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When I was in massage therapy class almost every female in there from age 19 to age 50 had a kid. One girl was two weeks pregnant but had enrolled in a 7 1/2 month massage program for reasons I never cared to ask. Women pay a higher price for sex and in the state of Texas when I see all these 19 year old girls that got knocked up, I think to myself maybe she should have valued her virginity a little bit more.
But what about men? Why should men be voluntarily celibate? I am 27 and frustrated with involuntary celibacy. I used to go out to a salsa restaurant and I danced with a lot of women there but nothing ever came of it. They said they would come back next week but they never showed up. I just found the next attractive woman.
I hate the idea of being celibate but I am glad I didn't lose it in high school full of so many toxic personalities. I probably would have hated myself in retrospect. I don't want sex as much as a warm sweet woman next to me to give affection to. A lot of people just lose their virginity at a young age because society looks down on virginity. It is like I say, America is all about status.
So putting aside status and what everyone else thinks, why should an individual man suppress his desires?
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You should value your virginity because having sex with American women is the most demeaning activity you can engage in and it makes you feel worthless afterwards. Given enough time, you'll regret every relationship you've started and you don't need to end on the Jerry Springer show for that to happen.
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A man who has not experienced sexual intercourse (Virginity is a term best used for females) is depriving himself of the means to master sexually pleasing a women.
Practice makes perfect and men who have not gone down that road risk marrying and never being able to please his wife due to inexperience.
The longer one waits, the more of an issue it becomes due to embarrassment, fear, or insecurity.
Sexual intercourse should be viewed as a right of passage for a young man as is obtaining the drivers license, a HS diploma, and a first job.
Eh, they could have used reliable contraception or murdered the kid, as they had probably done in the past. Most likely they wanted to get pregnant, as it was in their financial best interests. By historical standards, 19 is relatively old to give birth for the first time. Yes, the should have been virgins until they married in most cases, but unfortunately this is not really an option for most females today.
I was a virgin until the age of 27 myself. But I did it on purpose because I'm hard-headed. Hey, women said they wanted a relationship first before sex... This is something that I seem to stand alone on with other men. Every other man I know has blasted me for not sleeping with these women. I used to be a bouncer in a nude bar and had the strippers there begging me for a 3-somes and this at the young and horny age of 21. Hell with it, I still said no. . .
I didn't lose my virginity until at the age of 27 when I finally found a woman who wanted to date me, and then I slept with her on the first date. he he
Virginity is different between men and women, but men should value it. A man that is a virgin and loses it to a girl that engaged in fornication would be dishonoring himself. Many men lose their virginity to fornicating women or sluts, and never be with a virgin. That is shameful and dishonorable. When a man loses his virginity to a virgin girl that is a passage into manhood and a source of honor and pride.
I am a virgin and I will only lose my virginity to an attractive virgin girl. I can resist the temptation. I would reject a perfect 10/10 with everything I would want physically in a girl, even if she was very sweet and nice, but she slept with one guy before me. I will only be with a virgin girl.
Virginity for a girl is that a virgin girl is very precious and is the best for marriage. An attractive girl that's a virgin would make a great bride. It's about marriage and giving the gift of virginity to the man she will marry. It also demonstrates the girl's virtue and that is the only gift that she can give once (girls that try and cheat by engaging in other acts of fornication are cheating so they aren't virgins). Virginity, Chastity, and Purity all overlap.
For men it's about honor, pride, and self-respect. What is the point of losing your virginity to a woman that engaged in fornication before you? Who would be the "man" of the relationship? She would if she had sex and you didn't. When a man loses his virginity to a non-virgin girl he is saying "I'm less of a man. I lost my virginity to a slut while other men are losing their virginity to virgin girls." Many men might not think it matters but it does matter for men. Losing virginity to a virgin girl should be very important for men. I might really want sex, but I want my honor and pride more than that. I want to be able to look in the mirror and respect myself. I'm 24 and I plan on waiting for my attractive virgin girl.
The traditional courtship and everyone remaining virgins was to ensure both the man and the woman were able to feel special in the relationship and have a deeper love for each other.
Jealousy, resentment, and the inability to respect each other are some of the reasons why marriages and relationships fail. A slut might be fun but a slut is a slut. A whore might be fun but a whore is a whore. A fornicator isn't a virtuous woman. A virgin girl (virtuous woman) is the woman a man should marry.
Virginity is different for men and women but each of them should value it for their own reasons.
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Actually Tsar, that is a pretty deep answer.
I recall I was 21 and this girl asked if I was a virgin and she was condescending when I said yes. Her reply was "You could have had sex with one of the ugly chicks in high school". Of course she also told me stories about how she was raped by her cousins at age 8. Yeah she was always talking about sex but over time I couldn't stand how she treated me and just walked away from her.
In her case, sex was what corrupted her.