Robert77 wrote:djfourmoney wrote:Robert77 wrote:djfourmoney wrote:Voice of Reason wrote:
When white AW are not in demand in Asia they say that the women are too skinny, or servile, or that the guys are nerds and losers or something.
When a white AW is not in demand in Latin America it doesn't surprise me that she's not going to look at herself and her own attitude.
White AW see themselves as the perfect trendsetters in global beauty. If a man wants to date an Asian or a Latin American women instead of an AW, AW don't see this as their personal preference. They just assume that the man is not good enough for the AW and is taking the second choice.
White Women see themselves? Wait, who runs the beauty industry? White Males....
Everything you see is based on what they like, in fashion, in beauty, makeup, what's sexy, etc, etc, etc.
They say White women are the standard of beauty around the world. I don't agree or disagree, it is what it is.
So what if a butthurt Western women go to Latin America and says disparaging things about the local women. Latin men very much want a White gringa because again she's the standard of beauty the world over. This is why the women often get breast implants, bleach their skin, stay out of the sun in general and dye their hair blonde; they want White Western men to like them.
White women believe they are the standard means the intended effect, mission accomplished! This continues with the relative skinny, breast-less and a**-less Slavic women White men love so much. It was White men making jokes about J-Lo's a** and how big it was. It's White men screaming Meghan McCain is fat, its White men making fun of photoshopped and airbrushed photos of famously attractive women (located elsewhere on this forum).
When are some of you going to own your collective mistakes?
Pa meet Kettle
the beauty industry in AMERICA is actually ran by GAY MEN and MIDDLE AGED WHITE WOMEN....
As far as Colombian men wanting white AW over local colombianas, I can assure you I lived in Colombia 4 years and never met a single colombian man who would leave the local flavor in order to be with a gringa
AW however believe that since men in america bend over backwards for them, then men worldwide probably will too.... reality is far from what AW believe. gringas are NOT the standard of beauty in colombia.... just turn on colombian TV and see their models, they're all classical colombiana with big butts, big breasts and loud but sensual like sofia vergara.
1) I wasn't just talking about America and I am also not talking about heavily traveled tourist areas either.
2) So what if the men are gay? Does that change the outcome if they weren't? Most men are very specific in the type of women they like, which is why non-Gay fashion designers surround themselves with attracting women, same with the photographers. They tend to be tall, skinny and white....
3) Playboy/Penthouse/Bikini models are more comparable to the typical Latina, they are generally more voluptuous because again, that's what MEN like despite women buying the sh*t nine times out of ten get a A/B cub top...
Latin Men want White skinned women period, look at the adverts and tv in Latin America, I know you saw this if you claimed to have lived in Colombia for such a long time. It conveys wealth, power and beauty. Short and Dark skin doesn't have the same effect.
This is Europeans imposing their ideal on the entire world and while I am not bitter like Eve Ensler, but White women in Anglo societies act the way they do because of how the elites want them to act. You don't own the media and while you could have influence with doing your own media, you choose not too and fritter away your time arguing with people like me.
you make several assumptions
1. In the US AMERICAN-LATINOS mostly of mexican heritage like white american women.... so colombians probably do too.....
WRONG, COLOMBIA HAS WOMEN OF ALL COLORS AND RACES, COLOMBIANS AS BLONDE AS YOUR BLONDEST AMERICAN AND COLOMBIANS ARE DARK AS YOUR DARKEST AMERICAN.... and they on average look way better than any AW.
in Colombia, gringas or AW are thought of ugly, dont fix themselves, not nice bodies, many of them fat.
this is a fair representation of colombian women, AW do poorly in colombia!!!!
2. colombians are racist....
WRONG, americans are FAR MORE racial than any other nation I know..... in colombia if you're a black man from america, you're fit, you're civilized, and decent looking u can get a lot of the women u see out there.
1) Does that include Elite/Upper Class Colombians? Just curious, I am under the impression they are the same in Colombia as they are in Brazil, Chile, Argentina or Venezuela.
Most Americans take poor care of themselves and the majority of Americans going to South America are retirees and people over 50 in most cases, not younger people (accept the backpacker crowd).
My understanding is that White men do very well in Colombia, especially those that have light hair and bright eyes (blue, green, grey) and in-shape.
While its easy to find attractive Colombian women online, IE models among the "normal" population, I find these to be much more than norm, I could be wrong though.
http://www.latin-wife.com/
http://www.latineuro.com/newest_women.php?city=Medellin
Some of the women on Latin Euro are just as hot as the woman you posted, I will give you credit there
2) Oh yes Latin America is actually worst than America. I think I would call it Racism 1.5 as its not that subtle and its not that obvious either. I will say its more about class structures in Latin America, so Afro-Latinos tend to be poor or about the same level of poverty the indigenous population experiences.
But Afro Colombians are also caught between the Colombian Gov/DEA/CIA backed vs FARC rebels
And I come back to a blog post I saw, I posted the link sometime ago and I doubt I can find it again. But Light skinned African-American lived in Colombia I think Bogota. He was dating a dark haired, light/white skinned Colombian woman. They were talking about the Afro-Colombians one day and she made some very disparaging comments about them. When he said "Hey I'm Negro", she retorted "No your not" and said something about he's too light skinned to be Negro and said "Why would you want to be Negro?" As she had a low opinion of them. Then when Henry Louis Gates did his series on Blacks in Latin America and they went to Colombia; I discovered there's a popular TV show in Colombia that presents some really negative stereotypes of Afro-Colombians.
If that's me putting two and two together to come up with four, counting also that as I said the majority of BM that end up with Colombian brides are Afro-Colombian. But then again, maybe that goes with the 90+% of BM that marry BW which means BW blow interracial dating out of proportion. As was shown in Diary of a Tired Black Man, ask randomly any BW how many BM and married to WW and they come up with some number between 20-30% when its actually about 10% (PEW's data updated to 2012 over the 2010 Census).
I just don't want to make it needlessly difficult to complete my task, not that learning Portuguese or Spanish is easy, certainly easier than German or Russian.
I am fit, civilized and decent looking