay above never texted me, big surprise! The one from wal-mart didn't either. So even the local pinays are simply ruined by the shit society here. I figure it takes about 6 months to a year and they are spoiled.

My newest POF tactic is to hide my profile, and message girls. I also have hidden the ability of girls to see I have looked at their profile. So they can't see me in searches, and they can't see if I have looked at them. The only way they can see me is if I message them. So what I do is I write them messages making fun of something they have said in their profile or their pics, or calling them out on their BS. If they have a picture with several friends , I will say one their friends is cuter than them. If they are a Vancouver Canucks fan, I will make fun of them for it, since the canucks have been losing for 43 years, including this one. One girl said she is interested in her iphone, so I asked her if she turns it off on a date and concentrate on the guy or is she rude and plays with her phone during it. Another girl said she wants to be taken care of, so I asked her to clarify exactly how. Then I asked some girls I wanted them to give a massage in a bath full of pepto bismol. No responses yet of course, I'll just keep pestering them and see what happens and change tactics again soon.

[Will N. Dowd]

I asked this girl if she put makeup on her cleavage for her pics, and she responded she didn't. We are now messaging on there. Boobs are nice, the rest, not so much...

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=47209172

[kai1275]

Wow. Canadian women even have a sense of humor like the men do. Those profiles had me roaring with laughter!! I do not know how can you take ANY of them seriously.

[kai1275]

I am no stranger to online dating but i never tried POF before until today.. I just was curious to see what kind of results I would get compared to yours.. I am a bit older and not nearly as attractive as you so it will be interesting to see how it goes.. I can say that in the last hour that I signed up I received about 11 messages and all of them look like i remember my grandmother looking before she died.. I also received 1 invitation from a filipina to chat live which I accepted. We were not really a good match so that conversation ended after about 10 minutes.

As far as someone referring to how well they did in philippines ... i want to add this because i really want guys to be encouraged.. i go there a lot and usually setup dates ahead of time and have plenty of backups to fill in the hours. Just for the hell of it i recently went there and wanted to see how many good looking girls i could bed without lying or paying. My tally was 15 in 9 days. Ages ranged form 20 - 28. I could have done more but i just was exhausted. I swear to you all that I am not handsome.. im just a shaved head guy in his 50s in average shape that happens to be willing to take risks and talk to girls that might seem unapproachable to most. and im willing to ask (politely and sweetly) for what i want.. if you are calculating that the only way i could have went to bed with 15 in 9 days is to have done more than 1 at a time you would be correct.. contrary to what most think there are a lot of girls there that are quite open minded to having fun even if they seem to be conservative at first. the downside is that probably they never did anything like that before and you will be having to provide instructions every step of the way.. lol

i will say that i totally agree with some of the contributors here that most filipinas range from unattractive to average at best.. but if you take the time to look and to talk you can find true diamonds in that place.. and a real diamond from the philippines is going to be a lot more beautiful than most other women in the world.

That trip was actually a one-off and i dont plan to repeat anything like that again in my life.. as i said i was just curious to see how crazy i could make it and what i am telling you is that the only limits are what you are physically capable of. The truth is I expect to marry someone in the next year or 2 and settle down and i am lining up the best of the best to either meet again or to meet for the first time.. probably my trips now will consist of meeting around 3 or 4 in 10 days or thereabouts to give ample time to see how we get along in a more normal 'un-party' like setting.. this will be very hard to do though coz i have a lot of pretty girls on my facebook page that really are expecting to spend a night with me. it will be hard to have to tell them i wont be meeting them.

so anyways.. i apologize for the long post.. i didnt mean to hijack the OPs thread.. just wanted to mention i was trying POF now.. and give some encouragement to guys that dont think they can do well in philippines. if i can do it i promise you that you can too.. but it does take a little bit of effort..

Congrats, you did better than I did there on my first and so far only trip. The thing is I realize now I sort of messed up on my first trip there because I only concentrated on a few girls in Davao that I met online just before going there. I had chatted with so many girls on DIA for over a year and a half before I went there that I forgot about most of them because their were so many. I could have done a lot better with more girls bur chose to hang out with a few select ones several times instead of giving more a chance. The other issue I had is my old Japanese GF I met in Canada was visiting me there from Japan for the last week, so I had to be careful not to get too in deep.

I've now made a much better plan for my next trip there. I've done an exhaustive search through all of my almost 7000 messages on DIA and identified all the Davao girls I had chatted with that I fin attractive enough to meet. I created a list of them in my computer with age, stats, FB and YM contacts addresses and DIA user names, so I can look them up easily to remember who they are. So next time I go there I will be much better organized to meet them and keep track of who they are.

The other issue I have is my standards are much higher than most guys and I would honestly rather look at p**n than be with a girl I don't find attractive. Under 7/10 I'm not interested in them. I just can't get turned on and I would be faking being into them. Then they would be after me to hang with them again and I would regret having been with them and probably ignore them and they would be offended and hate me. Unless the girl is one I would want to be with again, I'm not really into them. Other thing is I notice things that other guys wouldn't and they can turn me off totally. I have a high sense of beauty and style I inherited from my European mother and I cant help it. I probably could have a notch count 3, 4 or 5 times as high as the one I have but I would rather have quality than quantity. I can guarantee other members here would be very impressed and jealous with my previous GF's and bangs.

Even here on POF I do get my share of interest from local white cougars about my age, but I know I just couldn't go through with the BS of meeting them and pretending to be turned on. I can look at asian p**n online and get far more excited for free and without any BS. I don't like girls that are shaved and I will sometimes inquire before we get together to screen for it. Most pinays have no issue telling me and so if they are natural I will say OK let's meet. If they are shaved I say please let it grow then we can meet. I also don't like tattoos or very small breasts. I much prefer girls with real woman features like hairy pussies and big breasts. If a girl is shaved and has small breasts, and tattoos, I'm turned off. I'm also picky about nice clear facial skin and notice blemishes easily. I'm very concerned with my own skin and have a 10X magnifying mirror and blackhead tool that I use every few days to keep it looking its best. If you want nice skin guys, get yourself a 10 X magnifying mirror and blemish tool and while you may be horrified to look in it the first time and see how bad you look up close, once you start taking care of it, you will look much better. Trust me, if you look good in a magnifying mirror, you look amazing without the mirror. Nice straight and clean teeth are also a must for me, so if the girls has teeth problems it can be an issue. One of my ex Japanese GF's had a rebellious tooth, but it didn't bother me because everything else was so good.

LMAO!!! I thought I was the only "weirdo" that does this! I cannot STAND shaved pussies! Any woman over the age of 18 looks foolish bald like a child. It's f***ing repulsive to me, I cannot even have sex with a woman like that, I would demand they grow that first if I ever had that problem. I always had enough hairy options that I could cut one loose if she was either offended I asked or was shaved.

[Will N. Dowd]

Yes shaved pussies drive me nuts, but here in Canada I can't be picky so don't screen for it, as getting anything, even from foreign students as I did is amazing. I've asked girls that do it why they shave, and they said that once they had done it once, they liked the clean smooth feeling, so they kept doing it. They don't realize how bad it looks, especially with small boobs, they look like a pre-teen girl. If they shave and have big boobs, it also looks bad because it looks like the top part is grown woman, and the bottom is little girl. It is a serious turn off though, and the girl would have to be hot for me to ignore it.

Screening for it in the Philippines is pretty easy, and I do it online, and plan to do it there next time I go. I didn't do it the first time I went there a year ago, but it was my cherry trip there, so I was still learning. I've actually already taken action on it and put on my DIA profile that I like it that way! I did it discreetly and said "I like the source of all life and pleasure to be natural". It's discreet enough that it makes it sound beautiful and non sexual. After all having kids is the most natural thing for filipinas.

It's actually quite easy to bring up with them in chatting online. If they ask me why I am going to the phils, I say it's because I miss all the cute pinays like them. Then they laugh and ask why I like pinays, so I will list all their positive attributes, and then after they are impressed with me enough and feel flattered I will say their are other reasons too. Then they will ask what they are, and I will say I don't like girls that shave there, and they will usually then tell me if they do or not.

A couple of the girls I was with there last time shaved, so this time about a month before I know I am going, I will let them know in advance I want them to be natural the next time. I'm sure they will accommodate me, spoiling western white men is in their nature.

[kai1275]

Yes shaved pussies drive me nuts, but here in Canada I can't be picky so don't screen for it, as getting anything, even from foreign students as I did is amazing. I've asked girls that do it why they shave, and they said that once they had done it once, they liked the clean smooth feeling, so they kept doing it. They don't realize how bad it looks, especially with small breasts, they look like a pre-teen girl. If they shave and have big breasts, it also looks bad because it looks like the top part is grown woman, and the bottom is little girl. It is a serious turn off though, and the girl would have to be hot for me to ignore it.

Screening for it in the Philippines is pretty easy, and I do it online, and plan to do it there next time I go. I didn't do it the first time I went there a year ago, but it was my cherry trip there, so I was still learning. I've actually already taken action on it and put on my DIA profile that I like it that way! I did it discreetly and said "I like the source of all life and pleasure to be natural". It's discreet enough that it makes it sound beautiful and non sexual. After all having kids is the most natural thing for filipinas.

It's actually quite easy to bring up with them in chatting online. If they ask me why I am going to the phils, I say it's because I miss all the cute pinays like them. Then they laugh and ask why I like pinays, so I will list all their positive attributes, and then after they are impressed with me enough and feel flattered I will say their are other reasons too. Then they will ask what they are, and I will say I don't like girls that shave there, and they will usually then tell me if they do or not.

A couple of the girls I was with there last time shaved, so this time about a month before I know I am going, I will let them know in advance I want them to be natural the next time. I'm sure they will accommodate me, spoiling western white men is in their nature.

LOL! That's awesome! I noticed a while back that the small amount of phillipina porn out there had something like 70% shaved p***y, I was like WTF..? Asian beaver is probably the prettiest looking to me at least. I figured the Western media rubbish about "being clean" got to them too. If you ran into just 2 of them, I guess it isn't too bad, but you are like me 1 is too many, so a disclaimer is needed. LOL!

Luckily in China furry bush is probably 95%+. In fact I have not even met a Chinese girl without a bush when asked about it. Many expats in China hate that, but I thought it was a gold mine! When I asked my fiance why they do not shave that, she said that older women/mothers tell the little girls that their bush brings them good luck or shaving it brings bad luck or something like that. When I asked her if she would ever shave it for me, she said NO, NEVER! Then I said "Examination Passed 100%"

[Will N. Dowd]

Same in Japan, it's probably 95% natural, that's why I like the Japanese girls I've been with, they were all natural, but they let me trim it for them a few times.

[Will N. Dowd]

I have a new idea to call girls out on their BS. For every girl that I message and they don't message me back, I will send them this message:

Thanks for looking at my profile. I'm sorry you found me just so incredibly unattractive that you ignored me. I'm always trying to improve my profile so if you could give me some feedback on how I can make my pictures and description more appealing to local girls like you it would be appreciated. Thanks!

I've already started to do it, but no responses yet. I figure I have nothing to lose by doing it. I'm interested to see what kind of nonsense they write me back. My message to them pretty much forces them to write me back with the actual reason why. If they don't I'll message them again and say, so if nothings wrong with me and you didn't message me back why are you even on POF?

[quito]

dont waste your time with them. the fact that you are on a website like HA already shows you are somewhat 'enlightened' compared to them and their opinions regarding you are basically worthless.

[Will N. Dowd]

I've now reached the point where I'm almost embarrassed to be on any dating site here including POF. I've hidden my profile so I can be seen and they can't even see if I look at their profiles. I'll keep it that way just to see what is out there, but it is such a disaster, that it is almost offensive. I've created a OK cupid account now with very basic info to see what happens. I expect nothing as usual. The only thing I have going for me is the end is only 3-4 months away, so every day I get closer. I'm going downtown on Monday to get the new passport application for the 10 year one.

My level of MGTOW is at level four now.

http://www.mgtow.com/four-levels-of-mgtow/#.UY75fso1eSo

I only go out to buy food and things I need, so I usually only leave my place 2-3 days a week and only briefly. I'm trying to sell as much of my stuff as possible on ebay and taking advantage of the 50 free listings every month. Sold 12 things last month on it, so every bit helps.

The exception is I am still interested in having a shot term GF that I can be with until my place sells. So I don' tune out all women like level 4's do. I still try online dating, and hit on the occasional cashier, that's about it. I stay at home 95% of the time and leave a open house sing in front of my building so people walking by can come and see it an hopefully buy it. I still have 3 more months of EI, so if it hasn't sold by then I will rent it and get out before I go insane.

[Will N. Dowd]

I messaged this girl and simply asked her what her other religion and language were:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=53779389

This was her response:

Sorry Mr. Free thinker your look and your money are not important to me.
I'm not looking for a model or a bachelor. I care more for personality than anything else,
for this reason I know that we aren't compatible.

So I responded:

My Money? I'm on EI! You don't know anything about my personality.
Besides all I did was ask you what your language and religion are!

I assume she wouldn't approve of HA!

[kai1275]

I messaged this girl and simply asked her what her other religion and language were:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=53779389

This was her response:

Sorry Mr. Free thinker your look and your money are not important to me.
I'm not looking for a model or a bachelor. I care more for personality than anything else,
for this reason I know that we aren't compatible.

So I responded:

My Money? I'm on EI! You don't know anything about my personality.
Besides all I did was ask you what your language and religion are!

I assume she wouldn't approve of HA!

Unless your profile page has some silly ass writing you put on there, you are a victim of "Chinglish" more grammar than spelling, crime wise.

She is stuck up. Probably has rich parents, I can tell. Pretty but stuck up. Chinese abroad and ABCs are harder to date than a black man trying to date a rich white girl in Texas. Also your age difference is probably her main reason for saying that. If she is already in the West, she doesn't need an old white man....