The other issue is that even when you get a one night fling, more often than not, the woman is a whack job (drug and mental issues) and can follow you around, causing problems. One person I'd known, had to leave a job because the woman he was banging, showed up at the office and made a scene in front of everyone, including the executives. Well, he quickly had to leave that place as he was fully ostracized afterwards.Renatus wrote:Wow. Didn't know that p4p is forbidden in the USA. Tough times! Must make the dating game seem even more important to men then. In Europe (e.g. Germany ) , big brothels are commonplace and not really taboo.
The biggest depiction of this is the distinction between the nightlife in the city of Boston [ founding city of the original Puritans ] vs that of Montreal, 5 hours away by car. In Boston, every guy is ultra-aggressive and does everything in his power to impress upon the opposite gender. It's a pitiful scene and yes, renting a Porsche helps.James Bond wrote:Yes, America is one of the few countries in the world where p4p is still illegal. The rest of the world is light years ahead of the US in terms of sexuality, America is still puritanical.
In Montreal, due to all the strip clubs and legal esc@rting, the bar/pub scene is very relaxed and women do spend some time in attempting some conversation before any mind games. Usually, it's the Anglo ones who play the games. Knowing French is the key to attracting a French-Canadian and they are much better than Anglo-Canadians in almost every way. All and all, if you're tired, you don't need to pick up a mediocre '5' at a bar but can instead, go to a strip club and have a private dance with an '8' or a '9'. You can also make arrangements to have one at your hotel, as well. Regardless, it's a totally different scene from a US city where nothing is allowed.