I am afraid NorthAmericanGuy is right about everything he has said in this quote. Your best chance of finding love as well as enjoying sex with a girl that's into you is in a western country and while you are in high school and university. Girls that age just want an attractive guy their own age to be with. They're far more sexual and open at that age too. They actually have a sex drive and are willing to try new things. Then after they're done with university they've already been with a bunch of guys, develop the jaded attitude about guys that NorthAmericanGuy mentions and they only care about their career and finding a guy with a high income, a nice house and who can be a father for the children she wants or already has. Sex and romance seem to be the last things on their mind.NorthAmericanguy wrote: Bstyle also brings up a good point that I feel that your best bet for finding love is probably going to be found within a western country because the women here in the west are raised on the concept of finding and falling in love above all else, where as in the east, young girls are coaxed to chose mates and marry more out of pragmatic and practical reasons (i.e, poverty).
That said, I think any mans best chance of finding love is those critical 4 to 8 years between high school and college. That's when you have the highest chance of finding a girl who is still a virgin, she's young and healthy, and she's not bitter or jaded from years of being pumped and dumped. You get a young girl like that, and you're her 1st for everything, the bond created is nothing like later on in your life when you meet women who 28 and over.
In Asia women seem to have this jaded attitude even from a young age. They don't seem interested in guys sexually, they just want to mooch off of guys for the most part, at least in the poorer parts of Asia, I can't speak for countries like Japan or Singapore. The dating life I had in Asia was pathetic to the dating life I had in America when I was in high school and university. The guys who like dating in Asia seem to be the ones who were desert dicks in university. Those guys seem impressed with cheap p4p and they don't seem to mind a woman mooching off them as long as they're getting laid every now and then because they never had anything before. For guys who experienced a dating life in university though, Asia is a major downgrade. You can't compare a young tight 20 year old girl that's sexually attracted to you to p4p or some frigid mooching poor girl in Asia. They're not even in the same ballpark pal.