Something I keep seeing on Interpals.net

AnonymousAmerican · Post by **AnonymousAmerican** » August 9th, 2013, 5:45 pm

I keep seeing all these non-anglo western euro girls who are interested in east asian culture and learning east asian languages. and a lot of these chicks aren't bad looking. just sign up on that sign and browse the profiles of chicks from a country like france and you will see the hordes of chicks wanting to learn chinese, korean, or japanese, and wanting to talk to people who are those ethnicities. i never see that with anglo north american chicks, even on interpals.

SilverEnergy · Post by **SilverEnergy** » August 9th, 2013, 7:22 pm

The Asian languages on Interpals are all the rave but it's still not a great site for dating.

I will never create a profile on there again.

AnonymousAmerican · Post by **AnonymousAmerican** » August 9th, 2013, 8:05 pm

SilverEnergy wrote:The Asian languages on Interpals are all the rave but it's still not a great site for dating.

I will never create a profile on there again.

dating online is never a good thing. I just use interpals to do scouting without having boots on the ground, since that's out my reach right now.

Repatriate · Post by **Repatriate** » August 9th, 2013, 8:17 pm

It seems like a good site to gauge relative local interest in your culture/race. For instance I already knew France and a few other western european countries was more open to asians but this kind of confirms it. It also gives me a good general idea of what quality girls to expect.

SilverEnergy · Post by **SilverEnergy** » August 9th, 2013, 8:19 pm

AnonymousAmerican wrote:
SilverEnergy wrote:The Asian languages on Interpals are all the rave but it's still not a great site for dating.

I will never create a profile on there again.
dating online is never a good thing. I just use interpals to do scouting without having boots on the ground, since that's out my reach right now.

Oh yeah, I woke up about online dating a long time ago.

I can't believe that people on this website still use OkCupid and POF.

Tsar · Post by **Tsar** » August 9th, 2013, 9:08 pm

Could anyone offer me any advice on how to write a good profile. How many responses should I get? Is it okay to message anyone or should a guy only message girls? I got burnt out with all sites similar to social networking or dating in early 2013 so I just quit. Spending time writing dozens of messages for a few replies are not odds I like. Spending 5-10 minutes writing a unique message is a waste, so is it better to just send a one or two line copy and paste message?

AnonymousAmerican · Post by **AnonymousAmerican** » August 9th, 2013, 9:41 pm

Tsar wrote:Could anyone offer me any advice on how to write a good profile. How many responses should I get? Is it okay to message anyone or should a guy only message girls? I got burnt out with all sites similar to social networking or dating in early 2013 so I just quit. Spending time writing dozens of messages for a few replies are not odds I like. Spending 5-10 minutes writing a unique message is a waste, so is it better to just send a one or two line copy and paste message?

dude, why are you dating online?

Tsar · Post by **Tsar** » August 9th, 2013, 11:19 pm

AnonymousAmerican wrote:
Tsar wrote:Could anyone offer me any advice on how to write a good profile. How many responses should I get? Is it okay to message anyone or should a guy only message girls? I got burnt out with all sites similar to social networking or dating in early 2013 so I just quit. Spending time writing dozens of messages for a few replies are not odds I like. Spending 5-10 minutes writing a unique message is a waste, so is it better to just send a one or two line copy and paste message?
dude, why are you dating online?

I'm not trying to date online. I tried almost a year and a half ago but it wasn't something I would do again. I was mainly trying to find a decent friend. It's difficult not having a friend so I thought about trying online. College isn't really where I meet friends, there is social isolation if you don't already have a group of friends or aren't very exceptional.

I'm mainly hoping to learn about other cultures. I gave up on social networking sites work anymore because it seems like reply rates are terrible everywhere. I was on VK for awhile and got the same relatively low reply rate and one-third of the profiles were probably had fake pictures. I'm not sure that online is a place to meet friends or how to write a decent profile if I decide to give it a try. Any website online will have the same higher ratio of guys messaging one girl even it's just to exchange messages so it seems pointless. At least in person the communication must be done face to face or not at all. Ignoring communication isn't something that happens a lot unless she's an ultra rude feminist.