Did you even read what I wrote. Did I say anywhere that I try to improve myself for women? You are suggesting I need self improvement but I am happy with who I am already. You are in fact doing what the western woman does. Tells people they need to improve/change.abcdavid01 wrote:Well I didn't mean it like that. I certainly never meant to imply that you should try to be someone you're not. Just the opposite in fact. You should care more about yourself instead of following what any woman thinks. Don't chase, get girls to chase you. Act like yourself no matter what. Now that may seem like bad advice if "yourself" is unattractive or depressed, but it's not as if people want that for themselves anyway. So by saying "act like yourself" I mean your best self or your true self. Someone who doesn't lie to himself and who knows what he wants and gets it. Actually, I'm very direct with women. Its just what I know. There's no subtly. I get very confused about people my age who just hang out or hook up. I'd never do any of that. Too much drama. Better to just be clear about dating and defining relationships. Women may not be initiators, but you'll get more attention if you're not constantly pleasing. What about all the girls idolizing Jay Chou for example? So you work on self-improvement and give off this confident vibe. Girls notice it, give you some shy looks, you approach them and be very direct. Self-improvement is far more effective than improving yourself for the sake of women. Self-improvement leads to getting women as a side effect anyway. A man who improves himself for the sake of women has no higher ideals.Zionosis wrote:That sounds like game theory that is for beta's trying to act like alphas.abcdavid01 wrote:For me it's a zen thing. You stop focusing on women and focus on yourself. Then they just sort of gravitate towards you because you've made yourself so awesome. Learning a language can be part of that.
I never needed to act like who I am not and I have dated one girl and she was Asian and she was in fact the Japanese exchange student in our year 8 class.
No white women seems to like me for who I am or even like my looks.
I have been to Chinatown a lot and the women there seem really nice also.
Asian women don't seem to mind if you show them you like them and think about them. White women seem to think you are a loser if you do that and you must pretend you don't really care and somehow that makes them like you more. Very unnatural.
And about your thing about just specifically not thinking about women. That doesn't work. Women are not initiators. You have to show interest and initiate with them. This even goes for Asian women. You can't just talk to them bored and look disinterested because they will think you aren't interested.
I find it's easier to initiate and talk to Asian women because they are nice and I can read them. Most white women look like pissed off feminists who will go off at you if you talk to them.
Basically what I am saying is that with Asian women there don't seem to be mind games. With white women you must act deliberately how you don't feel at times and then how you really feel at other times. It's retarded. I still to this day don't give a damn about game theory. It only really applies to western women anyway.
Natural game theory thinking occurs less and less in more intelligent societies. Being introspective and even shy is more common the smarter the people get. Asian men are more shy and introverted on average than white men. That's why shy white men don't bother Asian women because in their culture it's rather normal.
In western culture you are a loser.
Also you talk about be your true self. I already am my true self. You are acting like some woman telling a man how to be a real man. lol
Also I am not compatible with white women and have a personality more like an Asian man than a white man. Does that mean you are suggesting all Asian men need self improvement. So no one can be naturally more quiet and sensitive. That's not a part of who they are according to you but just something they need to improve on.
Also I am not unattractive or depressed either.
And you are just flat out wrong about women chasing after guys. Let me tell you my brother is what you would call an Alpha and he has been with over at least 60 different women and most ranged from 7/10-9/10 and he has told me that women never initiate and you always have to initiate. With animals it's the same.
In fact that's the whole reason I have never been with a white woman because I find initiating with them hard because their personalities are not like mine. I find initiating with Asian women much more natural.
That's just who I am. I don't need improving or to be more like my brother. He is who he is and I am who I am. A family man would argue in fact that my brother needs improving and to take women more seriously and settle down with one but again no one should tell you who you should be. About the only thing we have in this life is to find things out for yourself, You can't have someone tell you what you should do. You have to find out who you are on your own.
Turns out I am a white man who is more compatible with Asian women. There are also white men who are more compatible with black women. etc
Also it's a scientific fact that the more intelligent an individual the more introspective and sensitive they will be. That's why Asian women don't mind if a white man is more sensitive because they are used to it with their own men. Where as to white women they seem to like the most outgoing male and that's probably why white women are fond of black men because they are the most outgoing and the least introspective and sensitive on average because of their lower intelligence.
Also you have to show interest in a woman if you are interested. :/
You seem delusional and you seem to have actually changed who you are for women reading too much game theory crap about pretending you aren't interested and women will come to you. Just about the only retarded thing you didn't say was "do you even lift"
Game theory is for idiots and if you find a woman it works on then she is an idiot because no self respecting woman would be attracted to a man that ignores her. That's weird kid behavior where they say if someone ignores you they like you. Seems common thinking among white people.
To be honest I am sick of seeing your replies like you never read or comprehended anything I wrote and just keep repeating game theory crap to me like "improve yourself, Women will like you".
Women already do like me if you bothered to read what I wrote, Foreign women are still women you know? In fact not being liked by western white feminist women is actually a compliment.
Also in my humble opinion you are significantly more unattractive than me. You remind me of how miscegenation with Asians can go wrong. Most of the time it ends up decent though like Keanu Reeves, kristin kreuk, maria ozawa, Bruce lee and Brandon Lee but there are cases where it goes wrong like Elliot Rodgers who looks weird and also......lol
