Not all girls are slutty like that; there are still some 'nice girls' left in the world, but admittedly, there are fewer and fewer in numbers. Actually, it's really rare to find a women that is still a virgin in these times...Most so called 'nice girls' are complete liars nowadays, so I don't really understand your problem? Are you saying that all the 'nice girls' you meet abroad are sexual prudes and don't want to have sex until marriage? Why is that such a bad thing?MasterBates wrote:germanguy wrote:So in other words you want a traditional girl, but don´t want to marry her and expect to have casual sex with her as well. And then you act surprised and wonder why this is not going to work?MasterBates wrote:
I never suggested that they should, but it would be nice if I didn't have to get married just to make love with a girl.
I wouldn't describe myself as a 'monger' at all.
Ideally I would like a stable, long term relationship, I never want to marry.
Why not stay in the US and f**k random sluts if you just want casual sex and no marriage?
You leave the US to find traditional girls and then you act surprised because they are traditional?
And how are you not a monger even though you have admitted to having sex with hookers regularly?
Sorry but you are completely delusional...
Your presumptuous and acerbic nature explain why you failed so miserably to relate to your German compatriots.
How dare you presume that I'm American! How arrogant and ignorant of you!
This forum appears to be populated by crazed, religious nutters who think that one has to get married before he has the right to enjoy sexual relations.
If that's the case, how the f**k can one be 'happier abroad'?
I refuse to accept that the nice girls really want to abide by their ingrained social constraints. They are just as human as I; they want to experience the same pleasures.
I was hoping fellow members would be able to offer tips as to how I could circumvent the pre existing barriers to a more natural and healthy relationship. Evidently members herein have no such knowledge and simply kowtow to the rigid conventions initiated by religious extremists of old.
Utter insanity.
And, if you really want to deflower a 'nice girl', why not have a monogamous relationship with them, while having sex with a prostitute in the sideline, until the girl is ready to have sexual relations with you. I know those kinds of girls you're talking about, and they're really don't-put out so easily, without some real work involved. Maybe PUA skills will come in handy in those instances?