Date in Asia - My experiences

xiongmao · Post by **xiongmao** » January 1st, 2014, 4:26 am

I dated dozens of women last year, but 0 were from DiA. I just failed to find ANYONE who was legit and also attractive.

Still, it's a good place to hone your skillz of spotting scammers, spammers, ladyboys and hookers.

joadams2k · Post by **joadams2k** » January 31st, 2014, 9:44 am

joadams2k · Post by **joadams2k** » January 31st, 2014, 9:49 am

For more dating resources, see the following Price Comparison Sites:

http://www.comparethedatingmarketplace.com

http://www.comparetheadultmarketplace.com

http://www.comparethemarketplace.com

Online Dating Networks:

http://www.theonlinedatingnetwork.com

http://www.networkfordating.com

http://www.theonlineadultdatingnetwork.com

http://www.networkforadultdating.com

Other comparison sites include the following:

http://www.comparefromus.com

http://www.comparebyus.com

http://www.comparethemoneymarketplace.com

http://www.comparethemediamarketplace.com

Enjoy!!

Seduction Sebi · Post by **Seduction Sebi** » February 4th, 2014, 11:46 am

I only have weird experiences with dateinasia.

On the one hand you get girls who want to have sex with you and marry you after a few seconds and on the other hand there are a lot of girls who use fake pictures. I would try other dating sites, such as the ones Winston suggested.

Ghost · Post by **Ghost** » February 4th, 2014, 6:41 pm

bladed11 · Post by **bladed11** » April 8th, 2014, 11:13 am

I think theres some feminist trolls on there from the British isles. I was talking to one then she gave me her last name and I looked it up it's a british name. Then at the end of the conversation they said I am mitch see you soon. I was like wtf mitch is a dudes name some feminist troll. This is how pathetic feminists are that they pose as asian women to troll good men looking. They are that jealous.

Be careful dont trust people on there. That site is full of trolls and just pathetic loser type people and loser feminists.

bladed11 · Post by **bladed11** » April 8th, 2014, 11:25 am

And yes there's dudes on there trying make money. I never was asked for money but was lied to plenty like some kind of troll victim. Hi I'm from filipines but shes not. Ya she was real but I pinged her she was from croatia. Probably running scams but decided instead of scamming me just to troll me. wtf? The problem with free sites I guess.

Post by **Winston** » April 8th, 2014, 1:39 pm

bladed11 wrote:And yes there's dudes on there trying make money. I never was asked for money but was lied to plenty like some kind of troll victim. Hi I'm from filipines but shes not. Ya she was real but I pinged her she was from croatia. Probably running scams but decided instead of scamming me just to troll me. wtf? The problem with free sites I guess.

If you want to make sure that someone is real, get them on skype webcam so you can see them.

Why don't you join Cherry Blossoms? That's the best site for meeting Filipinas.

http://www.blossoms.com/?adid=WP3044

quito · Post by **quito** » April 8th, 2014, 2:25 pm

bladed11 wrote:I think theres some feminist trolls on there from the British isles. I was talking to one then she gave me her last name and I looked it up it's a british name. Then at the end of the conversation they said I am mitch see you soon. I was like wtf mitch is a dudes name some feminist troll. This is how pathetic feminists are that they pose as asian women to troll good men looking. They are that jealous.

Be careful dont trust people on there. That site is full of trolls and just pathetic loser type people and loser feminists.

mitch is a girls name in philippines

Post by **Winston** » March 14th, 2015, 1:49 pm

While sending out messages to girls in China on DateinAsia, my profile suddenly got deleted for no reason. Has that happened to any of you before? Oh great. Why do I get picked on so much by Murphy's Law? Dang. When will such bad luck ever stop? It might be because I was copying and pasting letters, but everyone does that to save time and because it's more efficient since you can't write different letters to everyone. Plus I've done that for years, so why would that get me removed now? Sheesh.

When I log in, this is the message I get:

Your profile/account has been closed
Why is my profile closed?
It's probably because you have done one or more of the following:

Behaved rudely
Used profanities, offensive, dirty or sex(ual) language/topic.
Asked for money
Offered or sent money (If no one ever offers/sends money, no one will ever ask for money...)
Offered prostitution / escort services or sought prostitutes / escorts
Neglected to report / flag certain offenses to us (in our site reporting certain offences is mandatory)
Created more than one profile
Uploaded a photo that was not of yourself, or your photo was inappropriate
Child in photo (even your own child/children or yourself as a child is not allowed)
Identity Theft/Impersonation or in any other way created a fake profile with false information
Spammed by sending the same message to many different members
Advertising and/or linking to other sites
Made false complaints about other members
Discriminated other members for their sexual orientation
In any other way violated our terms of use
Who decided that my profile should be closed?
Usually this is done by our other members. Whenever someone makes a complaint, this complaint is stored in our system. When the number of complaints towards a profile reaches a certain level, that profile is closed.

Are there any other reasons for which my profile could have been closed?
We have spam and profanity filters in place. These filters may have decided to close your profile.

For how long will my profile remain closed?
Usually permanently. Howevever, on rare occations our filters or reporting system is in error. If this applies to your case, your profile will be reopened shortly.

Why didn't you warn me before closing my profile?
We did. When you signed up to this site you agreed to comply with our terms of use, or otherwise your account would be closed. There are also warnings on the chat/message pages and on the profile edit pages regarding this.

Can people still see my photo and other profile information?
No. We have removed your photo and it is no longer possible to view your profile.

As you can see, it doesn't tell you much. I tried to send DateinAsia this letter below, but I can't send it because their contact form page has a "human vs. robot test" that isn't actually there but the system keeps trying to find anyway, thus making it technically impossible for anyone to send a letter through that page. What stupid doe doe heads these owners must be, to put up a contact page that no one can use. Have a look for yourself:

https://www.dateinasia.com/Contact.aspx

As you can see, it shows this text at the bottom:

Human vs. Robot test: *

However, there is no field for such a test, so although the system requires it, there is no way to complete that field. What nimcompoops. How did the world get so stupid and incompetent? Where is common sense?

This is the letter I was trying to send them:

Dear DIA,
While messaging members in China, my profile was suddenly deleted without reason. I did NOT violate any of the rules on your TOS page. I think the system might have falsely flagged my account by mistake. I have been a member for many years and have NEVER violated any of your TOS rules nor did I do so today. You can check this if you like. I am 100 percent sure of it.

Sure I may copy and paste the same messages to multiple members sometimes, however, they are not spam messages advertising anything. They are merely legitimate self introduction letters. No one has the time to write individual letters to many members of course. We all know that. So some copying/pasting of letters is necessary. DIA does this too when it sends form letters. It's part of life. I'm sure you understand. After I get responses, then I write personalized letters. So all my letters are legit.

Can you please reopen my account since I did nothing wrong?

Thanks,
Winston

droid · Post by **droid** » March 14th, 2015, 2:52 pm

Sorry that happened Winston, did you have any girls lined up?
I can see the test on my laptop. It's probably the mobile version that sucks.
They do say support is "limited' though and they don't guarantee a response Lol

Post by **Winston** » March 24th, 2015, 1:38 am

droid wrote:Sorry that happened Winston, did you have any girls lined up?
I can see the test on my laptop. It's probably the mobile version that sucks.
They do say support is "limited' though and they don't guarantee a response Lol

I am on my laptop. How can you see it? Which browser are you using?

I had one girl lined up from there, and just before my profile was deleted, I managed to send her my Wechat and QQ, which she still received. So she contacted me the next day. I mentioned her in my China update thread.

viewtopic.php?f=11&t=26294

Post by **Winston** » March 24th, 2015, 1:42 am

Ok I do see the human vs. robot CAPTCHA test now. I don't know why it wouldn't show before. Murphy's Law again I guess.

Falcon · Post by **Falcon** » October 31st, 2015, 8:45 am

How women from each country respond to me on DIA, in order of how much interest and attention I get, and how likely the ladies would reply.
I communicate with them in their native languages.

1. Philippines - Most will reply. Quite a few will be absolutely thrilled to talk to me. I'm bombarded with attention. It can get hard to choose!
2. Indonesia - Maybe half will reply. More career women and "leftover women". Definitely pickier than Filipinas, but still quite friendly.
3. Thailand - Some reply, but not that many. They're pickier now. Thailand is also a lower-middle income country like Malaysia now.
4. China - A few, but short platonic chats. Most don't reply. You get more career women and "leftover women".
5. Taiwan - ZERO ethnic Taiwanese reply to me. Not including Southeast Asians living in Taiwan. And the irony is that I'm Taiwanese-American!

Look at the ranking. This pretty much corresponds to economic development.

Rock · Post by **Rock** » October 31st, 2015, 10:54 am

Falcon wrote:How women from each country respond to me on DIA, in order of how much interest and attention I get, and how likely the ladies would reply.
I communicate with them in their native languages.

1. Philippines - Most will reply. Quite a few will be absolutely thrilled to talk to me. I'm bombarded with attention. It can get hard to choose!
2. Indonesia - Maybe half will reply. More career women and "leftover women". Definitely pickier than Filipinas, but still quite friendly.
3. Thailand - Some reply, but not that many. They're pickier now. Thailand is also a lower-middle income country like Malaysia now.
4. China - A few, but short platonic chats. Most don't reply. You get more career women and "leftover women".
5. Taiwan - ZERO ethnic Taiwanese reply to me. Not including Southeast Asians living in Taiwan. And the irony is that I'm Taiwanese-American!

Look at the ranking. This pretty much corresponds to economic development.

Yes, very interesting. It's largely consisten with my online contact tests with people from various countries too.

I was just in Indonesia (Jakarta) a couple three weeks ago and it pretty much fit in exactly where you placed it in real life. The only difference is that I found Indos to be more approachable in public, warmer, and more smiling than Philippines (Metro Manila).

Now many of you guys go on about how you get all this attention in Philippines. Well, the hinterland of Philippines is still abysmally poor and has a published poverty rate much higher than even Indonesia's. But the Philippines National Capital Region (NCR) or Metro Manila has a GDP per head about 3 times that of the rest of Philippines. And the NCR figure includes the large squatter tracts such as Tondo. So economically, NCR is already in the Philippines future lol.

As such, the girls up here (where I spend the bulk of my in-country time) are on average significantly different than other parts of of the islands. I would like to get one of you gwapo/pogi Romeos (Davewe, Falcon, Taco, Pete, Will N. Dowd) up here and follow around a place like MOA, Megamall, or SM North to see just how much unsolicited attention, stares, and flirting you elicit. Sure, people here are light and if you joke around and act fun, you may get smiles and giggles. You may even get digits from certain girls you hit on. But, understand, a lot of people here who don't fall into the desperate class are actually quite leery and suspicious of strangers or random people who approach them. They are generally polite, friendly, and accommodating as is the culture here. But I don't think it's actually so much in the culture to do lots of cold approaching here. What I notice is that people in malls are in their groups of family or friends and kinda keep their attention within. I don't see a lot of lone wolves or co-mingling.

Even if you follow around a handsome local or foreigner, you will probably see him mostly get ignored. Unless he's a celeb or say a 6'7" tall basketball player, he's pretty much gonna blend in. If you don't agree, come on up here, meet up with me in one of those malls, and let me follow you around from a short distance, and observe how many girls actually flirt with you.

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