publicduende wrote:jmbPtforlife wrote:If you got some cash or have figured out how to work while being overseas and you like arab looking women than Colombia will do. If you want "white"ish women do eastern europe.
But what is your negative a** going to do to meet them. Spend some time on online dating. Should work. Do some cold approaches. Could work. Or you just gonna bitch because when you are out and about and look across the street ogling some girl she doesn't run over and profess her love.
All places have p***y . Even the USA. Just is about what is gonna happen for you based on a mix of what you want want quality wise and how hard you are willing to work for it.
But I don't feel I have been kidding myself because I have done what you somehow feel is impossible and I am not even good at this shit. So grow some balls and try some places out. Sit down objectively and decide how you will meet and date women and try all popular methods until something words for you. Just f***ing do it.
Cold approaches don't work in Colombia, like they don't work on 95% of the Earth surface. It's just the stuff of PUA scammers and the occasional TV docu-fiction.
The best way to find quality women, indeed quality
people, is to be relatively established in the host country - a decent job, or some strong social connections - and attend the local social life - house parties, some dancing & drinking in bars and fincas. Putting herself up on an online dating site is probably the last thing a Colombian young woman would do, since she has so many other options, all of which involving meeting face to face.
Thanks heaven, the bulk of Colombian society still prefers going out to socialise than tapping on their mobile phones on how awesome is the venue they've just walked into and will be pretending very hard to enjoy for the following 45 minutes.
This simple reality will be avoided by most men from the USA even while they continue to complain about their lack of success. The Instant On, TV Remote version of reality that most American men subscribe to, pretty well relegates them to P4P girls unless they are willing to change their attitudes.
>>>Why do men think that a great girl overseas should just roll over for them when he has not taken the time to connect with her culture and family in any meaningful way, and does not demonstrate some
kind of ongoing connection to her place that would sustain a long term relationship?
Many of the best girls can easily spot when they are being gamed- they are not interested in being
some manwhore's vacation GF. But of course, American men will continue to troll the world, blowing into this city of that, and post their "take" on the local girls, when in reality they have no clue beyond the bar girl or two they paid for.
The men who think differently have little competition.
Outwest