Jester wrote:This would have been infinitely better for me, if I had done it. Maybe hard to find but worth looking.
Then look, and you shall find! There's many people of Eurasian background in the world. I don't think it's even hard to find in any way if you just look at the pure statistics here. There's many, MANY girls of Asian-White ancestry out there. All it takes is one that you find pleasing to the eye and pleasing in conversation, who shares much of the same views as you do. And of course with whom you share a mutual attraction towards one another. Such a girl may not be so easy to find but I doubt it will be hard either.
All I can say, man, is this: she exists! And she's out there! Trust me.
zboy1 wrote:MarcosZeitola, please let your sons or daughters be proud of their Asian heritage! Don't have them end up being self-hating Asian American types or another Elliot Rogers, PLEASE!
I will take this in mind raising them, and it was already my intention to do so. People should never hate the race(s) to which they belong, it's a preposterous notion. I want them to embrace their Asian side as much as I want them to embrace their European side. And I want them to never be ashamed of either, not ashamed of their mixed background. As far as self-hating Asian American types go; I am myself from Western Europe. But still, very worth thinking about.
zboy1 wrote:Also, have them be very aware of their Filipino culture and background; that way, they can use their dual backgrounds to a great advantage, because Asia is the future, and the West is in decline.
This is very true. The East is rising and the West sinking. Some of the West's brightest minds and greatest talents leave for Asia, whereas the influx in the West consists of mainly poor, uneducated fortune seekers from a variety of third world nations. If you were to see it as a scale, it doesn't require a lot of imagination to see the scale tipping. Likely we will see this happen within our lifetime and if it does, I want to be on the up-side as opposed to the down-side of things. That also goes for my children and grandchildren, of whom I plan to have many.
zboy1 wrote:OutWest--who is a White man married to a Filipina women, and has two mixed children--also agrees with this notion, and his doing everything possible to stay in the Philippines, and raise his kids to be proud mixed-race children who embrace their Asian side. Also, he wants them to take advantage of the economic center shifting towards Asia, and away from the West.
This is something that I myself intend to do as well. I think both my children and myself will ultimately benefit from such a decision, while at the same time their dual nationalities allow my children the option to live in my country for a while, see what life is like there and decide for themselves.
sea_dragon wrote:On average WMAF Eurasian men tend to look more Asian than AMWF Eurasians. It seems that the perception is that it takes any white man, even a beta one to have an Asian woman, but it takes an alpha Asian man to have a white woman.
Bruce Lee comes to mind; though I do not think in Alpha-Beta labels as I think of them as being rather childish, I don't think there's many men more "Alpha" then Mr. Lee. However speaking for myself, I am 6 feet tall and strongly built. Although I do not know exactly how genetics work and am hardly an expert on the matter, I don't think my sons will be very feminine looking. The men among my in-laws are the stocky and dark type of Filipino, whereas I am quite stocky\burly myself. I doubt the sons born from such a union will look like feminine Korean K-pop stars, but we'll see. I just have them play outside a lot and play sports just to be sure.