anamericaninbangkok wrote:[
Here's how it works...say I meet a nice college student...we talk, we go out, and we begin a relationship sans sex. Shortly after, I offer to pay her rent, put a little money on her cell phone, and take her shopping for some clothes or a few things for her kitchen. Maybe I spend 20,000 baht. For the next month, she knows that she's been taken care of and she's my girl. Once every so often I give her rent money. Now she's not a whore per se because I'm not paying her for sex - but the reality is that she still is on the game. Does it matter? I've done this before and no, it didn't matter. But don't kid yourself, at some point, those girls (who weren't hos) are going to want you to fork over some cash or make some sort of arrangement.
I really don't understand what you guys consider a good girl.
She's supposed to have a high-paying job, not need anything, and then when she sees you, then all of a sudden get horny and jump your bones because you're young and have a sixpack? And THAT is what makes her a "good girl"??? THAT's when it "counts"???
If a girl is yours exclusively, and you support her, she's "on the game"???
So when Will N Dowd did the Philippines, getting laid repeatedly with his reputed model-looks, the girls that went with him were the GOOD girls, THEY were the ones a guy should want, but if a girl enjoys being taken care of, submitting to a man and serving him and being loyal to him, and a man enjoys taking care of a woman, and being served by her -- that is an upscale form of PROSTITUTION. If any money gets spent, she's a golddigger, and he's a chump. But if you go to a swingers party in the San Francisco Bay Area, hey man then you really scored, because the girl didn't get anything but your body. True love indeed.
"She's going for her MRS degree."
"She wants a station wagon."
"She's just looking for a sugar daddy."
"She just wants a green card."
"She just wants a baby."
"She just wants to get laid."
"She just wants to be seen with a gringo."
"She's in desperate to get married."
All factual in many cases. And yet it's pretty naive to think you're going to find a girl who DOESN'T WANT ANYTHING. Even a virgin.