Who cares about eye contact?newlifeinphilippines wrote:that would explain why many good girls (church and some other places) dont show much eye attention to me in philippines as you would expect. Some do but many good girls dont. Its cause they are more worried about physicality or charisma/confidence which i really dont have, I only have just money.MarcosZeitola wrote:Just being 'nice' never made a woman wet. More like the opposite. Inside the Philippines, with so many men being in the same ranks when it comes to finance, what girls go for is physicality. A smart man would go abroad. He is decent, hardworking. He sends money home and supports entire families. Chances are his wife cheats on him with a local 'bad boy' such as the type of guy you saw the girl walking with.newlifeinphilippines wrote:the question is it a myth that filipinas are attracted to nice guys only like winston touts? In the malls i see a lot of filipino losers with hot women.
The 'nice guy' abroad, in turn, often has mistresses as well in Dubai, Canada, America or wherever it is he makes his money. All the 'bad boy' has to offer in most cases is his looks and attractiveness whereas the 'nice guy' has only money. His money still makes him attractive to some women however. If you have neither looks, nor money, you are screwed in such a society.
Even priests in the Philippines get laid plenty because they have money, status and often a sense of charisma. I have heard many cases of them having affairs with female choir singers or volunteers, often resulting in children being born. Thus even priests can be 'bad boys' in the Philippines, although they also bring money and status to the table.
The world is a crazy place, but some dynamics exist everything. To think the type of guys who score in the West would have no female attention abroad is a fallacy and a case of confirmation bias on the part of those going abroad to find women.
Just approach them as they are still a huge upgrade over western women.
Any normal dude shouldn't have no problem scoring with filipino women.
The dating scene in the phillipines is still leagues above that in America.