newlifeinphilippines wrote:OutWest wrote:Taco wrote:newlifeinphilippines wrote:please let me f**k this other girl i said i didn't love this other girl i just want to use her for sex.
That would make a great greeting card. Don't ever get married.
As I advise Filipinas I know (and I know some beauties)- "Most Western Men in the Philippines
just want to use you for sex and they will never love you."
It is amazing how many times I have heard Western men complain how difficult it is to meet
"quality" girls, but by their behavior they clearly show they would not be capable of a relationship
with a "quality" girl. The honest ones stick to bar girls- at least there are few pretenses there.
By definition, these kinds of pursuits will always be full of drama and trouble. It is comic of course,
and as the OP says, he DOES know how to keep a thread going.LOL
Most filipina women just want to get paid or a visa out and could care less about loving us. They are the bigger scammers in my book at least sex is something to be enjoyed between teh two no one wants to be treated like a walking ATM. Of course im sure all teh women you know are exceptions. Cause you only talk to educated filipinas who you can trust your life savings with
There are plenty of scamming Filipinas to be found, at least enough to go with the men who often deserve them, but there are others as well. As you say, you are not interested in taking the time to find that kind, which is your option. You say you simply want to fill your 6 month vacation with a lot of sex and I am sure you will realize all of that. So you are right, it is a matter of life goals. One's life experiences do tend to be self-predictive at any rate. The thing that is odd, is that you seem to discredit the experiences of others in some attempt to make your own experience more legitimate.
So your REALLY know that some "old guy" is just being scammed? Do you? I know of a number of such marriages that are in their second decade and the girl shows no sign of walking. I would say that the girls open to an easy lay are pretty likely to be scammers, so again, your experience may be self-selecting.
Some men may have a far different experience because they approach with far different goals and
a completely different mindset. That does not make you less free to go for what you want.
As you say, you know how to generate a buzz online. Most of us do not have a clue how to do that.
There are also men who know how to generate love in the heart of a woman. Maybe you don't want to do that (6 months only) or do not know how. Things like this account for very different life experiences either way. You went to have a good time. Can I say that you are not really having it?
Some men go places in search of love. How do you know what they really find?
I know all kinds of girls- from poor to rich, and their are quality hearts to be found at all levels.
By your own admission, you are here to have a good time, lots of sex, and a vacation girlfriend or two. Presumably that is more rewarding than what you would be doing back in the states. Whether true or not, you come across as a player, and do not seem interested in what makes girls outside that realm tick. That may be because you are the young player or just looking for that sex vacation.
Girls (and their families) from outside that world tick quite differently. They have an uncanny ability to spot players and mongers and will say very clearly that they have NO interest in being some foreigner's vacation GF, no matter how fat his wallet.
It's a big country, with 100 million people. I have seen all kinds of scammers and rip-offs.
I have also seen girls with amazing character and heart. I married one.
I know of a girl from Davao that was courted by a humble obviously somewhat poor man from the USA. He has zero cash to flash. Raquel is a very beautiful girl and her friends chided her, telling her she could do much better. "Raquel, you are so luck! You are so pretty you can attract any man you want- get a lawyer or doctor!" She replied that Greg was poor, but the best man she had ever met.
They did make fun of her a lot though. They were married in a very modest church wedding in Davao. In about 9 months she flew to the USA to join him. A little bit of a surprise was waiting for her.
It turns out that her new husband was not totally honest with her. She wrote that she was totally shocked. Turned out that Mr Greg was a multimillionaire with large farms, an airplane and a lot of real estate otherwise. They both had chosen wisely. And no, she has not run off and divorced him. They are happily married with three children. That is not some men's cup of tea of course.
Why are players so sure that "Those other men are being scammed..."? Those other men have different purposes in life, so the results vary. It is as silly for one of those "other men" or one of the "old guys" to insist that the sex you talk about is all a fabrication.
Without knowing, you sound young, not at all interested in marriage, and looking for a good time.
There is plenty to be found for you in the Philippines. I know of one man from Phoenix that made 17 trips to the Philippines in less than two years...I think he was looking for a good time...LOL
BTW...if you can consistently get a buzz going online, you could bottle that stuff and sell it!
