fightforlove wrote:As far as looks/personas go, maybe it also just depends on the girl:
My 14-year-old cousin thinks justin beiber is a lame pretty boy who "looks like a girl". She says she prefers jocks.
My 25-year-old female friend once said she dislikes the ripped guns, pumped-up gym rat look and prefers a more "normal", handsome/soft-bodied man.
I agree 100% with the previous posts that women prefer confident/dominant/assertive men, and bad boy thug types portray a sort of false confidence. I've known a few bad boys in my life, and underneath the whole machismo act is a deep-seeded insecurity and emasculation.
Sure, but these are all assumed to be good looking men. "Jocks" are always popular, there are no outcast loner jocks and we can safely assume the jock does not have the face of a truck driver.
All girls dislike pumped up gym rat look until they find a hot one and f**k him immediately in the bathroom, talk from a girl means nothing. Even after this she will insist that is not what she "really" wants. lol
The idea that you are going to be uglier than the girl and poorer, and less popular and still get her with benign "confidence and dominance" is delusional.
If something you have is not way better than hers you are not getting her into bed except visa or mastercard.
The whole badboy thing has nothing to do with confidence whatsoever, it works precisely because it is insecure, effeminate and evil, not in spite of it. The boston marathon bomber has a fan club, so do lots of guys on death row. Do you?
Guess you need to work on that confidence.
This is the part of the red pill most of you are still choking on.