If you can't leave America - what state has the best women?

[jamesbond]

Why would you bother when the finest ladies in the world are outside the USA? Any woman worthy over 30 yo that is single has already been married and divorced and probably has kids. That is a lot of baggage and does not make you #1 in their life...think about it.

Better to date oversees and bring her back if you can't leave.

I live in the Chicago suburbs and when I say there are NO single women here, I mean there are NO single women here! Now, there are some divorced women over age 30 who have kids but I wouldn't get involved with these women unless they were literally the last women on the face of the earth!

The Midwest as a whole sucks when it comes to meeting women. In the small towns the women get married right out of high school or college. In the big cities in the Midwest, the good looking women have boyfriends and are never available.

There really is no "good place" to meet quality single women in the United States. Your best option is to go overseas and meet women that way.

[travelsouth]

Why would you bother when the finest ladies in the world are outside the USA? Any woman worthy over 30 yo that is single has already been married and divorced and probably has kids. That is a lot of baggage and does not make you #1 in their life...think about it.

Better to date oversees and bring her back if you can't leave.

I live in the Chicago suburbs and when I say there are NO single women here, I mean there are NO single women here! Now, there are some divorced women over age 30 who have kids but I wouldn't get involved with these women unless they were literally the last women on the face of the earth!

The Midwest as a whole sucks when it comes to meeting women. In the small towns the women get married right out of high school or college. In the big cities in the Midwest, the good looking women have boyfriends and are never available.

There really is no "good place" to meet quality single women in the United States. Your best option is to go overseas and meet women that way.

You are right about small town Midwest. You are wrong about Chicago. There are plenty of available women out and about (especially socially on a Friday or Saturday Night). Granted their personalities might be off putting, BUT they are out there.

[jamesbond]

You are right about small town Midwest. You are wrong about Chicago. There are plenty of available women out and about (especially socially on a Friday or Saturday Night). Granted their personalities might be off putting, BUT they are out there.

I was talking about the suburbs and not the city of Chicago. The problem with living in Chicago is that it has the highest murder rate in the country and it has the highest sales tax of any city in America.

Also, the cost of an apartment in Chicago is outrageous, about $ 1,300 for a one bedroom! The job market in Chicago is horrible as well. This is why I live and work in the suburbs where unfortunately there are NO single women!

[MrMan]

What if I still prefer white chicks looks-wise? I'm just not that into most Mexican women, it's not that I'm racist or anti-immigrant, I just find they are not particularly attractive and age quickly and badly. There are better Latin American women than Mexicans.

Someone explained to me that the Mexicans who sneak into the US are typically of Indian heritage, poor folks who live in villages. Down in Mexico city, there are Castillian-Spanish looking people. Some parts of Latin America have people of Indian heritage, others of European, some blacks. Argentina and Chile have a lot of Spanish, Italian, and even German descendants there. There are Mediterranean looking Latinos, and Mexicans, and fair haired, light skinned ones, too, just not as common. If you like dark haired white women but not European culture, you could look at Turkey or central Asia.

[Bane]

OP, if you still prefer the "white look" and are looking for Latin women, Argentine women should have what you're looking for. Don't know about their personalities, though.

[Ghost]

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[travelsouth]

You are right about small town Midwest. You are wrong about Chicago. There are plenty of available women out and about (especially socially on a Friday or Saturday Night). Granted their personalities might be off putting, BUT they are out there.

I was talking about the suburbs and not the city of Chicago. The problem with living in Chicago is that it has the highest murder rate in the country and it has the highest sales tax of any city in America.

Also, the cost of an apartment in Chicago is outrageous, about $ 1,300 for a one bedroom! The job market in Chicago is horrible as well. This is why I live and work in the suburbs where unfortunately there are NO single women!

Ok now we are grasping at straws here. As a resident of the greater metro you can go out and meet women if you so desire.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

This question is akin to, "Which prison has the best food?"

[Moretorque]

This question is akin to, "Which prison has the best food?"

America has become that bad over the last 50 years ?

[S_Parc]

Unfortunately, the best part(s) of America are generally the places where one had either grown up in or had gone to a residential college in.

Here's why ... ppl do not make friends easily anymore. And thus, one's hometown/metro area tends to be the place for one to network and meet others, even if it's platonic and more designed to help in the job search or career advancement process. I'd especially found this to be the case for New England and lots of upstate New York.

Also, certain collegiate regions, like let's say Ann Arbor Michigan or Austin Texas, tend to have denizens who keep the student thing going on indefinitely, never really becoming like regular adults who don't hang out and do things.

Other than that, all bets are off.

[Moretorque]

College today is a joke.

[The Un-American]

Unfortunately, the best part(s) of America are generally the places where one had either grown up in or had gone to a residential college in.

Here's why ... ppl do not make friends easily anymore. And thus, one's hometown/metro area tends to be the place for one to network and meet others, even if it's platonic and more designed to help in the job search or career advancement process. I'd especially found this to be the case for New England and lots of upstate New York.

Also, certain collegiate regions, like let's say Ann Arbor Michigan or Austin Texas, tend to have denizens who keep the student thing going on indefinitely, never really becoming like regular adults who don't hang out and do things.

Other than that, all bets are off.

So basically, I should just 1) Stay in Oregon, and hope I can find a babe by networking 2) Eastern Europe/Turkey or bust 3) Learn to like brown suga

[S_Parc]

Unfortunately, the best part(s) of America are generally the places where one had either grown up in or had gone to a residential college in.

Here's why ... ppl do not make friends easily anymore. And thus, one's hometown/metro area tends to be the place for one to network and meet others, even if it's platonic and more designed to help in the job search or career advancement process. I'd especially found this to be the case for New England and lots of upstate New York.

Also, certain collegiate regions, like let's say Ann Arbor Michigan or Austin Texas, tend to have denizens who keep the student thing going on indefinitely, never really becoming like regular adults who don't hang out and do things.

Other than that, all bets are off.

So basically, I should just 1) Stay in Oregon, and hope I can find a babe by networking 2) Eastern Europe/Turkey or bust 3) Learn to like brown suga

Well, the 1) option, despite its complete improbability, had in fact, happened to me, as I'm settling down with a former classmate, who was born a lesbian and is a New Englander like me.

As for everyone else, make 2) the primary goal post, as 1) and 3) are highly unlikely for any long term success.

[Mr.Darcy]

If you are white, average looking, and have a white collar job than you should come to the southeast.

[jamesbond]

If you are white, average looking, and have a white collar job than you should come to the southeast.

How is Atlanta when it comes to dating? Or Miami or Charlotte? I would be curious to know. I heard that single women SUPPOSEDLY outnumber single men in Atlanta.

At least the winters there are short and mild, in Chicago it's like living at the North Pole from the middle of November to the middle of April.