newlifeinphilippines wrote:Sorry life isn't fair. Im gonna buy a wife that will be hotter than what most of the guys have here when im older because love isn't gonna excitement, a hot body to warm me in the bed WILL. My bargirl was hotter than any wife posted on this board and the sex was amazing. so was milf girl. Nurse girl was a nurse graduate and very hot but i blew her off the first time in person she left crying but she came back a 2nd but it went nowhere cause i had a gf and she was still in love with her foreign bf plus she was a golddiger so i dont think it would have lasted long she was looking for a easy ticket and lots of spending. In hindsight though it really doesn't matter they are all gold diggers for the most part. Now imagine if i was actually looking for a wife or didn't care about her wanting my money id get top notch.
You are trying it the (really, really) hard way, mate. Inflicting upon yourself decades of sexual abstinence and the odds than, at 50, you won't be as filthy rich as you think, or no country in the world will have girls poor and/or gullible enough to fall for your "purchase order"? All for what? To prove us that you can get a hot young woman who will have "amazing" (if Viagra-aided) sex with you and keep her young stud lovers on the side, and perhaps leave or divorce you when she sees a window of opportunity?
Wouldn't it just be a lot easier if you were to drop some of your cynicism and learn what it takes to be loved by a decent woman, and indeed how to find her?
For all the respect I nurture for Mr Zeitola and the amount of intellectual and emotional maturity that led him to be a true, non-whiny "happier abroader", I don't think his experience can't be equated and repeated. All it takes, really, is a honest heart and a resonance with the way of thinking, indeed the way of feeling, of the average Filipino family: simplicity, human warmth, togetherness. Those bamboo huts have lessons to teach us, if only we were willing enough to put our ears out.